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Former AOA member Mina has released contents of an apology sent to her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend.

On the 4th, Mina posted on her IG and wrote, "I haven't publicly made an apology yet but I sent an apology to the ex-girlfriend first through DM."

She then shared a photo of a DM exchange between her and the ex where Mina says to A, "There is something that has been under investigation for a long time so once this is sorted out to some extent, the parts that I honestly heard, parts that I misunderstood, parts that I did wrong, parts that weren't true, parts that XX (boyfriend) did wrong, I will organize it accurately and issue a statement."

She apologized writing, "I'm sorry that I listened to XX (boyfriend) without asking what the truth was. As a public figure, I will keep promises I made. Once again, I'm sorry and will release this publicly."

Mina then explained, "the last photo is the ex-girlfriend's answer saying "yes, I understand." I got permission and when I upload a video soon, I'll only talk about this incident and admit my mistake and the stories that you nor the ex-girlfriend knew. I also want to summarize it and apologize properly."

She added, "As for other stories and incidents, I decided that my fault for this incident and my sincere apology would come first so I'll try to fix wrong parts of the other incidents once this incident is sorted out to some extent. I sincerely thank ex-girlfriend. Even now, I'm sorry. I'm just sorry. I'm sorry to have caused all this from DM and for sending a long paragraph (to netizen) separately about this incident."

This post has since been deleted.

Hours later after first post that was deleted, in a report by Xports News, Mina posted another lengthy post on IG apologizing to the ex-girlfriend once again and admitted to the cheating scandal.

She also admitted that "there were no such words as "wh*re" in the text messages from the ex's father and clarified that she never said that she got that message directly from him but rather what she had heard and thought it included her."

She also revealed that her and Yoo have since parted ways writing, "I sincerely apologize. In the case of Yoo and his ex, I was the obvious perpetrator and I was too late to judge and acted foolishly. Of course, I would like to admit my mistake and sincerely bow my head and apologize to the victim, the ex."

"I am currently separated from Yoo. After today, I will only receive your support and will not reply. I will also cut off all contact with the fans I have been in contact with. I feel really guilty for being so free-spirited and acting my way. I'm sorry. I'm also very sorry for disappointing many people."

"I also want to address mentions of Jimin. Why do so many people keep mentioning it. It has absolutely nothing to do with this case and I also don't want to mention it. So, please don't even try to make me a perpetrator with false information. In the case of Shin Jimin, I am a huge victim."

"I'm sorry for creating fuss with this incident, I apologize once again to the victims and promise this will never happen in the future. I'll live with more responsibility in my words and actions so that there are no victims. I hope you understand."



Mina has further exposed an AOA member "who likes to have sex."

Mina held an IG live broadcast on the morning of the 5th, apologized about cheating scandal and stated, "There's a person among the members who likes sex very much. This member ask me why I wanted to stay celibate and I told her I wanted save my body. Do I have to have sex?"

"There are people saying I got cervical cancer because I had sex a lot when I was younger. That's not the reason. I was (TW) sexually assaulted when I was in middle school. I'm not that kind of woman."

After she re-uploaded the live video, a lot of netizens sent her countless comments asking her to "stop sns and focus on treatment" "since you acknowledged your mistake and apologized, stay away from social media and recover your mental health."

Later, another netizen replied to the post writing, "you said there was a member who enjoyed sex and there's even articles out now about it and communities are speculating who it is. What you're doing is sexual harassment and public shamingㅋㅋㅋ. The members are getting hurt once again, are you not going to take responsibility over this?"

Mina then replied and revealed, "Oh, you mean XX (Shin Jimin)."



Mina who had declared that she will quit SNS held a IG live to address rumors about Seolhyun.

On an IG live held on the 5th, Mina admitted to cheating. (...) When another netizen asked "why did you write Seolhyun's name in your suicide note?," Mina replied, "There was a good reason for that. A huge betrayal. She was like a bat. Up on her high status, she seemed like she didn't care what happened to me. I'll upload the specific details that I can find."

She added, "Seolhyun and I were very close and depended on each other a lot since we became trainees together. But there's a reason why I mentioned her the way I did."


sources: dailynaver 1, 2, 3, Star News, Xsport news, Sports Chosun, Chosun Ilbo

@ Mina sis, please:

Date: 2021-07-05 07:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aures.livejournal.com
i feel bad for her, she's really making a fool of herself. any credit she had is completely gone now. she needs help.
not here to defend anyone but i don't like her shaming someone for liking sex

Date: 2021-07-05 08:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 921227.livejournal.com
She should have already been off social media. It's not doing her any favors && the last thing she needs is people doubting her or questioning her

I hope the ex gf can move on from this, its bad enough being cheated on let alone having your personal life aired out like this

Date: 2021-07-05 08:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] inwazyja.livejournal.com
Someone really needs to take social media away from* her :(

I’m not here for people suddenly saying she’s fake/an attention whore/whatever other nonsense I’ve seen. Come on, she’s acting erratic as fuck and she has for a while now, she’s clearly not ok.

But her comments on Jimin were nagl this time.
Edited Date: 2021-07-05 08:33 pm (UTC)

Date: 2021-07-05 08:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] frequency.livejournal.com
social media definitely isn't helping with her mental health :/ i hope somebody can get her the help she needs.

shaming someone for having sex is not a good look, but k-netz (or anyone else) don't need to act like that invalidates her being bullied; that's just ugly.

