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Did you have a good week, Omona?
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Date: 2019-12-13 08:55 am (UTC)i guess i'm kinda back? i'm not really ready yet but i really missed talking to you guys on fridays for the past few weeks!
i haven't been doing well, both mentally and physically. it was just things kept piling on and on and it was just too much to handle so i had to take a step back. a couple of the things that happened (a small portion):
my illness has really been messing with me lately and i've been in a lot of pain and a LOT of migraine again and that hasn't helped me mentally, either. also with goo hara passing, i wanted to take time to properly say goodbye to her (which i did!). also a couple of other people nearby have passed away the past few weeks which made me really sad.
the local government has rejected my application for help again and it's a very confusing system but basically they all (multiple parties) just leave me hanging, and they are all pointing fingers at each other. they all are like "wow you really need help" and "you're life is so sad and hard, you need help" but they just reject me anyway and it's been like this for over 2 years and it just caused a lot of pain. we have filed an official complaint and called the local government and they just leave me hanging AGAIN. it's just so ridiculous. I had a talk with my mom last night about how it really made me understand people who take very drastic measurements to get "attention" and help like jump of a building or in front of a car and light their house on fire or whatnot. I told her i really feel like i need to do something very extreme just for them notice me and take me seriously and just feeling that kind of pressure is just absolutely awful. I'm thankful i have my family here to support me through this.
i also turned 29 earlier this week (wednesday), it was a bit of a difficult day and i got migraine at the end of the day. birthdays are kinda hard, but i'm just very grateful that i got to spend it with my parents and brother, they were all home all day and just that was enough for me. but i have made it so far and i'm thankful for that, even if it's extremely hard at the same time.
otherwise i have mostly been reading, doing some baking and cooking and watching some variety/series/drama - i started Shige's Zero: Ikkaku Senkin Game drama.
i've been doing some origami here and there because i'm making a big origami thing for my mom's upcoming birthday end of the month and i will have to put in a looot of hours still because it's kinda a big project but i hope she'll like it. we don't really have the right kind of paper but i'm sure it will still look nice.
what your plans for the rest of the year guys? do you already have your christmas tree up? we bought a new one because our other was just /so/ fake lol, it was so ugly. so we got a new one and we are hoping to set it up this weekend. do you guys have a lot of decorations up in and around the house? like special christmas lights?
@Gathyou; thank you sooo much for your kind message! i'll reply soon, i promise! i'm sorry i haven't been able to reply yet, but i really meant a lot to me, so thank you! i hope you are doing well, i'm really grateful you messaged me ♥
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Date: 2019-12-13 10:12 am (UTC)Happy belated birthday! I'm sorry it ended badly but happy to hear you got to spend it with your family. I agree birthdays can be hard, I personally hate the attention they bring. Did you do anything else for the day? Had some food that you could enjoy?
The situation with your health and the local government is really heartbreaking, I'm really just so sorry. I can't understand the pain and despair it makes you feel, but I have lived through a similar experience with my mother who was in a similar situation to you and started to feel similar to what you described. I can only say I hope it gets resolved asap and that if you ever need to talk, please feel free to PM me. I don't have any answers, but I support you 100% and you shouldn't feel alone - I'm glad you feel supported by your family through this.
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Date: 2019-12-13 11:42 am (UTC)How can medicine have evolved so much, and yet we still get migraines??
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Date: 2019-12-13 01:22 pm (UTC)I remember your birthday was on Ryo's solo album release
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Date: 2019-12-13 03:00 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2019-12-13 01:18 pm (UTC)How do they not realize they're fucking up everyone's future
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Date: 2019-12-13 01:27 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2019-12-13 03:13 pm (UTC)my PCP's office still doesn't know what kind of insurance they'll be taking next year, which is getting ridiculous, because i'll have to see her to get new lab orders. and insurance requires referrals for specialists, so i'd have to be able to get in and get those before i see my gastroenterologist on the 11th. 🤦
a member on here a few months ago warned me about IUD placement being extremely uncomfortable and. whew. they were absolutely right; i took a pain pill before going in and it did not help at all, lol. i wasn't on my cycle like they ~recommend~ but all they really needed to know is if i was pregnant or not. i only just had it done on tuesday so i can't say anything about the results so far.
