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omonatheydidA netizen has come forward with claims that a famous actor K forced abortion.
On the 17th, A wrote a lengthy article on online community Pann titled, "I'm exposing famous actor K's who's two faced and shameless" and revealed, "I'm his ex-girlfriend. If his personality wasn't so trash I wouldn't waste time exposing him like this. I can't live knowing the image he shows off on TV is different from reality. I made the decision to write this post for other women at the risk of exposing my identity."
I'm not only suffering from the after effects of the breakup but also his sub human actions of forcing I abort my precious baby, demanding a unilateral sacrifice because he's a celebrity, under false pretense of marriage, mental and physical trauma.
I thought a lot after watching actor Kim Yong-gun's and other idol group premarital pregnancies. Even though Kim Yong-gun forced an abortion, him and the idol group members still took responsibility and announced marriage.
If you convince someone to get an abortion as bait for a promise you won't keep, that's an illegal act that violates someone's rights. I found out that this actor is even more trash than I had imagined.
It's been 4 months since we broke up and I thought he'd ask for forgiveness from the bottom of his heart but it seems that he really loves acting. Because of his difficult childhood, his obsession with money is enormous and he took for granted the sacrifices of those around him due to his obsession with other people's opinions and his own success. I thought it would be different with me, but again, after breaking up, he made even more money and filmed CFs and became popular. He was in a rush to film even more CFs and never one apologized or showed any reflection.
We have been dating since early 2020. There's a lot of katalks of us from the time we first me until now. He asked me to delete those katalks a lot using ridiculous excuses but it was so strange so I saved the conversations.
Usually, when I read other people's articles, I often wondered why they didn't use birth control. I used birth control when we dated but I was getting sick because of it so I stopped using it after a month or two and asked him to use condoms. Then one day he said he wanted to do it inside and I allowed it because it wasn't a dangerous date and because it was only that one time.
That's when I ended up pregnant with actor K's baby in July of last year. Actually, I was very scared. We were secretly dating and couldn't even hold hands and walk together outside. I wondered how it'd be like with our baby and even thought of raising it on my own.
Since I was a kid, I've been told it would be difficult for me to have a baby because I have a weak uterus (it was my first pregnancy or abortion). The doctor told me that I wouldn't be able to conceive another baby again if I didn't have this one. I thought to myself, even if it's shameful to have a premarital baby, it's with someone that I love so that gave me courage and I wanted to have it.
So I contacted actor K on the spot while at the hospital and told him that if I aborted the child it would be difficult to have another one. Is there a woman that doesn't want to have a child with the person they love? Like other men, I wanted to hear that he would take responsibility after the pregnancy even if they were confused.
His trash reply to that still remains in my katalks. He acted like he would take responsibility in the katalks but it was completely different when we met. He was filming at the time and came to my house after filming and placated me with false promises to get me to agree to an abortion. I was 6-7 weeks pregnant at the time so my stomach was very stiff and sore. The minute he showed up he said, "it's ok now for me to do it inside right?" and asked for sex. He said, "Now I feel like you're really mine. You and I are family now."
Then he said, "It doesn't make sense that you won't be able to conceive anymore just because you have one abortion. If you have the baby now I'll have to pay a 900 million won fine. I don't have that kind of money right now."
He said he talked to his parents and told me, "What if I can no longer be an actor because of this baby? My parents said they throw me out on the streets." I found out later that he didn't have to pay a 900 million won penalty if he had a baby. He persuaded me to have an abortion with lies.
He threatened me saying, "I'll resent you and this baby if he's born right now. You can do whatever you want but our love will be over. I will never love this baby." With tears in his eyes, he put on an act with false promise of marriage and parental introductions and said, "I'm not ready to have a baby now but I've thought about settling down in 4 years. I will marry you in exactly 2 years and introduce you to my parents. Let's move in together next year."
I hesitated at that moment. I still regret that I didn't have the courage to insist on raising my child on my own so that he would have a chance to see the light of the world. I thought what if we broke up later and I fell in love and got married and wasn't able to have kids later, I wouldn't be able to live with myself. At that time, I had no choice but to tell my parents but I thought whenever I went through a breakup, my parents excuse was age.
As if driven by his words, I made up my mind to let my baby go. I told my only friend and younger brother, actor XX who was mentioned several times on a program. He didn't accompany me himself to the hospital, he was in a car and sent his acquaintance who pretended to be the baby's father.
