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Dr. Park Sang-hoon, head of a top-ranked clinic in southern Seoul, consulted with Chang Hae-jin after her double-jaw surgery, a procedure that involves cutting and rearranging the upper and lower jaws

With a blue pen, Dr. Seo Young-tae drew arches on Chang Hyang-sook’s eyelids, marking where to cut and stitch to create a new fold to make her eyes look larger and rounder. It is an operation so common here that most women on Seoul streets seem to have a double fold, though only one of every five Koreans is born with one.

“Promise you’ll do a great job on my eyes,” Ms. Chang said to Dr. Seo. “Never mind the pain. I can take it.”

For Ms. Chang, 25, a makeup artist, the 2.3 million won, or about $2,000, eye job is just the finishing touch in a program several months long to remake her face. In the previous two months, Ms. Chang had not only had her teeth rearranged, but her jaw bones cut and repositioned, for 22 million won.


“You must endure pain to be beautiful,” she said, adding that an eye job is so routine these days “it’s not even considered surgery.”

Cosmetic surgery has long been widespread in South Korea. But until recently, it was something to keep quiet about. No longer.

And as society has become more open about the practice, surgeries have become increasingly extreme. Double-jaw surgery — which was originally developed to repair facial deformities, and involves cutting and rearranging the upper and lower jaws — has become a favorite procedure for South Korean women who are no longer satisfied with mere nose jobs or with paring down cheekbones to achieve a smoother facial line.

Celebrities have helped to drive the trend, as they scramble to keep ahead of digital technology that mercilessly exposes not only their physical imperfections, but any attempts to remedy them, said Rando Kim, a professor of consumer science at Seoul National University.

“Wide-screen and high-definition TV put pressure on them to look good in close-ups,” Mr. Kim said. “And with the Internet, where people like to post ‘before’ and ‘after’ pictures, they can no longer hide it. So they go public, often talking proudly about it on TV.”

That, in turn, has encouraged greater openness among ordinary South Koreans.

“It used to be all hush-hush when mothers brought their daughters in for a face-lift before taking them to match-makers,” said Dr. Park Sang-hoon, head of ID Hospital. “Now young women go plastic surgery shopping around here.”

Dr. Park’s is a top-ranked clinic in Seoul’s “beauty belt,” a swarm of hundreds of plastic surgery clinics clustered around a string of subway stations in the upscale districts of southern Seoul.

“Where did you get it?” asks one of the ads for clinics that cover the walls at the entrances of the Apgujeong subway station, the center of the beauty belt. “What about your nose? And your chin?”

Parents may promise their daughter an eye job if she passes her college entrance exam. In Apgujeong, it is not hard to find young women shopping in department stores immediately after their surgeries, wearing masks or sunglasses.

“Korean women want a revolution with their face,” said Dr. Park, a leading practitioner of double-jaw surgery.

“What we do in double-jaw surgery is to reassemble the face,” said Dr. Park, whose clinic has performed 3,000 such procedures in the past six years. “Normal people become, sort of, super-normal, and pretty people prettier.”

In traditional Korea, tampering with the body bestowed by one’s parents was a violation of Confucian precepts that also discouraged cremation and, later, organ and blood donations.

But in recent decades, cosmetic surgery has become a weapon in Koreans’ efforts to impress others, “like buying an expensive handbag,” said Whang Sang-min, a psychologist at Yonsei University.

Cosmetic surgery is not covered by national health insurance, making it difficult to determine the exact size of the industry. A survey last year by the Seoul city government found that 31.5 percent of residents 15 or older were willing to undergo surgery to improve their looks. In 2007 the percentage was 21.5.

In a 2009 survey by the market research firm Trend Monitor, one of every five women in Seoul between the ages of 19 and 49 said they had undergone plastic surgery.

The number of doctors trained as plastic surgeons has almost doubled in the past decade to 1,500. But 4,000 clinics provide cosmetic surgery, most of them in Seoul’s beauty belt, because the law allows other doctors to switch to this lucrative field. As competition heats up, some clinics host “Cinderella events,” where patients are given free surgery and appear in their ads.

Doctors say their main patients are young women entering the marriage and job markets. “As it gets harder to find jobs, they’ve come to believe they must look good to survive,” said Choi Set-byol, a sociologist at Ewha Woman’s University.

When the government imposed a 10 percent tax on five popular types of cosmetic surgery in July, civic groups as well as surgeons protested that this discriminated against women and the poor.

