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With the growing number of foreign brides in South Korea – and the rising number of unhappy marriages – South Korean men marrying foreign women now have to take a class to prepare themselves.

To put it simply, says Renalyn Mulato, the daughter of a Filipina immigrant married to a South Korean man, the key to multicultural happiness is love and understanding.

That may seem like a painfully obvious prerequisite for most marriages, but for many immigrants in South Korea, it isn’t always that easy.

South Korea has been grappling with shifting demographics that have left many middle-aged men cut adrift in a country that prizes marriage. As Korean women leave their hometowns for careers in the big cities, the men left behind are increasingly looking for brides from poorer Asian nations such as Vietnam, the Philippines, Cambodia, and Mongolia.

More than 100,000 women among South Korea’s 1.2-million foreign population are estimated to be foreign brides. This influx of foreigners has accelerated multiculturalism in Korea. But many of those marriages don’t turn out well. Part of the problem, say experts, is a lack of government oversight of agencies that locate foreign brides for Korean men. The result, say critics, is hundreds of unhappy marriages between middle-aged Korean men and young foreign women trying to escape poverty.

Korean men seeking to wed foreign brides are now required to take courses to prepare them for international unions.

Source: csmonitor
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Date: 2011-10-17 03:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eliteseal.livejournal.com
How to please your wife on bed 101

Date: 2011-10-17 03:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] umbrella-smile.livejournal.com
Your foreign wife won't take your traditional misogynistic shit.

Date: 2011-10-17 04:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hellafun.livejournal.com
househusband 101

Date: 2011-10-17 03:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] umbrella-smile.livejournal.com
Part of the problem, say experts, is a lack of government oversight of agencies that locate foreign brides for Korean men.

I'd say the problem is using an agency to find a wife.

Date: 2011-10-17 04:06 pm (UTC)

Date: 2011-10-17 04:50 pm (UTC)

Date: 2011-10-17 06:30 pm (UTC)

Date: 2011-10-17 04:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fondle.livejournal.com
color me surprised

Date: 2011-10-17 04:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wintersol.livejournal.com
honestly, i think korea's going to have to have a social crisis before they can start growing again as a country.

that or rapidly change their actions/thoughts on foreigners.

Date: 2011-10-17 05:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asnindie.livejournal.com
Maybe if they don't treat their foreign brides, like uhm to put it nicely like shit, they might have a chance.

Date: 2011-10-17 07:59 pm (UTC)

Date: 2011-10-17 05:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nissy-angel.livejournal.com
lol, i've been told since little to never marry a korean or a japanese man by my parents.
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Date: 2011-10-17 07:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nissy-angel.livejournal.com
true, but argueing with my parents is like talking to a wall. I don't even bother. I'll just have to see who i'll end up with XD

Date: 2011-10-17 09:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asnindie.livejournal.com
Best not generalise people by race, each individual is different. YParents will be parents tho.

Date: 2011-10-18 05:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nissy-angel.livejournal.com
But my parents grew up in the post japan/china war and what the japanese did was ..cruel... so they don't really have the best impression of them..
Damn we live in a such complicated world~

Date: 2011-10-17 08:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] padmik.livejournal.com
you know something isn't right when you have to use an agency to find a wife.

Date: 2011-10-17 10:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lil-rach-angel.livejournal.com
While it is a problem having to use an agency to find a wife, I think the bigger problem is that so many women are leaving. They really need a "farming is cool and an awesome way to be a nationalist" movement as this can lead to shrinking farming with so many trying to get away. While foreign brides at least provide an option, it doesn't exactly keep an area stable population-wise. Anyways, I remember seeing articles in the past about "how to be a good husband" classes and still applaud those that go. Cause happy marriage makes for a happy life and all that sap. Maybe if they could ever get this under control it'd mean changing things up for the urban family dynamics.

Date: 2011-10-18 02:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mandyyy.livejournal.com
This should be required for marriage period no matter what country or who you're marrying.

Date: 2011-10-19 02:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] perriwynkkle.livejournal.com
I have been told so many times, as a Caucasian-American woman, that I would never last in a marriage or relationship with an Asian man of any kind.

I don't agree...although I can see their reasoning.

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