That shit is scary, I was followed home by the same person for four nights in a row home until I called the police. I always pulled out my phone and called my mum and talked to her the entire way home. I was mortified it must of been the same for Jessica. I've never felt fear like that before in my life.
Shit that must have been terrible. I had it when this weirdo stalked me for a week and then just grabbed my arm one day and wouldn't let go and called another friend of his to come to him. I honestly got so fucking scared that day, didn't know what was gonna happen. Thankfully group of people came and he they ran off.
omg that's so fucking scary. Aaaaaagh. I had a creepy stalker encounter too, though not nearly as terrifying as jessica's. still made me break into a run to the nearest library, though.
...also yes, whether or not her friends were male or female was clearly the pressing issue.
Being an Idol is a double edged sword. When you expect people to worship you then it has it's good sides and then the downright terrifying stuff. Glad she's okay but wtf, next time male companion drop her to the door, seriously dude.
jesus christ this story just got more terrifying as it went on, thank god nothing bad happened to her ;; scary to imagine that this guy is likely still out there, could be someone's father or husband or co-worker
That's scary as shittttt. When I was living in my shady apartment (which had a murder and multiple thefts in 2 month), I went to the public garage area to throw away recyclables. That area is blocked off, and some car came by and blocked the entrance and a man came out whistling and just standing around doing nothing. Luckily a car came by and he left. I called the cops but SD's police suck donkey nuts and they didn't even report it and said it wasn't suspicious. -______________-
this makes me feel so paranoid because i have a test tomorrow night from 8:30-10pm and it's a 15-20 minute walk back to my dorm. ;~~~; i have no one else i know taking the test w/ me either
That was soo creepy. That's why when I drop people off I make sure I see them walk into the house/apartment before I leave..I'm surprised her friends didn't see him follow in her direction.
Teuk and Boom needed to stop >___< I mean the ONLY viable reason I can see them asking her and KHJ these things is to see why the guy friend/boyfriend didn't walk Sica to the door (if the guy was with her that night)... besides their being nosy =/ even then...aish...
God, it really sucks to be female sometimes. Obviously, there are male victims of stalking, but it isn't an innate worry for most men the way it tends to be for women. Especially since there's the societal stigma that if she isn't careful enough and something does happen to her, it was her fault, and what was she doing out at that hour, and so on. :\
It makes me sick that the first things police ask during harassment reports are "What were you wearing? Why were you out alone? Were you flirting? Were you drinking?" How about asking the harasser "Why did you harass this person? Have you done it before? What made you think you had the right to do so?"
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Date: 2011-11-02 02:15 am (UTC)Omg I know... but
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Date: 2011-11-02 02:33 am (UTC)on a serious note ...wow people seem to not know the meaning of personal space when it comes to their idols.
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Date: 2011-11-02 02:34 am (UTC)...also yes, whether or not her friends were male or female was clearly the pressing issue.
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Date: 2011-11-02 02:45 am (UTC)Re: fucking creepers
Date: 2011-11-02 04:08 am (UTC)*sends MinShark to bite that dude's butt* >:(
*sends MinShark after Sica's stalker too*
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Date: 2011-11-02 03:12 am (UTC)ALSO, OMG it must be so awkward for KHJ...
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Date: 2011-11-02 03:27 am (UTC)this makes me feel so paranoid because i have a test tomorrow night from 8:30-10pm and it's a 15-20 minute walk back to my dorm. ;~~~; i have no one else i know taking the test w/ me either
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Date: 2011-11-02 03:50 am (UTC)Teuk and Boom needed to stop >___< I mean the ONLY viable reason I can see them asking her and KHJ these things is to see why the guy friend/boyfriend didn't walk Sica to the door (if the guy was with her that night)... besides their being nosy =/ even then...aish...
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