One consequence of the boom is that young women look increasingly alike, doctors say. “They come in with photos of starlets whose face they want to copy,” Dr. Park said.

“Koreans agree on what constitutes a pretty face,” he said. “The consensus, now, is a smaller, more sharply defined youthful face — a more or less Westernized look. That makes 90 percent of Koreans potential patients because they’re not born with that kind of face.”

Not everyone is happy with this development.

The film director Im Kwon-taek says it has become all but impossible to find an actress who still has a traditional Korean face. “They all have that surgery to have their eyelids scrolled up,” he said. “What kind of eye is that?”

He said that one day he was watching a provincial beauty competition on television and almost jumped up when he saw a young woman with a relatively round face with natural eyes.

He cast her in a movie set in old Korea.

In August, the Education Ministry issued a booklet warning high school students of “plastic surgery syndrome,” citing Michael Jackson and a local woman whose addiction to plastic surgery left her with a grotesquely swollen face. Last November, a woman hanged herself after her double-jaw surgery went wrong. “Every waking minute is hell,” she wrote in her diary of the pain.

Recently, a local television station secretly filmed a hospital official trying to sell a double-jaw procedure to a woman. “You want to get married?” he asked. “Then you have to do this, you have to take the risk.”

Chang Hae-jin, 21, an art student who was self-conscious about her slightly protruding teeth and chin decided to take that risk with Dr. Park. For weeks after the operation, she could not speak with her heavily bandaged swollen face. But it was worth it, she said.

“It opened a new world for me,” she said. “In the train today, a man sitting next to me talked to me. He said I looked younger than I am.

“My life has become much brighter.”

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Date: 2011-11-05 07:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lasthenia.livejournal.com
“You want to get married?” he asked. “Then you have to do this, you have to take the risk.

I have no problems with plastic surgery but this is disgusting. asshole

Date: 2011-11-05 07:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mspopstar.livejournal.com
Society is fucked up. All this pressure on women, and everybody seems to think it's normal.

It makes me want crash my keyboard tbh

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Date: 2011-11-05 07:45 pm (UTC)
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This is pure non sense... but thank god they're not at the chinese level yet

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Date: 2011-11-05 07:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asth77.livejournal.com
lol I hate perfection

Date: 2011-11-05 07:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] crowleyd545.livejournal.com
this is what i dislike about korea's growing culture of being open to surgeries.

Date: 2011-11-05 07:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rocketjenny.livejournal.com
I shouldn't judge since it's their own bodies, but I think it's kinda sad that they feel the need to fix their "imperfections". I know I have some parts that I dislike about my face, but I don't want to change it them ever.

Date: 2011-11-05 07:57 pm (UTC)

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Date: 2011-11-05 07:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] es2pido.livejournal.com
The fact that it's becoming like the most favorite birthday gift parents can give to their children really baffles me. I shouldn't really give a sht about this but it kinda bothers me that soon, every Korean will have one part of their face/body gone under the knife, and that they have to wear that 'lie' for the rest of their life. Unless they admit it to people, ofc.

Sorry, it's just me.

Date: 2011-11-05 10:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] royalantares.livejournal.com
Don't worry, many people don't get it and I doubt every Korean will go under the knife. Yes the rate is high but I doubt even a majority has had something done.

Date: 2011-11-05 08:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] love-keiko.livejournal.com
it's interesting to me that in japan some stars that are considered beautiful there would be considered hideous in korea. the level of demanded perfection is just SO insane.

it's sad when ppl feel like they cant live their daily lives without some kind of cosmetic correction to their faces. ESPECIALLY from a racial standpoint, where they want to have more westernize features.

Date: 2011-11-05 08:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mspopstar.livejournal.com
That's a deep problem. Everywhere in the wolrd, people want to have Caucasian features.

Asian women do eye surgery and stay away from the sun, black women relaxe their hair, wear wigs all day long and use toxic whitening creams. And there is massive surgery.

(Tanning is a very different thing, as it's something not permanent. Everywhere in the the world the whitest you are, the better it is.)

It's a very toxic way of presenting things, mostly in advertising, that makes the idealized look : the blond, young and westernized woman.

It's so sad.

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Date: 2011-11-05 08:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cast-no-shadow0.livejournal.com
“Koreans agree on what constitutes a pretty face,” he said. “The consensus, now, is a smaller, more sharply defined youthful face — a more or less Westernized look. That makes 90 percent of Koreans potential patients because they’re not born with that kind of face.”

