[identity profile] unreal.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] omonatheydid
Rape is in the South Korean news headlines once again. However, this time it is not the brutality of a U.S. soldier but the perfidy of a Korean talent agency chief that occupies the front page. While the story is an old one, that of men using alcohol and position to coerce women into sex, the alleged addition of an “aphrodisiac” is the twist that changes a Korean dating norm into the crime of rape. This change occurs because the addition of a drug, rather than only soju, to the beer gives the victims a way to prove that they were either unconscious or unable to resist the attack.


For the South Korean rape law requires a perpetrator have sexual intercourse with a female either through the use of violence or intimidation or by taking advantage of the victim’s condition of unconsciousness or inability to resist. And Korean prosecutors and courts define the latter as requiring complete and total unconsciousness or inability to resist, not just an alcoholic blackout brought about by excessive alcohol consumption.

In practice this means that every woman in South Korea who drinks even moderately is at the risk of being forced into sexual intercourse with any man whom she happens to accompany, or even whom she meets that evening. Date rape and acquaintance rape are unfamiliar western concepts and many young Korean women are not cognizant of the potential danger. The frequency of such drunken assaults combined with an outdated and misogynistic attitude that any woman who drinks gets what she deserves means that a victim who reports such a crime often suffers through irrational police and prosecutorial interrogations. Victims of rape also endure repeated questioning concerning their attire. If a woman was wearing a short skirt or a low cut blouse prior to the attack she will be blamed for having “lit a fire” that a man cannot control and the result of which he cannot be blamed for. Even more egregious is the oft cited concept that rape is merely a man’s mistake that should be forgiven. All of these legal and cultural factors combined mean that even the few rapes that are reported are lightly prosecuted and the victim is often forced by the legal system to accept a monetary settlement from her rapist, effectively in return for services rendered.

Fortunately for the women of South Korea the rape laws may soon change. This change could come from the confluence of three events. The first of which is the sordid tale of the talent agency chief and his proteges recounted above. The second involves the strong opprobrium the Korean police are under for their actions during a recent rape and murder in Suwon. In that case the lackadaisical response of the police to the victim’s call for help during a rape eventually resulted in more than 13 hours passing before her body was found hacked into over 300 pieces and stuffed into 14 trash bags. Perhaps if rapes were dealt with, in practice, as serious crimes the actions of the police may have been different. Perhaps the police would have made a stronger effort to locate the victim instead of surmising to each other that it was merely a domestic dispute.

The third event in this confluence is the recent National Assembly elections in which women made substantial gains in representation and power. In 2012 women have risen to the highest rungs of power in South Korea. The resurgent Saenuri party is headed by a woman who is arguably the most powerful person in South Korea. In the election more women were elected to the National Assembly than ever before. Many were elected by a movement encouraging women to vote for women representatives who vowed to change the antiquated sex crime laws of South Korea. So now is the time for the leader of the majority party and the elected women who made that vow to work towards enacting new legislation.

As a blueprint for this change, the recent redefinition of rape by the American FBI would be a worthy goal. This definition of rape includes any nonconsensual penetration, no matter how slight, of the female sex organ or the anus of either sex with any body part or object. The definition also includes nonconsensual oral penetration by a sex organ. Further, and most important for the South Korean context, consent cannot be given if the victim is intoxicated. And intoxication does not require an alcohol induced coma but includes an amount of drink equivalent to drunk driving. Further if the alcohol is provided by the perpetrator than any amount of alcohol consumption negates the victim’s consent. Finally physical resistance is not required to show a lack of consent.

In addition to redefining rape the police and the prosecutors need sensitivity training for handling victims of rape. While rape centers designed to deal with victims of sex crimes are a recent positive step, the police and prosecutors continue to interview these victims in open workrooms where private details are discussed in the presence of uninvolved police or prosecutorial staff. Even victims or suspects in unrelated crimes can be present in the same office as the rape victim. Private interview rooms with specially trained staff are a necessity.

These days in South Korea it often seems the only way to receive justice is to have a movie made about your life or to die in a shocking manner, either by suicide or murder. While we hope that no more of the women raped in the last year kill themselves, perhaps the minor celebrity status of the young women abused by the talent agency chief or the horrid fate of the woman ultimately victimized by the negligence of the Suwon police might so incense the population that the government will act. Until that day young women in South Korea will continue to spend the last few months of high school drinking large amounts of soju with their trusted friends in an effort to develop a high tolerance to alcohol before going off to college.

Source: koreaherald

Date: 2012-04-25 04:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shineebambi.livejournal.com
I really hope try change the law. Just reading about what isn't considered rape in Korea is giving me the shivers. I have a friend in Korea who is terrified of taking taxis alone after 10pm because Aperently it common enough for taxi cab drivers to take women who have been drinking and live outside of Seoul to a different location then they asked and raping them before being them home.
Edited Date: 2012-04-25 04:10 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-04-25 04:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] coccinity.livejournal.com
:/ that is truly disgusting. for an economically advanced country, south korea still retains really backward and chauvinistic values.

