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A netizen has come forward and claims she and NCT Lucas were on/off during the past years. According to her he is a gold digger and she had to pay for all of their meals, hotels and even his cigarettes.

"I'm a fan of NCT and WayV who dated Lucas and I'll expose him for being a cheapo. At first, Lucas showed his interest to me by asking for my number. So we started dating but suddenly, he said that he was having a hard time due to his schedule and wanted to break up. So we broke up without any bad blood. But this was the start to all our problems.

The day after we broke up, Lucas randomly said that he missed me and that he wanted to stay friends so I agreed. But every time he had a break, we would meet at hotels or meet at my apartment and I would always be the one paying. Of course, it was the same when we were still dating. What's worse is that he even asked me to buy his cigarettes.. And on the days where I wouldn't buy him anything, he would say "why are you not buying? I was sure that you would pay". He would say that since he's a celebrity, he can't go out and that if he used his card, his manager would find out.

Besides, his personality is grumpy so I had to satisfy all his requirements. Sometimes, he would even send me pictures of hotels he wanted to go to and would look at me and ask me to book them for him. I also bought him a lot of luxury gifts. At first, he used to be thankful but at some point, he said that he earns good money so if it's not a house or a car, that I shouldn't give him anything else.

He said that there was nobody else aside from me who understood him and started gaslighting me.. every time we went to hotels, he would just eat room service, sleep and leave. As soon as we had to check out, he would cut contact and wouldn't even say thanks. He must think that paying for him was an obvious thing to do

We stayed at the hotel for 4 days, I stayed there first before Lucas came back to the country.

We dated and broke up a couple of times for a few years and although I really liked him, I'm also fed up now. He broke up with me saying that he was too busy but I've heard hurtful things like "I hate that you are like a fan" or "don't do things like an idol fan in the future" so many times that I got depressed for a while. I liked him so much that I've never asked him to take a picture together, take his picture without permission and I've never shared about this with my friends. He also gaslighted me saying that my family shouldn't find out.

Recently, it was still like that when he went to China so around a month ago, I said that I was too disgusted and that I was gonna sue him so he immediately left our Katalk chatroom and changed his number. He acted like a jotbaem (T/N: kinda like a gold digger) but I'd rather just stayed as a fan. I regret, he's a cheapo."


Screenshot of one of their WeChat conversations:



Lucas: No
- Anne
- You know?
- I couldn't go out because of him

OP: You couldn't go where?
Lucas: Airplane
- ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
- When I get off, I'll contact you
- ㅋㅋㅋㅋ


More screenshots + hotel reservation:



Voice recording that he sent to her via WeChat:



Pictures that he sent her + ring that he gifted her:




sources: pannchoa, pann, @ooooshiiim (OP's twitter account) 1, 2, 3
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Date: 2021-08-24 03:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] burnbook31.livejournal.com
what does he mean he can't use his card? does the manager have a way to track his spendings? do they not use cash anymore?

that said, this is really a shitty behavior. im disappointed in you, same birthday buddy.
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Date: 2021-08-24 04:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] in-noctem.livejournal.com
I have text alerts on for one of my cards so maybe they had smth similar set up? Like the manager would be alerted how much he spent and where. But then if this was all true then he probably was just trying to bleed his gf’s wallet dry

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Date: 2021-08-24 03:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] greasetastic-x.livejournal.com
Maybe just maybe, just a little thought, don't date someone that calls themselves your fan if them being your fan will piss you off.

my broke ass out here tryna figure out how she even had the money to support him like this. I guess this is what happens when there is a power imbalance between fan and idol. Disappointed but i hold the bar so low for men that i am not surprised if they turn out to be assholes

Date: 2021-08-24 08:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] babycheeses1.livejournal.com
This is what I'm trying to figure out lol. Like is she some older successful women with an already established career and therefore all that dough just lying around??

Date: 2021-08-24 04:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xlovexlessxtyx.livejournal.com
Idk how y'all date smokers...

Date: 2021-08-24 07:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aures.livejournal.com
lol mte, i casually dated 2 smokers and it's was such a turn-off that i refused to date smokers after that it's so disgusting ugh (+ the waste of money! imagine all the condoms Lucas can buy if he quit smoking LOL)

Date: 2021-08-24 04:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] in-noctem.livejournal.com
apparently this has been debunked and was started by a bored kpop fan?? idek anymore

Date: 2021-08-24 01:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kyulkyung.livejournal.com
it wasn't. nctzen just immediately buried everything.

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Date: 2021-08-24 04:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fadeintoyou.livejournal.com

“Why are you not buying? I was sure that you would pay.”

“His personality is grumpy so I had to satisfy all his requirements.”

all signs to nope out of that relationship super fast.