Looking back, he was meticulous to the end. Meanwhile, I had thought I was being thoughtful for the person I loved but I was such an idiot. So with tears in my eyes, I sent away a baby that will never again come back to me in my life.
After the abortion, actor K's attitude changed. He only sent me 2 million won for surgery and hospital expenses and wanted nothing else. Because of that, I didn't threaten, complain or resent him. I was afraid my relationship with him, that was already fragile, would break.
Still, I thought I should tell him about the hospital visit and how the money was spent so I sent him the receipts and proof that I got the abortion. He got so pissed off about the situation. It was me that suffered mental and physical damage and trauma but he was the one irritable with emotions up and own caused by stress that I'm not sure where it was coming from. He'd say, "Are you trying to campaign to piss me off because you had to abort the baby because of me?"
The person that had promised to marry and live with me when I was still pregnant was now treating me this way after I got an abortion using work as an excuse. Because I really loved him, I thought all actors are like this. My body was in a state of change due to the after effects of the abortion so the physical and mental aftereffects were a lot. It was very difficult, but I honestly thought he would keep me by his side and live together and get married.
He became very sensitive after that whenever he went to work and everyone around him had to be careful. I sacrificed a lot when he was filming but he'd get annoyed about every little thing. When we dated, he was filming for about 8 months and throughout that time I was just a helper because he was always sensitive. I had to always adjust my mood, attitude, everything like a stylist or manager would. After he finished filming, he became so brazen after filming a CF and said he didn't know things would turn out like that that. As time went on, he got more and more annoyed and would scold me over katalks I would send him and I had to react to his changing moods. But I endured it because I thought we would be family soon.
After meeting him, I will never again date someone who puts on a mask. He's the type to always threaten a breakup if we fight to get what he wants. Contrary to his TV image, he's pretty good at cursing. I never swore or cursed him but he often cursed me and threatened me with shoes etc.
As he gained popularity, he suddenly started to change. I saw a different side to him and I started to feel like we had grown apart. Still, because I loved him, I tried to understand and waited for him. He told the media that he doesn't have a girlfriend and said that it was just "image making" that all celebrities do. He would apologize to me for lying but then go on TV and continue to lie to female celebrities close to him who contacted him in real life. Still, we kept secretly dating.
I suffered a lot. I had to stay his secret girlfriend because stocks went up when he met other female celebrities, did CFs and got more popular. I think I can understand now why I'm so sensitive because I din't want to believe it. After the abortion at that time, I was mentally too weak and my self-esteem was too low. There are photos I took on my cell phone too and those conversations. But I won't attach them because it'll cause an issue.
Contrary to his TV image, he's a really cold and ungrateful person. Everyday, he would swear at the people he worked with but would never understand why he had so few friends. The senior actors he admired on TV all thought he was trash. I've heard more cursing than praise from him regarding the directors and actors he worked with. He said a disgusting comment about a director "for giving him the character of his life."
After he appeared in a drama, he started doing things he hadn't done before. Using strange excuse, he erased all my photos from his phone and changed my name to that of a man and told me to delete all our katalks. He even selected and deleted all our photos from my computer with his own hands.
At the end of the year, when the stock price was really high, he told me Dispatch had filmed details of our relationship. He said the agency is giving him a hard time because of our relationship and couldn't stand it because our secret relationship was leaking out. He told me delete all the pictures we took together and katalks in case reporters found them.
I was too naive so I did it because I thought my relationship with the person I love would go wrong. But in hindsight, he was cleverly deleting all the evidence. After erasing those traces, of course as you would expect, he number of times he contact me slowed down.
He hardly ever said good things about any of his co-stars from his drama. He would say "the supporting lead is so ugly" "supporting actor X can't act" and so on. Like all celebrities, he showed an image of someone that cares about his fans but in reality, he's not thankful for the iPhone his fan gave him because he's afraid it may have been tapped. He threw away fan letters without ever reading them.
Not long after we broke up, what made me even more terrified of him was on that same day and next day, he signed autographs for fans at the department store that were later posted by fans on DC Gallery. How is someone like that a human being? You would think he would mourn a breakup with a woman he had thought of marrying and whose child he forced an abortion under guise of marriage? A woman that will never again be able to bear children? Wouldn't that be the polite thing to do?
Because of our love, sacrifices and sensitivity to reporters, I decided to move for him without anyone knowing. I even paid a penalty fee to break my officetel lease early, changed license plates and adjusted everything because of him. The person that knew I moved because of him and said would visit as soon as I moved. But in the end, I hope he'll regret for irresponsibly throwing me away like a dog because "he was afraid of paying a penalty for a CF."
