OMG OKAY SO MY BOYFRIEND WAS SUPPOSED TO COME VISIT THIS WEEKEND SINCE VALENTINE'S DAY IS MONDAY RIGHT AND HE LIVES 2 HOURS AWAY FROM ME AND I TOLD HIM I DIDN'T WANT TO HAVE SEX AND THAT I JUST WANTED US TO HANG OUT AND HAVE LIKE, ROMANTIC FUN OR SOMETHING AND NOW HE'S NOT FUCKING COMING. WHAT THE FUCK DOES THAT SAY ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP? i'm so upset. seriously. this isn't fair. what's even worse is how he doesn't understand what he did wrong...he even rented a god damn car already to come and now he's not coming JUST because i said i didn't feel like having sex this time around. there is NOTHING wrong with me not wanting to have sex. it's not like every time we hang out we have to get physical....ugh idk man. idk what i should do now.
Wow omg baby what?! That's really a sad thing of him to do. Of course there is nothing wrong with you not wanting to have sex! On the contrary, you should be able to be honest in a relationship and if you don't feel like getting jiggy with it, then he should accept that no matter what. Are you sure it's because you don't want to have sex? Because that would really be a stupid reason, jfc. Have you confronted him with this feeling? Like the thing about how you don't feel like getting physical every fucking time you guys meet? I don't know, even though it's a man which basically means his heart is stuck in his penis, it doesn't necassarily mean you are needy for the same things as he is every goddamn time.
You say he doesn't understand what he did wrong, have you told him what you think he did wrong? Because guys indeed really are blind for that kind of things, they sincerely don't see what they did wrong in those cases. Ugh, retards.
Damn girl, show him what you're made of in a non-physical way!
hah yeah i know = = i repeated what happened about 3 times...i said "so you're not coming because i said i don't feel like having sex?" and he avoided the question the first 2 times by literally saying "i got an A on the quiz i just took!" and then another time by not replying at all. the third time he was like "yeah. i'm done texting now." i now realize how terrible he is at confrontation and i'm waiting for him to text me so i can chew his ass out. i had asked him last night if he even wanted to see me and made the effort to point out that that should be more important than just having sex. either he still doesn't get it or he's just being a royal douchetot by avoiding confrontation. i don't play these games though. i'm guessing he's having a hard time understanding my questions and what i'm insinuating altogether because english is his second language BUT IDGAF. REGARDLESS OF HIS CULTURAL BACKGROUND, WHAT HE DID IS FUCKED UP AND I DON'T DESERVE IT. i'm thinking about just writing how i feel about what happened AND IN PLAIN AND SIMPLE ASS ENGLISH in an email so he can fucking sit there and soak it in.
Daaamn, that guy. That's really rude, no1curr about your test rn you ass. I guess you're really in love with him, huh? I understand it hurts a little though, that's really not how you treat the woman you love, ever.
I think the best thing is to be really straight forward and as you said, put it out there in plain and simple ass english, so that anyone with level 1 english skills knows what the fuck you're aiming at.
lol fosho and i've actually been questioning my feelings for him as of recent...even before this all went down. i've come to the conclusion that i do not love him, but i do care for him. so if we break up then it's whatever for me.
Ah, well, it's not like that really makes it easier, but.. yeah, a little, maybe. Think about it carefully though, try to talk it over with him once more, and if he keeps doing this bullshitting stuff, just be honest and straightforward. Because that would mean he's definitely not worth to be with you.
UGH MEN.. It's okay gurl, vagina power!! Don't let that man get you down, you can do bad all by yo self~ Do you, boo. Enjoy V-day with yourself or some friends. Fuck him!
i think i get the plot/story for the mv, its like that movie where the guy only cares about the outside appearance of a girl then someone hypnotized him to see ugly girls with good personalty as a hot chick.
disgunbegud_ Juri looks pretty, Jihyun looks gorgeous I need this thing in my life, the BTS clip too_ and I hope that their lips will actually be crashing agaisnt each other in the MV.
i watched the one with changmin yesterday and my feelings got all mixed... i was laughing my ass off, but went "whaaaaaaaaaaaat the fuck is this??!!" , and laughed again.
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Date: 2011-02-11 03:45 pm (UTC)You say he doesn't understand what he did wrong, have you told him what you think he did wrong? Because guys indeed really are blind for that kind of things, they sincerely don't see what they did wrong in those cases. Ugh, retards.
Damn girl, show him what you're made of in a non-physical way!
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Date: 2011-02-11 05:51 pm (UTC)I think the best thing is to be really straight forward and as you said, put it out there in plain and simple ass english, so that anyone with level 1 english skills knows what the fuck you're aiming at.
GO FOR IT GURL.
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Date: 2011-02-11 03:54 pm (UTC)It's okay gurl, vagina power!!
Don't let that man get you down, you can do bad all by yo self~
Do you, boo. Enjoy V-day with yourself or some friends. Fuck him!
Listen to the wise words or HBIC Queen Alexyss.
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Date: 2011-02-11 03:32 pm (UTC)changmin is so sesshy
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Date: 2011-02-11 03:32 pm (UTC)i think i get the plot/story for the mv, its like that movie where the guy only cares about the outside appearance of a girl then someone hypnotized him to see ugly girls with good personalty as a hot chick.
/coolstorybro
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Date: 2011-02-11 03:46 pm (UTC)ewwww
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Date: 2011-02-11 03:36 pm (UTC)Juri looks pretty, Jihyun looks gorgeous
I need this thing in my life, the BTS clip too_ and I hope that their lips will actually be crashing agaisnt each other in the MV.
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Date: 2011-02-11 04:08 pm (UTC)And Changmin
I can't wait xD
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Date: 2011-02-11 05:20 pm (UTC)BTW Get it girl!
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Date: 2011-02-11 06:12 pm (UTC)Get it Juri/Jihyun!!^^Also small shop Hitman Espresso!!Nice!!^^
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Date: 2011-02-11 09:25 pm (UTC)So that Jung Juri looks like the gorgeous chick from 4Minute?
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Date: 2011-02-11 09:36 pm (UTC)This MV is going to be perfect. I can't wait~
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Date: 2011-02-11 10:23 pm (UTC)oh but i see, it's a shallow hal remake..
but it's awesome once again lol.
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Date: 2011-02-11 10:37 pm (UTC)Either way - Go Juri!!!
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Date: 2011-02-12 01:22 am (UTC)Lee hyun has the biggest mouth I have ever seen
The first vid was hilarious!!
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Date: 2011-02-12 07:21 pm (UTC)Juri > Jihyun
And don't get me wrong, I love Jihyun too.