Date: 2021-08-24 05:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aeipathy.livejournal.com
idk if gaslighting was what this really was, just sounds like he was being a gold digger/leech. but idols need to stop dating fans for real, it's always gross and never turns out well.

i do like that a few big twitter accounts tweeted "proof" that her evidence was fake and it got spread like wildfire so everyone believed it, but then smart people started pointing out "actually the voice message and the bubble message aren't the same at all" and "lucas said winwin gave him the ring" and "the hotel dates actually do add up because she said in her post she checked in earlier and he would come on the days he landed back in korea or the night before he flew out". but of course it was too late and now if you try to bring it up you're a lucas anti!!!11

Date: 2021-08-24 06:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vanilla-09.livejournal.com
wait so this is more likely to be true then? bc honestly sm pr has only so many man hours to deal with their messy artists.

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Date: 2021-08-24 05:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aeipathy.livejournal.com
"I also bought him a lot of luxury gifts. At first, he used to be thankful but at some point, he said that he earns good money so if it's not a house or a car, that I shouldn't give him anything else."

also this part is so bold i can't help but laugh. sounds like he wanted a sugar mama.

Date: 2021-08-24 07:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daynr.livejournal.com
but also like, don't waste your basic cash!

could be either: save up for something big! OR save for our hotel rendevous/whatever you want for you, girl.

Date: 2021-08-24 07:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daynr.livejournal.com
1. Love this kind of gossip.
2. Dude brags about being gorgeous and wants to be famous for his looks. What do you expect, depth?
3. Girl, no offense, but love yourself --> why are you paying for a celebrity who is popular?
4. Cackling that: a. he's a grump in real life, and b. if he's so cheap, why did he buy you a ring?
5. Many 20ish men just order food, sleep, and maybe request a bj.
6. Girl, you're correct to complain, but also, love yourself! years of this? he doesn't even sound charming, simply cute. go for personality, not dick. (This is like a college class 101!)


I take it all with a grain of salt, but it all seems plausible to me. Also seems like run-of-the-mill shitty douche behavior for gorgeous barely 20s kids. Who didn't if they could?

Date: 2021-08-25 04:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] onemoretym.livejournal.com
lmfaooooo
but also mte

Date: 2021-08-24 08:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seiruka.livejournal.com
Him being a sugar baby is the least surprising scandal he could've had lol...he's always given off major fuckboy vibes

edit: YO this scandal escalated QUICKLY I'm waiting for the next post like-
Image
Edited Date: 2021-08-24 01:33 pm (UTC)

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Date: 2021-08-24 08:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dbsk-2pm.livejournal.com
Funny how this is happening when his unit song with another messy WayV member is coming out tomorrow.
Even funnier is the fact that it's a fandom joke that Lucas is part of the college frat boy line.

If it's true, then he's trash, but also this woman needs to cut all contact. I know what it means to have a toxic partner, but for how long can you keep this going if he's sucking all the cash off of you, while wearing Burberry and Louis Vuitton bags?
If it ain't true, oh, well...

Date: 2021-08-24 11:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] imahurricane.livejournal.com
oh what’s the tea about hendery?

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Date: 2021-08-24 08:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] broadcities.livejournal.com
I'm a fan of NCT and WayV who dated Lucas and I'll expose him for being a cheapo.
this just cracks me up.

it mostly just seems like he wanted to be a sugar baby but couldn't find anyone that could support his lifestyle. his comments about her being an idol fan are kind of mean, don't date her then??

Date: 2021-08-24 09:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rennehollic.livejournal.com
All I get from this is the dude wanted a sugar mama.
Not a good look, but hey l, compared to the shifty scandals we have been getting, this is the least concerning.
He's just a man child

Date: 2021-08-24 10:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gathyou.livejournal.com
First of all, no man is worth all that shit. Why would she tolerate years of this ;__; I wish women (everyone really, but it seems to be more of a problem for women in my experience) were taught to stand up for themselves in relationships, and walk out when it doesn't work out for them.

If all of this is true, he sounds like a douchebag and a leech, the kind of 20-something dude who knows he's good looking and is taking advantage of it. Being famous certainely doesn't help.

I'm glad it's a fuckboy scandal an not another abuser scandal...

Date: 2021-08-24 10:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nacomi.livejournal.com
I don‘t understand that as well. (I would walk right out.)
I see that enough in my environment tho with even family and friends saying to suck it up.

I can be glad to never have been in a romantic rs to have that kind of baggage, but I had other bs in my life to compensate.

Date: 2021-08-24 10:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nacomi.livejournal.com
I‘m not surprised if this turns out to be true

Date: 2021-08-24 10:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snowphone.livejournal.com
my phone only gave me twitter notifs saying this was debunked, what is the truth.gif!!!! i can easily believe it though lol i hope she chooses better next time and not someone who treats her like this!!!!

Date: 2021-08-24 11:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cxxl.livejournal.com
Sings Not Gon Cry for her


Date: 2021-08-24 11:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bauci.livejournal.com
Where can I find a sugarmama? I promise not to be picky, just get me the Nongshim ramen instead of the cheap one and we're good.