This is kinda sad to me.

"In traditional Korea, tampering with the body bestowed by one’s parents was a violation of Confucian precepts that also discouraged cremation and, later, organ and blood donations."

I'm not Korean, but this has always been my belief about plastic surgery (not the blood donation!) and that's why I was surprised that it was so prevalent in Korea when they also seem to really revere their family/ancestors. I sometimes hate the way I look, but I do like the fact that when I look at pictures of my grandparents who died before I was born, I could see physical similarities. My nose may have a little bump in it, but so did my grandfather's and my mom's does too. It helps with dealing with physical insecurities.

That said, I don't care if others get it, but a lot of times I find physical differences cute and unique. I love young MatsuJun's crooked teeth/jaw!

/csb

Date: 2011-11-05 08:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] turielen.livejournal.com
I liked your story.

Date: 2011-11-05 08:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] inati.livejournal.com
i have an underbite & will probably have jaw surgery one of these days. dreading it tbh.

sad shit. :(

Date: 2011-11-05 08:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] epona.livejournal.com
I went through that five years ago. Jaw wired shut, liquid diet for a month and a half. My smile is so much better now, though.

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Date: 2011-11-05 08:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
this is just sad.
i mean i have nothing against plastic surgery, its a great way for people that had an accident or have serious problems with their looks to feel better again. but 99% of the people that get ps in korea just need a good psychologist instead of plastic surgery. they need someone that tell them theyre beautiful the way they are, even if their nose is not perfect or they have single-eyelids or whatever. they need someone who helps them to build up their self-confidence.

saddest part is that with all those kpop idols portraying a perfect image it wont change in the future. korea needs more idols like demi lovato, miley cyrus or idk who is famous in the US right now. idols that publicly say that they are not perfect, and that its totally okay to have flaws.

plus i dont get how in korea people under the age of 18 can get plastic surgery. here in germany every good plastic surgeon tells kids under 18 to come again when theyre legal and fully grown. seing how in korea even 15, 16 year old kids get ps makes me wonder where the hell those plastic surgeons get their license.

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Date: 2011-11-05 08:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] a-cheshire-grin.livejournal.com
THIS SO MUCH!
I couldn't have said it better!

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Date: 2011-11-05 08:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] buccal.livejournal.com
“Normal people become, sort of, super-normal, and pretty people prettier.”
헐... "super-normal" this word......

"The consensus, now, is a smaller, more sharply defined youthful face — a more or less Westernized look. That makes 90 percent of Koreans potential patients because they’re not born with that kind of face.”
...except Westernized looks are not always smaller, sharply defined and/or youthful? And even if you're not born with certain types of features, that does not make you unattractive. You are gifted with a unique combination of your mom and dad's DNA.

“It opened a new world for me,” she said. “In the train today, a man sitting next to me talked to me. He said I looked younger than I am. My life has become much brighter.”
Girl, you are 21. How much younger did you want to look.

Date: 2011-11-06 04:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] acornmama.livejournal.com
THANK YOU.

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Date: 2011-11-05 08:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hugtimes.livejournal.com
Each to their own I guess.
I don't like the fact that people feel forced to get the surgery though.
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Date: 2011-11-05 08:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] renew.livejournal.com
22,000,000 Won ≈ 22,000 USD

Date: 2011-11-05 08:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kmrawr.livejournal.com
i would love to get my jaw shaved tbh. feels hideous every time i see it in the mirror.

Date: 2011-11-05 08:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] minyquai.livejournal.com
.........D:

Date: 2011-11-05 08:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] akaich0u.livejournal.com
I am usually alright about plastic surgery (truth be told if double eyelid surgery were free I'd do it lol) but in recent years, everyone has started to look the same as a result. I feel like in Korea in particular, there's a need to not only get stuff done but get the exact same model of nose, eyes, etc, so that everyone--or mostly young women, I suppose--looks more or less exactly the same.

Date: 2011-11-05 08:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] akaich0u.livejournal.com
Also, I just gotta say that yes, although white standards of beauty do permeate all corners of the world, a lot of things Asians consider beautiful take root in class-based ideals, not race. For example, fair skin is tied with the notion that you're a wealthy landowner and can afford to sit inside while your servants plow the fields for you, etc.

