Mir’s Cafe Message (110512) "I’ve decided to stop social networking from now on"

[fuuism.livejournal.com]

Mir’s Cafe Message 2011.05.12

Title: Hello!!! This is Mir!!

Hello everyone!!! This is Mir!!!!
It’s been a while ~ everyone is healthy, right ~ ????
We’re all living well here ~ !!! Japan isn’t as dangerous as everyone thinks!!!
I’m happy because the Japanese fans have been so good to us ~ +_+!!!

You all probably know, but I’ve decided to stop social networking from now on ~ +_+
I must be a person too, because while on the Internet I start thinking a lot,,
Something,,eum,,,
Even if they’re good words or bad words, they’re in too many places ~ ^^,,,

When I read nice words, I get a lot of strength and think to myself that I should work harder. On the other hand, when I read hate replies about switching to a different group, I won’t like them anymore, they’re not good, why are they like that, stuff like that, it bothers me a lot and it’s hard for me,,,T__T

I thought about it. The people who give us hurt and those people who wait for us until the end and support us are separate ~

I felt like if I hung on to those hate replies and had a hard time, I wouldn’t be able to show the people who support us a good and developing image of me, so I’ve decided to stop doing social networking ~ ^^

I’ve decided to empty my mind and throw away the image I’ve shown everyone until now ~ +_+
I’ll throw away my inside and outside image and appear as a new person ~ ^^

Let’s meet at comeback ~ ^^

Source: ABM, MBLAQ's Cafe (the post, requires login)

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO...

This is probably what G.O meant when he said Mir had "deleted his twitter". I'll miss his tweets and pictures, I understand how he feels about the online hate and how it gets to him but I hope he changes his mind in the future.

Comments

[arsinoi.livejournal.com]

Awww that's so sad. D:
I want him to man up & get stronger from all the hate but I know not everybody is like this. I do hope he comes back soo...

[miuratenshi.livejournal.com]

Sometimes I can't with this fandom.

[kerplunk.livejournal.com]

This...

[ss501pixie.livejournal.com]

I've always loved Mir's weirdness and him posting stuff of his adorable nephew
It's sad that people send him hate messages i guess he just finally had enough

[skrillex.livejournal.com]

my heart ;_;

[shiddex.livejournal.com]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111 :((((((((((((

I WANNA KNOW HOW SOJU IS WHEN HE GROWS! I WANNA SEE HOW HIS NEPHEW GROWSSSS!!!!

;___;

[x3sarang.livejournal.com]

As someone who reacts rather negatively to hate messages/knowing that someone dislikes me, I can't imagine how much pressure there would be on a celebrity who uses social media and the number of hate messages they get. Although the nice messages can be motivational, I think it's a good idea to distance themselves from too much direct communication if they feel their mindset isn't up to facing the bad. As they say, one bad message can burn its way into your heart more than a thousand good ones, and if they're not mentally prepared or have enough self confidence, negative comments can lead to things like anxiety, anorexia, depression etc. Which is not good.

[lydzi.livejournal.com]

Ia. I never understood why the idols kept looking like that on the net. I suppose it's a natural curiosity but you must know that not everything is going to be pretty :/.

But I believe he did the right thing here. And even more the fact that he told "us" why he did it. I really respect that kind of behaviour. He's someone who thinks things through. Some netizen may reflect too on that point. Perhaps even some idols. I just adore the fact that he says that "yeah I'm not strong enough right now to take this s**t from the net, but I will maybe meanwhile byebye".

Lol he totally should read my comments. Because I began with not caring at all about him and now totally loving the bits I see from his personnality ^^. He should be proud ^^.

[pinkinmoon.livejournal.com]

A+ comment, I agree

[ladyofthetide.livejournal.com]

Does he really? That makes me so sad.

[lydzi.livejournal.com]

I'm having so much new respect for that man... why didn't I saw the light before? Seriously.

He dazzles me.

[desty-chan.livejournal.com]

Mir is so perfect I can't.

[fuuism.livejournal.com]

I agree with what he's doing but it's still a bit sad for me to see him go for now, even more because I remember that his caring tweets/pics helped in making you change your mind about him. I hope he still manages to share his random bursts with the fans on cyworld or on MBLAQ's cafe once in a while.