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Date: 2019-12-13 03:26 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2019-12-13 03:27 pm (UTC)Does anyone want to do some kind of decade-end rewards? Basically I need an excuse to write an essay on how IGAB is that bitch and y’all can seethe😂😂😂😂
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Date: 2019-12-13 05:35 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2019-12-13 03:39 pm (UTC)I’m a very happy fan :)))))))))
And I genuinely love the whole group but Sua is a bias-wrecker whew! She is so charming
Some negativity though - I didn’t care for the venue and standing out for hours in the cold pissed me off. But that’s not on my girls, they put on a show ❤️
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Date: 2019-12-13 07:54 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2019-12-13 03:41 pm (UTC)This seems to be hitting a lot of idols recently but I'm glad it's being taken seriously so care can be put in place. This one feels especially personal because she's my bias tho, please rest well Dawonie!!
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Date: 2019-12-13 09:50 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2019-12-13 03:43 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-13 04:04 pm (UTC)daynr is simple: it's a few letters taken from my 3 names that I stuck together to be unique so I can use it across multiple platforms. This has worked out, though no ideas on how to pronounce it ....
I have a, hmm, certification? exam on Monday and I don't know if I want to pass or not. I have like 6 balls in the air, and that's just 4 too many.
Finally, neato:
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/the-whispering-trees-180968084/
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Date: 2019-12-13 04:25 pm (UTC)Now the fashion community repulses me 99.9% of the time and faves of mine like McQueen are dead. I stopped caring about it a long time ago. I’d change my name if it was free.
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Date: 2019-12-13 04:16 pm (UTC)I want to join classes to meet people and try some of the things i want but my new job is severely less than my last and it's been rough saving the amounts I want. I haven't adjustment my saving plans which means my spending pool is significantly less but I know it's better in the long run, especially with how tumultuous the market is.
I've been following some writers and it always amazes me what's possible with independent writing in the "modern age".
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Date: 2019-12-13 10:01 pm (UTC)What type of clases would you like to join? I'd also like to join some, but not enough $$ :/
Oh~, what kind of writers/books do you like/had been following?
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Date: 2019-12-13 04:16 pm (UTC)Crazy day today so I wasn't even able to post during my lunch break as I usually do.
My boss is on medical leave for a full month so something really happened. I feel super guilty because my first thought was "oh we'll have a quiet month at least" (two of my coworkers confessed having the exact same thought lol) when one month means serious health issue. One of my favourite things about myself is that I care about other people, it's the reason I do my job, it's what I try to live by, but I didn't really care about my boss. I don't like this :(
But work still goes on and the team have a ton of work to do. At least we're able to organize ourselves as we want, and we've been pretty successful so far. I feel like I've done SO MUCH this week! it's crazy.
I've also learned that my boss' boss want to reorganize our service next year lmao. My boss and her boss hate each other and have veeeery different ways of working, it's going to be a shitshow. But hey! maybe things will change for us? who knows!
Also the strike is driving me crazy.
Not the strike itself because I understand. But I'm just tired to struggle in public transport. Last time it took me 2h45 from my office to my psy (car with a coworker + waiting the bus + overfulled bus) when it usually takes less than one hour TT I was lucky to even get a bus, many friends/coworkers have nothing.
Also my cousin can't visit us this weekend as previously planned. I feel sad for the kid, it's the third time a visit in Paris with her mom get cancelled because of demonstrations, she has the worst luck :(
Our governement needs to sit down and listen ffs
Anyway
Christmas is coming soon!!! what are your plans for Christmas?
I'll be at my parents' for 5 days and I'll spent most of it cooking, eating and chilling lol. I can't wait!!!