I didn't think I could live properly for rest of my life under that shadow of pain if I didn't expose this.
Thank you for reading."
sources: dailynaver, Sports Kyunghyang
It's apparently Kim Seon Ho who recently starred in the drama "Hometown Cha Cha Cha". He's already losing CF deals and the contract with his current agency already expired in September.
On the 17th, A wrote a lengthy article on online community Pann titled, "I'm exposing famous actor K's who's two faced and shameless" and revealed, "I'm his ex-girlfriend. If his personality wasn't so trash I wouldn't waste time exposing him like this. I can't live knowing the image he shows off on TV is different from reality. I made the decision to write this post for other women at the risk of exposing my identity."
I'm not only suffering from the after effects of the breakup but also his sub human actions of forcing I abort my precious baby, demanding a unilateral sacrifice because he's a celebrity, under false pretense of marriage, mental and physical trauma.
I thought a lot after watching actor Kim Yong-gun's and other idol group premarital pregnancies. Even though Kim Yong-gun forced an abortion, him and the idol group members still took responsibility and announced marriage.
If you convince someone to get an abortion as bait for a promise you won't keep, that's an illegal act that violates someone's rights. I found out that this actor is even more trash than I had imagined.
It's been 4 months since we broke up and I thought he'd ask for forgiveness from the bottom of his heart but it seems that he really loves acting. Because of his difficult childhood, his obsession with money is enormous and he took for granted the sacrifices of those around him due to his obsession with other people's opinions and his own success. I thought it would be different with me, but again, after breaking up, he made even more money and filmed CFs and became popular. He was in a rush to film even more CFs and never one apologized or showed any reflection.
We have been dating since early 2020. There's a lot of katalks of us from the time we first me until now. He asked me to delete those katalks a lot using ridiculous excuses but it was so strange so I saved the conversations.
Usually, when I read other people's articles, I often wondered why they didn't use birth control. I used birth control when we dated but I was getting sick because of it so I stopped using it after a month or two and asked him to use condoms. Then one day he said he wanted to do it inside and I allowed it because it wasn't a dangerous date and because it was only that one time.
That's when I ended up pregnant with actor K's baby in July of last year. Actually, I was very scared. We were secretly dating and couldn't even hold hands and walk together outside. I wondered how it'd be like with our baby and even thought of raising it on my own.
Since I was a kid, I've been told it would be difficult for me to have a baby because I have a weak uterus (it was my first pregnancy or abortion). The doctor told me that I wouldn't be able to conceive another baby again if I didn't have this one. I thought to myself, even if it's shameful to have a premarital baby, it's with someone that I love so that gave me courage and I wanted to have it.
So I contacted actor K on the spot while at the hospital and told him that if I aborted the child it would be difficult to have another one. Is there a woman that doesn't want to have a child with the person they love? Like other men, I wanted to hear that he would take responsibility after the pregnancy even if they were confused.
His trash reply to that still remains in my katalks. He acted like he would take responsibility in the katalks but it was completely different when we met. He was filming at the time and came to my house after filming and placated me with false promises to get me to agree to an abortion. I was 6-7 weeks pregnant at the time so my stomach was very stiff and sore. The minute he showed up he said, "it's ok now for me to do it inside right?" and asked for sex. He said, "Now I feel like you're really mine. You and I are family now."
Then he said, "It doesn't make sense that you won't be able to conceive anymore just because you have one abortion. If you have the baby now I'll have to pay a 900 million won fine. I don't have that kind of money right now."
He said he talked to his parents and told me, "What if I can no longer be an actor because of this baby? My parents said they throw me out on the streets." I found out later that he didn't have to pay a 900 million won penalty if he had a baby. He persuaded me to have an abortion with lies.
He threatened me saying, "I'll resent you and this baby if he's born right now. You can do whatever you want but our love will be over. I will never love this baby." With tears in his eyes, he put on an act with false promise of marriage and parental introductions and said, "I'm not ready to have a baby now but I've thought about settling down in 4 years. I will marry you in exactly 2 years and introduce you to my parents. Let's move in together next year."
I hesitated at that moment. I still regret that I didn't have the courage to insist on raising my child on my own so that he would have a chance to see the light of the world. I thought what if we broke up later and I fell in love and got married and wasn't able to have kids later, I wouldn't be able to live with myself. At that time, I had no choice but to tell my parents but I thought whenever I went through a breakup, my parents excuse was age.