Date: 2021-08-24 12:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] premonitioner.livejournal.com
following this thread!! I just want someone to buy me not shitty food

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Date: 2021-08-24 12:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] foxmadperson.livejournal.com
not surprised but she’s a sucker lol

Date: 2021-08-24 12:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] memei5.livejournal.com
damn, i thought nct had money? seems like so much work to beg to be a sugar baby than just...pay for it yourself

between this fanedit that blew up and the 'dozen pay' tweet, i've gotta say, nctzens know how to take a joke


#LUCAS (https://twitter.com/hashtag/LUCAS?src=hash&ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw): bills, bills, bills pic.twitter.com/w9S4ieVVTL (https://t.co/w9S4ieVVTL)

— ؘ (@LCSLOOKS) July 26, 2021 (https://twitter.com/LCSLOOKS/status/1419458191541288960?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw)

Date: 2021-08-24 01:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] burnbook31.livejournal.com
there are more?! is he broke? wtf...
https://twitter.com/chiguajimei/status/1430142212503867401?s=09

idk how to embed tweets from phone~

Date: 2021-08-24 01:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dior-chic.livejournal.com
https://www.reddit.com/r/kpop/comments/pamk1s/two_more_people_have_stepped_forward_to_accuse/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

I saw this posted on reddit as it’s fairly new. Also with this rumors, some stuff is being brought up of him talking shit about other members.

Personally I don’t really see the point in chiding or talking down to the fan. Hopefully she’ll find someone who treats her right. I know nothing about this guy but he’s already showing asshole tendencies. He shouldn’t be sleeping or pursuing relationships with fans where there is clearly a power dynamic and he’s manipulating them. No naive fan deserves that even if their judgment is clouded.
Edit: I should add my concern for this is moreso male idol and female fan. Male fan and female idol I judge per case.

Tbh I’m sure plenty of male idols are like this and it’s why I don’t give them my time.
Edited Date: 2021-08-24 01:33 pm (UTC)

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Date: 2021-08-24 01:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] scheisse.livejournal.com
This is such a non-scandal lmao. I literally don't see an issue here. Idols have to be careful with what they buy so that they're not "exposed". An idol being exposed for renting a hotel room several times would be an actual scandal for them.

"he said that he earns good money so if it's not a house or a car, that I shouldn't give him anything else"

This is not a bad thing. He's telling her there's no need to buy him things because he can buy himself things. How that's being twisted into a negative thing is beyond me.

"He broke up with me saying that he was too busy but I've heard hurtful things like "I hate that you are like a fan" or "don't do things like an idol fan in the future" so many times that I got depressed for a while."

It makes complete sense that an idol wouldn't want to date someone who acts like a fan. If he felt she was acting like a fan, he's feelings are valid when it comes to how she may've been acting?

"He also gaslighted me saying that my family shouldn't find out."

That's... that's not gaslighting. What?

I know I sound like a Lucas stan defending him, but I'm not. It's just that nothing about this comes off as scandalous and people are dragging the dude for what seems to be a non-issue. I mean, yeah, it's funny that he was having her buy his cigarettes, but again, he's an idol and can't be seen buying them himself. If you're going to date a famous person, you have to accept that there are going to be some annoying parts of your relationship that you have to hide or do. That just comes with the territory.

Date: 2021-08-24 02:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xoxkenzxox.livejournal.com
this is an interesting take on it.


Honestly, whenever "regular people" buy gifts and give money to idols, I blame the regular person and not the idol. Like, you know what you are buying into. It's a fantasy. I can't feel bad for the sugar mama/sugar daddy.

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Date: 2021-08-24 02:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dior-chic.livejournal.com
This boy is allegedly* cheating and lbr he’s not wear condoms if looking how men can be

*before someone gets mad lol
Edited Date: 2021-08-24 02:13 pm (UTC)

Date: 2021-08-24 02:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mortkero.livejournal.com
I wonder how many different girls he had in different cities? I wouldn't be surprised if more people came forward

I am really not surprised at this scandal. He's good looking and he knows it and he has always given me that vibe.

I wonder if they just don't worry at all about being found out and it causing a scandal

Date: 2021-08-24 02:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] greasetastic-x.livejournal.com
commenting again bc more has come out. And while I shouldn't be laughing, god, this man is as much of an airhead as he seems. How are you going to talk shit about ALL of your sources of income. Burberry, Keep Running, and your own group members. Like dude go talk shit with your mom, at least she probably won't turn on you and expose you. Bless his heart..

SM just saying "no comment" is wow. If more keeps coming out, someone finna have to comment for PR purposes

Date: 2021-08-24 02:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xoxkenzxox.livejournal.com
where are all these bad remarks about brands? I wanna laugh. Is it in then new post?

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