Date: 2012-04-25 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hitsujiga.livejournal.com
omg ewww i just wanna....DX

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Date: 2012-04-25 06:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sisterjune.livejournal.com
oh my gooood what? and of course nothing is being done about it. -_-

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Date: 2012-04-26 12:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] modestgoddess79.livejournal.com
so many perverted stories involving the taxi drivers there. I heard they invite you to sit up front then touch you inappropriately.

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Date: 2012-04-25 04:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] benihime99.livejournal.com
Dear SK legislator, please note that yes =/=not saying no
Stop with the victim shaming: wearing a short skirt is not an invitation to rape.
Even if I sometimes think men are animals, they're not, they can control themselves and raping someone is not just a mistake one can escape with a lil' "you bad boy don't do it again"

For the South Korean rape law requires a perpetrator have sexual intercourse with a female

Just want to point out that according to SK law rape victim can only be female or child, and that's fucking wrong

Time for some change SK
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Date: 2012-04-25 04:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hitsujiga.livejournal.com
omg ikr, it's only women being considered possible victims of rape. i am so mad and sad for men being victims of any nonconsensual act. everything is so frustrating and just..ddskjfsdkfhdsf.

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Date: 2012-04-25 04:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asnindie.livejournal.com
If a woman was wearing a short skirt or a low cut blouse prior to the attack she will be blamed for having “lit a fire” that a man cannot control and the result of which he cannot be blamed for. Even more egregious is the oft cited concept that rape is merely a man’s mistake that should be forgiven.

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Fuck this world.

I've heard this argument too many times, this isn't a problem just in Asia. My god what is sacred anymore in this world? Men can't control their desire? Excuse fucking me? And no men shouldn't be forgiven and at no point should the worth of a woman be that low that men think they can do what they want. Jesus christ, how can women themselves be so blind to the plight of rape victims. I just can't anymore. I want women vigilantes to fucking beat the shit out of these perverts.

accept a monetary settlement from her rapist, effectively in return for services rendered.

Those poor women. The scariest part is of how common I bet sexual assaults and rape is but goes unreported. All those girls with so many scars and you'd never know. I don't even want to think about how unreported child abuse is;_;
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Date: 2012-04-25 06:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sisterjune.livejournal.com
how can women themselves be so blind to the plight of rape victims

Internalized misogyny. But also and this is important to remember, many women cannot deal with the reality that as women they are always under threat of sexual abuse and or violence by men. and frankly while their ways of dealing with that are damaging to other women and wrong I understand their feelings. When you stare the stark truth in the face, that ANY woman can be raped. no not just "pretty" ones, not just "slutty" ones, not just "drunk" ones and that we as women have to build our lives around that threat, it just becomes really fucking depressing. It's so much easier to tell yourself "maybe those other girls but not ME". I know because I used to did it once too. Alot of women wake up one day and realize how wrong they were. But alot more don't. its just a fucking mess.

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Date: 2012-04-25 04:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cotxpaxi.livejournal.com
was something like this published in the korean language papers tho, just curious

Date: 2012-04-25 05:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yasmine2009.livejournal.com
I couldn't even finish reading this. I just can't. I'm going to class.

Date: 2012-04-25 05:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] uledy.livejournal.com
There are so many things wrong with the laws and practices discussed in this article that it's difficult to know where to start. I cannot possibly imagine living a society whose government and general population holds and accepts these policies and ways of thinking.

There's been debate for centuries on whether politics engenders or reflects social change and visa versa. I can't speak for SK in regards to this debate, but right now, politics AND society are horribly failing sexual assault victims everyday. One of the two, government or society, needs to step-up and put a stop to all forms of sexual violence.

Date: 2012-04-25 05:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dark-skada.livejournal.com
One of the two, government or society, needs to step-up and put a stop to all forms of sexual violence.
Both would be nice, especially if they're tackling two different fronts. Something like government redefining and changing laws, and society taking away misogynistic stigmas, would be an ideal combination for quicker positive change.

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Date: 2012-04-25 05:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katzsong.livejournal.com
Until that day young women in South Korea will continue to spend the last few months of high school drinking large amounts of soju with their trusted friends in an effort to develop a high tolerance to alcohol before going off to college.

WHAT??!! some people, especially Asian, are born with the lack of a specific enzymes to break down alcohol (acetaldehyde dehydrogenase). Therefore, alcohol is more toxic to them and they get drunk easily, no matter how they "train" themselves. I probably one, as well. I think Asian people with drinking culture should learn about that and embrace their "weakness" against alcohol, instead of trying to fit on the old-fashioned cookie cutter.

Anyway, back to the topic, I really hope the old law will change. Though it's kinda sad that a series of tragedies had to happen before we see the change, but I really hope they're learning from those.