As if driven by his words, I made up my mind to let my baby go. I told my only friend and younger brother, actor XX who was mentioned several times on a program. He didn't accompany me himself to the hospital, he was in a car and sent his acquaintance who pretended to be the baby's father.
Looking back, he was meticulous to the end. Meanwhile, I had thought I was being thoughtful for the person I loved but I was such an idiot. So with tears in my eyes, I sent away a baby that will never again come back to me in my life.
After the abortion, actor K's attitude changed. He only sent me 2 million won for surgery and hospital expenses and wanted nothing else. Because of that, I didn't threaten, complain or resent him. I was afraid my relationship with him, that was already fragile, would break.
Still, I thought I should tell him about the hospital visit and how the money was spent so I sent him the receipts and proof that I got the abortion. He got so pissed off about the situation. It was me that suffered mental and physical damage and trauma but he was the one irritable with emotions up and own caused by stress that I'm not sure where it was coming from. He'd say, "Are you trying to campaign to piss me off because you had to abort the baby because of me?"
The person that had promised to marry and live with me when I was still pregnant was now treating me this way after I got an abortion using work as an excuse. Because I really loved him, I thought all actors are like this. My body was in a state of change due to the after effects of the abortion so the physical and mental aftereffects were a lot. It was very difficult, but I honestly thought he would keep me by his side and live together and get married.
He became very sensitive after that whenever he went to work and everyone around him had to be careful. I sacrificed a lot when he was filming but he'd get annoyed about every little thing. When we dated, he was filming for about 8 months and throughout that time I was just a helper because he was always sensitive. I had to always adjust my mood, attitude, everything like a stylist or manager would. After he finished filming, he became so brazen after filming a CF and said he didn't know things would turn out like that that. As time went on, he got more and more annoyed and would scold me over katalks I would send him and I had to react to his changing moods. But I endured it because I thought we would be family soon.
After meeting him, I will never again date someone who puts on a mask. He's the type to always threaten a breakup if we fight to get what he wants. Contrary to his TV image, he's pretty good at cursing. I never swore or cursed him but he often cursed me and threatened me with shoes etc.
As he gained popularity, he suddenly started to change. I saw a different side to him and I started to feel like we had grown apart. Still, because I loved him, I tried to understand and waited for him. He told the media that he doesn't have a girlfriend and said that it was just "image making" that all celebrities do. He would apologize to me for lying but then go on TV and continue to lie to female celebrities close to him who contacted him in real life. Still, we kept secretly dating.
I suffered a lot. I had to stay his secret girlfriend because stocks went up when he met other female celebrities, did CFs and got more popular. I think I can understand now why I'm so sensitive because I din't want to believe it. After the abortion at that time, I was mentally too weak and my self-esteem was too low. There are photos I took on my cell phone too and those conversations. But I won't attach them because it'll cause an issue.
Contrary to his TV image, he's a really cold and ungrateful person. Everyday, he would swear at the people he worked with but would never understand why he had so few friends. The senior actors he admired on TV all thought he was trash. I've heard more cursing than praise from him regarding the directors and actors he worked with. He said a disgusting comment about a director "for giving him the character of his life."
After he appeared in a drama, he started doing things he hadn't done before. Using strange excuse, he erased all my photos from his phone and changed my name to that of a man and told me to delete all our katalks. He even selected and deleted all our photos from my computer with his own hands.
At the end of the year, when the stock price was really high, he told me Dispatch had filmed details of our relationship. He said the agency is giving him a hard time because of our relationship and couldn't stand it because our secret relationship was leaking out. He told me delete all the pictures we took together and katalks in case reporters found them.
I was too naive so I did it because I thought my relationship with the person I love would go wrong. But in hindsight, he was cleverly deleting all the evidence. After erasing those traces, of course as you would expect, he number of times he contact me slowed down.
He hardly ever said good things about any of his co-stars from his drama. He would say "the supporting lead is so ugly" "supporting actor X can't act" and so on. Like all celebrities, he showed an image of someone that cares about his fans but in reality, he's not thankful for the iPhone his fan gave him because he's afraid it may have been tapped. He threw away fan letters without ever reading them.
Not long after we broke up, what made me even more terrified of him was on that same day and next day, he signed autographs for fans at the department store that were later posted by fans on DC Gallery. How is someone like that a human being? You would think he would mourn a breakup with a woman he had thought of marrying and whose child he forced an abortion under guise of marriage? A woman that will never again be able to bear children? Wouldn't that be the polite thing to do?