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Date: 2019-12-13 05:07 pm (UTC)They cut the electricity where I work cause we're near the sous préfecture
They didn't care about the 2 schools and 3 day care center who didn't have heating device for 5 hours. It was fucking 5° outside ( no way to prepare the food either)
I'm sorry but I have zero sympathy for anyone benefitting from those special regime (that include the politics though, why are we still paying VGE)
I can't deal with this hostage situation
Or the harassment non striker face (i just adore to be called a c*ck sucking wh*re just because I go to work)
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Date: 2019-12-13 05:42 pm (UTC)It's been a weird week for me. We've been in a social revolution in my country for more than 50 days and at the beginning I was very active, going to the protest, having reunions, assemblies, etc. But my insomnia started to get worse, later I got really sick because of allergies, and that has affected my mental health. Even if I'm feeling better in the allergy situation I just feel down all the time and haven't left my house this week 😑 I started to watch lots of kpop videos, got into new groups buts then my laptop broke 😑😑😑😑 my getaway, my relief broke :( I just feel miserable. Now I'm stuck with my phone and trapped in my house
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Date: 2019-12-13 05:46 pm (UTC)my week was less hectic and stressfulm compared to last weel which was great!
i finally finished busted s2 and wheeeew kim minjae is one fine man. i knew he existed but was never really checking for him but i will now! can someone recommend me their fave kim minjae drama/movie please??
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Date: 2019-12-13 11:23 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2019-12-13 05:57 pm (UTC)I’m happy it’s Friday and almost the holidays! Ready for a break haha.
I saw my MX boys last wknd (minus WH and JH 😭). Had they ever performed as five before?? Regardless, I sang my heart out and they seemed in a good mood as a result of the crowd. We were LOUD haha. And they performed Someone’s Someone for the first time!
Also, NCT127 also performed and while their music isn’t really my style, they are a talented bunch. But also... why does so much of their choreo happen on the floor? It looks painful haha.
Have a good wknd~
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Date: 2019-12-13 06:16 pm (UTC)Now, spill on deeper impressions. And how little are the two shorteys, are they really, or is hard to tell? Cause K always looks a lot shorter than IM, but supposedly he ain't?
And was Johnny full of joy, being in Chicago? I don't have a handle of NCT, but I would be happy to watch them. When they were here they were in San Jose, which they were not worth.
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Date: 2019-12-13 06:38 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2019-12-13 09:42 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-13 10:36 pm (UTC)I'm new here.. and new to kpop in general, my name is ash, im thirty two years old (yeah, kinda old) and discovered kpop a little over a year ago, it would be amazing to find friends that share that interest since none of my irl's even know what kpop is.
so far I ult bts, mamamoo, got7, the rose and chungha but I also love txt, everglow, exo, nct, wayv, ateez, stray kids, monsta x etc.
I'm still discovering new artists so please feel free to drop some recommendations below!
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Date: 2019-12-14 03:31 am (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2019-12-14 12:18 am (UTC)well, conversion
hellweek is over and i barely survived. i did have a breakdown last night when i got home. i was just overwhelmed with everything. i felt like nothing was getting done. for those who don't know, our credit union changed core processors and it's been a crazy year preparing for this. i've worked every day for the past 12 days, mostly 10-12 hours.. i'm deadbeat tired.i have no idea what's been happening this past week. both in the kpop world and the not so normal world.
i took a nice hot bath, i'm going to take a giant sleeping pill and sleep in and relax this weekend.
p.s. my pay check is going to be awesome next week. not only overtime, but back pay and a raise!
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Date: 2019-12-14 12:24 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-14 03:35 am (UTC)I hired a business mentor/coach person for the next couple months since all my freelance friends have gone back to full time work I’ve been feeling stuck.
Hope you’re taking good care of yourselves 🌱
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Date: 2019-12-14 06:59 am (UTC)but I have also been using the time to pursue avenues to help me go abroad, including schools, and so I have exams and shit I'm working on. Change is f-cking scary man. Has Brexit influenced your thoughts of Scotland (and whether it might move independent?)
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