[oystersauce87.livejournal.com]

He hasn't deleted his twitter tho, right?

[aishiteruyuto23.livejournal.com]

not yet. just checked if it was still there.
hope he doesnt so fans have something to look back on.

[oystersauce87.livejournal.com]

I hope he doesn't. I love his updates about his nephew and all the random things he posts.

[aishiteruyuto23.livejournal.com]

@BangMir and @beastdw interactions will end? <//////3

[drfaith101.livejournal.com]

He is so qt.

[iznanassi.livejournal.com]

Good for him, I hope he isn't too hurt by all the comments :(.

There are so many mean MBLAQ haters, it just makes me so upset.

[honeebs.livejournal.com]

That's too bad.
Luv ya Mir and yo thick ass thighs!

[jsham89.livejournal.com]

Mireu!! Aww he's like a totally sweet puppy who got kicked around too much~
This really sucks. There will always be haters and bad comments, so I'm disappointed that he's not going to tweet anymore b/c of the hate comments, but he was always effected by them~ it's like one of his weaknesses, so I can't blame him for wanting to avoid them in some way.
Hopefully he'll start appearing on Sesame player soon b/c here really hasn't been enough of him since he had his surgery.
Mireu fighting! <3

[purekpopology.livejournal.com]

Even though it's sad, he's doing the mature and responsible thing by making the choice not to read it instead of lashing out and replying to the hate!

I'll miss your cute pics Mir, but I support your decision!

[kanbinayume.livejournal.com]

I understand why he left...but still TT.TT

[oukokuniji.livejournal.com]

:/
What and why. I don't get it, why did someone hate?

[weerainbow.livejournal.com]

I was really sad when I saw this news, not so much because he's stopping the social networking (although I will miss seeing cute posts about his pics etc) but more because of the reason he's giving it up. People really do say horrible things way too easily these days because of the anonymity of the internet and it causes a lot of pain to people who are sensitive to it. I'm pleased that Mir has the sense to get away from it because he knows it's bad for him. But it sucks that this has to happen :(

[cake.livejournal.com]

I'll miss his adorable tweets and videos. ;____;

Some people ruin the fun for everyone, it really isn't fair.
However, I do hope he'll come back eventually and is just taking a small break.

[jelly16.livejournal.com]

My timeline will greatly miss you Mir.

[itskimbitches.livejournal.com]

he'll be back.

[dilettantka.livejournal.com]

I was really sad he wasn't on stage with the rest of MBLAQ in Japan yesterday :( anybody know the details? I assume it's his injury.

If it's better for him to avoid social networking, then I support it, and it's cool of him to let everybody know that he was taking a break, instead of just vanishing.

[pinkinmoon.livejournal.com]

i like him, he's a smart kid, to make the decision for himself that negative people like that aren't worth listening to

i've said some occasionally hurtful stuff that makes me scratch my head like "what if the person you were talking about saw that?". i've been working on it

[janri.livejournal.com]

Bye!

[couturegirlxox.livejournal.com]

FOUR FOR YOU MIR COCO~!!!!!! i really admire him for making this decision bc he knows it's for his own good~~ sigh the internet is truly an ugly ugly place sometimes xPPP

[sai12.livejournal.com]

Of course this happens only weeks after I started following him on twitter. lol Oh well, I'm glad he is taking the steps to rid himself of the hate. I just hope this isn't a forever thing.

[cos-it-rhymes.livejournal.com]

oh, why mir :(
all this haters .smh

[modestgoddess79.livejournal.com]

sweet sensitive Mir, take care of yourself

[diru915.livejournal.com]

D: </3 super sad about this i hope he feels more confident with all their success that they are having in Japan right now ... its good to see him promoting again

[heyahala.livejournal.com]

His thought is exactly the same as mine except he's a celebrity and i'm a nobody =] this is why i like him

[yolleh.livejournal.com]

HOW CAN ANYONE HATE ON MIR? HE'S FLAWLESS!

It's a good thing he's separating himself from the pressure though. All this negativity just won't do him any good. It's so sad though

[hyeena.livejournal.com]

my sweet bb is so sensitive ;A; come here I'll hold you and make you forget about the stupid haters~