Because of our love, sacrifices and sensitivity to reporters, I decided to move for him without anyone knowing. I even paid a penalty fee to break my officetel lease early, changed license plates and adjusted everything because of him. The person that knew I moved because of him and said would visit as soon as I moved. But in the end, I hope he'll regret for irresponsibly throwing me away like a dog because "he was afraid of paying a penalty for a CF."
I didn't think I could live properly for rest of my life under that shadow of pain if I didn't expose this.
Thank you for reading."
sources: dailynaver, Sports Kyunghyang
It's apparently Kim Seon Ho who recently starred in the drama "Hometown Cha Cha Cha". He's already losing CF deals and the contract with his current agency already expired in September.
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Date: 2021-10-19 04:12 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-10-19 04:46 pm (UTC)I'm so sorry she was pressured to abort under false pretense when she wanted to keep the baby and raise them on her own. That's another side of defending reproductive rights : supporting parents in making informed decisions, being able and helped to raise a child in a society that doesn't stigmatize single parents, finding support to leave a toxic relationships, among many issues. I wish she had found help, she sounds like she was totally isolated.
K. sounds like trash, and if his identity is confirmed, I hope he faces serious consequences. Which at least seem to be the case if OP's note is true.m, that's not much comfort but I guess it's a start.
It's so depressing to be a woman and read other women's experiences...
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Date: 2021-10-19 05:47 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-10-19 06:03 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-10-19 06:45 pm (UTC)If Kim Seonho is currently without an agency, that would certainly explain why there has hardly been any response from his side. I'm curious to see how this story'll develop tbh.
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Date: 2021-10-19 07:16 pm (UTC)I wonder why they even bother with him anymore.
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Date: 2021-10-19 07:32 pm (UTC)Edit: I'm being dumb lol. Perhaps the reason he didn't resign with thim is the reason this stuff is coming out now? They want to bury him and are keeping quiet to make him look extra bad? Wouldn't be the first time an ex-agency leaks stuff about their artist in retaliation haha.
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Date: 2021-10-19 07:44 pm (UTC)i can’t imagine the pain she must be going through right now. having to give up, what could be, her only child because of a horrible person. i shouldn’t be surprised but damn how is someone able to just live their life after causing so much damage?!
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Date: 2021-10-19 08:20 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-10-19 08:22 pm (UTC)it seems almost confirmed that this is actually kim seonho? hope he'll never gets work again but i feel like this will be brushed over soon :(
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Date: 2021-10-19 09:35 pm (UTC)Hope there’s actual consequences for him but I know reality is not that nice.
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Date: 2021-10-19 09:41 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-10-20 12:20 am (UTC)It’s stories like this that make me terrified of men. How could you do that to another human being and then carry on as if nothing happened?
And after hearing so many stories from women who struggle to get pregnant despite desperately wanting biological children, my heart aches for her. I really hope that she overcomes all of this.
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Date: 2021-10-20 02:32 am (UTC)The part about her being forced to abort a baby knowing she very likely won't have one again was so sad. I hope she can find happiness.
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Date: 2021-10-20 02:53 am (UTC)I haven't finished watching hometown cha cha cha and I won't bother to.
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Date: 2021-10-20 02:57 am (UTC)I was actually planning to watch the drama because of all the good things I heard. Now's that's one less drama on my list.
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Date: 2021-10-20 06:37 pm (UTC)Casting PD: So... have you fucked up in the past? Are you a trashcan? Is there a possibility that it may all get revealed in the future?
Celeb: Um... yes... that's possible...
Casting PD: PERFECT! You're hired!
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Date: 2021-10-20 03:16 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-10-20 03:21 am (UTC)Not that it matters except explaining why she was so desperate to keep the baby.
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Date: 2021-10-20 03:59 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2021-10-20 06:32 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2021-10-20 06:40 pm (UTC)I just don't understand it. If you hate condoms, don't wanna become a father but still fuck around just get sterilized, it's reversible.
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Date: 2021-10-20 07:15 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-10-20 05:12 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-10-20 06:22 am (UTC)her changing testimony that she has the messages, and then saying they were all deleted is reasonable doubt.
All that of course is moot now since Seon Ho is apologizing for his "carelessness". I mean that the fuck does that even mean.
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Date: 2021-10-20 06:40 pm (UTC)