Date: 2021-07-05 08:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dongsaengkiller.livejournal.com
Sigh. At least it’s one of the better apologies I’ve seen in kpop. I hope the ex moves on from this with as little pain as possible. I wish Mina would stay away from social media. The slut shaming she did was awful. All the empathy and good will she had from before will be lost at this rate. I’m sure she’s still suffering and in pain so I hope she just focuses on treatment for the sake of her health.
Edited Date: 2021-07-05 08:42 pm (UTC)

Date: 2021-07-05 08:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] theweebdream.livejournal.com
Glad she broke up with the dude and admitted she fucked up. Lmao at the dude for breaking up with his gf of three years for a celebrity and then getting dumped a week or so later.

It’s exactly as someone else commented though that she’s lost all credibility now. There is no way the general public is going to be able to separate the Mina of the cheating scandal and the Mina who was a bullying victim. Echoing that she just needs to stay off all social media at this point.

Date: 2021-07-05 10:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] annoyedannushka.livejournal.com
I only scanned through the bulling posts, but it makes me wonder if she's one of those overly sensitive people who always thinks everyone is picking on them. Plus, she doesn't come across as being very nice herself.

Date: 2021-07-06 01:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pppum.livejournal.com
Agree. I wonder if the reason all other AOA members were silent because sooner or later she will ruin her own rep like this. They know she is a ticking bomb.

Date: 2021-07-06 11:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sra-interesante.livejournal.com
nah ... i dont really think she being overly sensitive makes her bullying story less terrible or aoa members less guilty , if anything shes just starting to look as bad as jimin

like other comments are saying she not acting like the perfectly submissive and quiet victim shouldnt affect her victim status or are you implyig she had it coming because she makes mistakes too?


cant tell if your comment was morbid or just cynical 👀

Date: 2021-07-05 11:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lysblack.livejournal.com
Mess, mess, messy mess. I really worry about her mental health, she is clearly is not okay and shouldn't be online.

But as messy all of this is people should realize that just because she is behaving like this right now it doesn't mean that she wasn't bullied while in AOA.

Date: 2021-07-05 11:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 921227.livejournal.com
True.

Unfortunately, her character is her biggest strength in her bullying case and behavior like this makes for a less sympathetic victim. People who arent paying too closely attention to her case or on the fence with their support will conflate the two issues

Date: 2021-07-05 11:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lysblack.livejournal.com
Yup, sadly people expect victims of harassment (no matter what type, if emotional, physical or sexual) to be perfect victims aka perfectly pure and pristine that has never done, or will never do, anything wrong in life. And in Korea that seem to be even stronger.

I mean, the comment above mine already does that, because she is not a 'nice' person she clearly couldn't have been a victim, losing whatever sympathy she may have had, even tho Jimin herself seemed to have (in a way) confirmed what Mina said had happened.

Date: 2021-07-06 05:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] butterspike.livejournal.com
Yeah I notice people do that a lot. Very strange to me. I guess...character flaws does not mean they deserve the bullying...

Date: 2021-07-06 12:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lulufairybubble.livejournal.com

She is not ok and that is clear. She can still be a victim tho. But being a victim doesnt make it ok to then engage in sex shaming.

Date: 2021-07-06 03:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hiimgosu.livejournal.com
I am so worried for this girl. This is a downward spiral...

Date: 2021-07-06 03:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lydzi.livejournal.com
It really is :c

Date: 2021-07-06 07:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sra-interesante.livejournal.com
Ooohh boy , good for her apologizing
but all the rest was really unncessary

venting like this on such a public platform doesnt feel right .... on porpouse or not, its just sad to see someone acting like this for whatever reason

Date: 2021-07-06 11:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] myrrhcat.livejournal.com
girl...

i don't think any of this means she was not a victim of bullying (or as i like to say, abuse, bc bullying sounds too schoolyard-ish to apply to adults), but it does make me reassess the whole thing. with this sex-shaming that she's doing now it makes me think that the abuse could have been, at least to some degree, reciprocal.

but we'll never know the real truth of it cuz we weren't there and increasingly i'm thinking there's no point taking sides on complex interpersonal issues like this. there's always new info that comes out and a lot more info that will never come out. all i can say is what a shame and i hope she finds peace and happiness.

Date: 2021-07-06 02:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] myungung.livejournal.com
She really needs time off social media and for herself to recover/heal. She's clearly not doing well, and she’s just lashing out now I feel. It doesn’t take away her experience in AOA, but the public aren’t so forgiving

Date: 2021-07-06 04:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] soyunatetera.livejournal.com
Idk this mess makes me more worried for her
I agree with the comments above of the demand from people to be a perfect victim, and her not fiting on it and getting backlash from people makes me worry cause she clearly isn't well. And please someone take her phone away

Date: 2021-07-06 07:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thegout.livejournal.com
the only thing i know for sure is that she needs less social media. it's worrying

Date: 2021-07-06 09:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] infj23.livejournal.com
I’m still not over her blaming Jimin for contracting HPV. She needs a true friend, a psychiatrist, and a willingness to listen to them.

Date: 2021-07-08 12:01 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] krissasaur
j f c

"There are people saying I got cervical cancer because I had sex a lot when I was younger. That's not the reason. I was (TW) when I was in middle school. I'm not that kind of woman."

also where the hell did this come from.

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