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She's been acting in dramas and movies since 1988 and leaves behind a husband and son.

Suicide Prevention Resouces if you or someone you know need them.

Date: 2019-06-29 07:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
Depression is a bitch. RIP.

I've only seen her in "tempted" last year, she played Joy's mom.

Date: 2019-06-29 07:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kcaomei.livejournal.com
so incredibly heartbreaking. i hope she's now found peace.

my thoughts and condolences go out to her family :(

Date: 2019-06-29 07:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] markama.livejournal.com
Tragedy :(Image

Date: 2019-06-29 08:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] camouflagecat.livejournal.com
I wasn't familiar with her work but I last saw her on He Is Psychometric and that was so recently... how awful, R.I.P

Date: 2019-06-29 08:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nekokonneko.livejournal.com
It's the suicides of older, sucessful people (like Chester Bennington and Robin Williams) that hits me hard personally. Like, this isn't some adolescent, hormonal thing that I've aged out of. I'll still be fighting this invisible, irrational demon my entire life and it might win out in the end, no matter how full my life gets.

Date: 2019-06-29 10:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lechuza-yoya.livejournal.com
I am in the same boat, alexander mcqueen hit me so hard. lets hope does not win in the end. we got this. xoxo

Date: 2019-06-29 11:49 pm (UTC)

Date: 2019-06-30 02:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightframes.livejournal.com
<3 We're here for you.

Date: 2019-06-30 09:04 am (UTC)

Date: 2019-06-30 02:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] adlyeith.livejournal.com
I don't think I've ever viewed it that way before. I've been battling depression for 12 years already, on and off meds, and I always kind of got the impression from various doctors that there might be a time it doesn't exist anymore for me, but... I'm starting to think that's not the case.

Date: 2019-06-30 09:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nekokonneko.livejournal.com
i used to feel the same. like, i've gotten the therapy, i'm practising the mindfulness techniques, i've become aware of things that exacerbate and alleviate it, and i went a really long time without a major episode. but then i had a big terrible one and then a favourite musician killed himself shortly after and it changed the way i thought about it.

i saw this video in a mental first aid training course and it clicked for me

Date: 2019-06-30 06:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belintuchiha.livejournal.com
TW: depression

I know what you mean, there's nights I pray to God to just take me tbh. 'cause there seems to be no way out no matter how much therapy or meds I've tried. Life is miserable and I feel bad feeling like this because I have absolutely everything and more.

Date: 2019-06-30 09:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nekokonneko.livejournal.com
that's the irrational part of it :/ i hope things get better for you

Date: 2019-06-30 02:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belintuchiha.livejournal.com
It is in all honesty, you are supposed to feel better knowing you have everything but it’s the opposite, it makes you feel even worse.. because it gives you so much guilt for feeling the way we do. I hope you can feel better too <3

Date: 2019-06-29 08:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] modestgoddess79.livejournal.com
She’s a popular actress, a lot of people will be grieving over her.

I just started my first antidepressant and I’m seeing a therapist next week. I’ve been fighting this since I was 11, it’s time I got professional help. I’ve only told one person. My mom is very anti medicine and I don’t want to deal with her bullshit.

Date: 2019-06-30 02:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] modestgoddess79.livejournal.com
Family make things harder than they have to be

Date: 2019-06-29 09:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightframes.livejournal.com
I hope your antidepressant and therapy work out for you.

Date: 2019-06-30 02:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] modestgoddess79.livejournal.com
I hope it’s only up from here

Date: 2019-06-29 10:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dongsaengkiller.livejournal.com
Congratulations on seeking help, i hope they are helpful. wish you the very best

Date: 2019-06-30 02:14 am (UTC)

Date: 2019-06-30 02:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] adlyeith.livejournal.com
Glad you're seeking help and talking to someone. It took a really long time for me to open up to my family about what it's like inside my mind, and I was really only able to because my mom got to witness me have a full blown panic attack in public once. My dad is really the only one in my family that's anti medicine (it takes a lot for him to go to the doctor) so I definitely understand only telling one person.

Date: 2019-06-30 02:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] modestgoddess79.livejournal.com
So many of us are dealing with this yet there is still so much stigma

Date: 2019-06-30 08:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] adlyeith.livejournal.com
This is what really gets me. For the sheer number of people that this impacts, I still experience problems at work because of it (I've been told I'm crazy because of how my anxiety manifests before), have people I know telling me to simply think positive and get over it (a therapist told me this once). I just don't understand the continued stigma of mental illness, and the ignorance of those who continue to perpetuate this mindset.

Date: 2019-06-30 02:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sciencebottle.livejournal.com
I'm so proud of you, seeking help in any kind is a hard thing to do. I hope this works for you, and if not, it will be okay and there will be other ways to find what will work for you and your body. <3

Date: 2019-06-30 07:05 am (UTC)

Date: 2019-06-29 10:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lechuza-yoya.livejournal.com
this is really sad news! I hope she is in a better place, and her loved ones find a way to move on.

Date: 2019-06-29 10:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ashdevilrun23.livejournal.com
She was such a good actress and seemed like a nice lady :( rip
I remember seeing her in Kim tak gu and the whole cast was good but she really stood out. I hope she found peace.

Date: 2019-06-29 10:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dongsaengkiller.livejournal.com
RIP. So sad. Hope her loved ones find strength and comfort in this time of grief

Date: 2019-06-29 11:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] apathycollusion.livejournal.com
RIP.

Depression is the devil.

Date: 2019-06-30 03:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rembrandt13.livejournal.com
{{massive group hugs}} for everyone else dealing with depression. I tend to think of it as the black dog (©Winston Churchill) or just that I have a brain that's trying to kill me. Okay, it's neurochemistry, but whatevz.

Meds saved my life, especially in conjunction with therapy. My family is riddled with depression--I don't know of anyone who doeesn't have it--and was in total denial about it. My brothers are still that way, and are two of the most miserable bastards you could meet. However, because of me, both my dad and sister went on meds, and they both said it made a major difference in their lives. Thus I know all about families not wanting to discuss it and thinking it will just go away. In my case, a couple short-term stays in the psych ward sort of forced the issue, though I don't advocate that as a strategy. ;)

Thus know that you are doing the right thing. This is a fucking evil, pernicious disease, but you CAN fight it, even when it feels like you can't. Do whatever you can that makes you feel good. (One reason I gravitated toward kpop is that so much of it was happy music that helped elevate my mood.) Self-care is a super important adjunct to meds and therapy, IMO.

And again, consider yourselves hugged. We're gonna get through this somehow.

Date: 2019-06-30 04:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ty.livejournal.com
RIP.

Date: 2019-06-30 07:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blck-ink.livejournal.com
my heart breaks for her and her loved ones. may she rest in peace.

Date: 2019-07-01 12:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xoxkenzxox.livejournal.com
while this is terrible news, I appreciate this community for turning this into a supportive post with lots of encouragement.

I don't follow actors and actresses as closely as I do idol groups, but it seems she had a good filmography. I'm sure she will be missed heavily. I hope her husband and son are doing ok with it all.

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