To be fair, Asians consider some white features ugly as well--like the feet thing (a US women's 7 shoe size is considered 'boat feet', for example), a wide mouth/jaw, etc...the latter in particular is why so many idol girls cover their mouths when laughing. My parents are always going on about how ugly/rude it is that "American girls guffaw with their mouths wide open".

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Date: 2011-11-05 08:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] waltz-in-code.livejournal.com
no one should feel ashamed about getting plastic surgery, but being this pressured into it is completely not okay

Date: 2011-11-05 09:26 pm (UTC)

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Date: 2011-11-05 08:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] risutaro.livejournal.com
I'd hate being pressured into plastic surgery. I'm not that pretty now, but since I look exactly like my mom I can see how my face is going to get less chubby/more defined when I'm older. I'm kind of looking forward to that, like being naturally beautiful over time vs running to the plastic surgeon with all my insecurities while I'm still young.

People can do whatever they want with their faces, but if plastic surgery is expected from everyone then I'm not liking the added insecurity and pressure on people that want to stay natural.

Date: 2011-11-06 05:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] narisa-rei.livejournal.com
I'm not that pretty now, but since I look exactly like my mom I can see how my face is going to get less chubby/more defined when I'm older. I'm kind of looking forward to that, like being naturally beautiful over time vs running to the plastic surgeon with all my insecurities while I'm still young.

love these sentences!! :D

Date: 2011-11-05 08:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asnindie.livejournal.com
Im sorry but the belief that you can't find someone decent until you shave your jaw is utter bullshit. Noone falls in love with your jaw and if someone does then he's not worth your time. People need psychological help if they think the only path to happiness is a "perfect" face.

Korea needs some idols to show that being imperfect is what makes you, you. Don't buy in to the crap that media feeds you.

Date: 2011-11-05 08:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] maximumtimo.livejournal.com
Whenever I go on Korean newssites, I'm always so overwhelmed by all the adds for plastic surgery !! I'm fine with surgery as well, I have some things that I would love to get fixed as well if I wasn't so broke ... But yeah ... The morals here are totally wrong.

Date: 2011-11-05 08:53 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] krissasaur
I have a Korean friend. When she was 17 her mother was trying to force her to get surgery. Her mom even threatened to kick her out of the house if she didn't.

irdgi.

Date: 2011-11-05 09:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bumie.livejournal.com
what kind of mom is that ...... D:

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Date: 2011-11-05 08:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] adjuihcuzuejrim.livejournal.com
no wonder people say that all asians look the same...

Date: 2011-11-06 12:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] crystalheng.livejournal.com
I'm offended by this. All white people look the same to me, okay.

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Date: 2011-11-05 08:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] frequency.livejournal.com
“You want to get married?” he asked. “Then you have to do this, you have to take the risk.”

it doesn't bother me if someone wants plastics done, but this is just ridiculous.

Date: 2011-11-05 08:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bumie.livejournal.com
there is no beauty standards
healthy = beautiful, if there is something they want to change they shouldn't do it *forced* and do it for their self at least.

Date: 2011-11-05 09:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] icedevil0289.livejournal.com
Recently, a local television station secretly filmed a hospital official trying to sell a double-jaw procedure to a woman. “You want to get married?” he asked. “Then you have to do this, you have to take the risk.

smh.

I generally don't have issues with plastic surgery, but I do think it's a problem when parents are forcing their children to get it and I've heard that that kids as young as 12 are getting it. I realize this is probably not just restricted to korea though.

Date: 2011-11-05 09:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
that kids as young as 12 are getting it
WAT

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Date: 2011-11-05 09:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gunsandsmoke.livejournal.com
it's so D U M N tbh, both the korean societal pressures to be perfect and all the stupid generalizations westerners make. it's so patronizing when i hear yet another wyt person go on about "oh those poor azns!! don't they realize their own small eyes and or1ent4l features r so beautiful n exotic?? stop tryna look like me i mean shucks but anyways'

the popular 'face' to get rn is shin minah's btw, and her face is like, the polar opposite of a white person face...she has super-asian features so yea just puttin dat out there?????

idc about plastic surgery but i do feel very disheartened by how girls seem to exit clinics together like clone armies, matching faces and all. i can feel myself get affected by korean beauty ideals as well whenever i'm in seoul for too long.

Date: 2011-11-05 09:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bumie.livejournal.com
A+ , I wouldn't say it better

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