Date: 2012-04-25 06:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sisterjune.livejournal.com
The whole article is full of some atrocious but THIS: the legal system to accept a monetary settlement from her rapist, effectively in return for services rendered. takes the fucking cake for me. SERVICES RENDERED? I Just, I cannot imagine a more insulting thing to tell a survivor of rape/sexual assault. what the ever loving fuck. that is their idea of JUSTICE? and I thought it was bad in the US man.

Date: 2012-04-25 06:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asth77.livejournal.com
I can't believe the korean mentality influences the law so much that they did not even considered men who can be raped

I mean, in so many countries it is a taboo and shit. But in those same countries, the law punishes rapists whether they're males or females.

Anyway, I'm glad that this year, many female public figures are giong forward! even in the entertainment industry, the older korean actresses are really trendy and have a great image, different from some years ago.

Date: 2012-04-25 07:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] muzegrey.livejournal.com
I agree with all this.

But I still think as a preemptive measure, for your own personal safety, it's best not to get drunk ANYWHERE without trusted friends. Isn't that common sense? I'm not saying to blame the victim for getting raped because no one should get raped just because they get drunk, but it's dangerous in many ways. So... just be careful! Use common sense.

Never assume that it "won't happen to me". Because that is the most dangerous way to think.

Of course rape can still happen even if you never get drunk or never take a taxi or wear a potato sack. But there are precautions that should still be taken.

And just remember that there are areas in Seoul that are incredibly dangerous and others that are not at all.

Date: 2012-04-25 07:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shineebambi.livejournal.com
If I want to drink alone as get drunk tho I should have to worry that a man is going to take advantage of me. No one ever talks to men about using the buddy system to keep safe ecause if they drink alone and something happens society doesn't blame them. Do I drink with friends because I'm afraid I'll get raped yes but I should have to be and telling woman it's just common sense adds to rape culture

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Date: 2012-04-25 07:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lovelyxbeauty.livejournal.com
This is just disgusting, I know that South Korea is quite a 'young' country, but the fact that it could build up it's economy so quickly but still be behind in basic human rights is disgusting. I really hope there is a change and it's nice to see that more woman are in government, because that also shows that the public wants change as well.

her body was found hacked into over 300 pieces and stuffed into 14 trash bags.

this is just sick, and the fact that she could've been saved makes it even more sickening.

Date: 2012-04-25 07:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] k0dama.livejournal.com
"An outdated and misogynistic attitude [towards women]" in general is the biggest problem here.
There needs to be tougher laws to protect citizens, especially women.

Date: 2012-04-25 07:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] falling-empress.livejournal.com
I feel like I'm back at the mosque listening to people say outrageous and outdated things.

Seriously Korea, what the fuck.

Date: 2012-04-25 10:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightframes.livejournal.com
The current law sounds like it's purposely written to make it difficult to charge someone with rape... it's sad.

Date: 2012-04-25 11:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zero82591.livejournal.com
IT'S 20-FUCKING-12 FOR FUCK'S SAKE

Date: 2012-04-26 12:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kaylapoo.livejournal.com
oh jesus christ what the fuck

Date: 2012-04-26 12:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chibi-rei.livejournal.com
I just don't trust the justice system here at all. It's scary to think about what if (God forbid) something would happen to me -- knowing that someone could potentially get away with it.

It's like... I can't understand why so many people get away with shit. The laws are made for a reason: to protect people or victims. But it seems like we always read stories about the criminals being protected from shame or some nonsense. F*** you. If you break the law then you should be punished.

One of my friends was attacked here while walking home. The guy punched her, but I heard - luckily - someone saved her from anything worse happening. It's easy to think "Oh Korea is safer than the US", but crime exists everywhere.

Date: 2012-04-26 03:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] deerlike.livejournal.com
This last sentence is so depressing: Until that day young women in South Korea will continue to spend the last few months of high school drinking large amounts of soju with their trusted friends in an effort to develop a high tolerance to alcohol before going off to college.

The implications behind it, reminds me of other similar precautions young women take, like not walking into a dimly-lit parking-garage, or pulling out your phone if you think someone is following you on the sidewalk late at night.

Date: 2012-04-26 10:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ninjacandy.livejournal.com
Why are people so surprised that an 'economically advanced' country would hold such institutionalized ideas!?

Date: 2012-04-26 02:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] clicheterms.livejournal.com
all of this shit just makes me want to lock myself in at home and never leave.

In addition to redefining rape the police and the prosecutors need sensitivity training for handling victims of rape. While rape centers designed to deal with victims of sex crimes are a recent positive step, the police and prosecutors continue to interview these victims in open workrooms where private details are discussed in the presence of uninvolved police or prosecutorial staff. Even victims or suspects in unrelated crimes can be present in the same office as the rape victim. Private interview rooms with specially trained staff are a necessity.
yes to all of this
i cannot handle how callously rape cases appear to be handled in general
that is a major factor in why rape cases are so underreported

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