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Yulhee shared her thoughts on her marriage life and hopes for the future.

During a recent interview with bnt, Yulhee talked about her first date with FTISLAND’s Minwhan. She said, “I actively asked him out first. At the time, my husband had a cold and uninterested reaction, but that actually came off as more charming to me, and I think that’s how I fell for him.” She shared, “On our first date, he came out in sweats, but even that seemed so cool. I was definitely blinded by love.



Yulhee also talked about Minhwan’s personality. She shared, “My husband is an expert at playing hard to get. He normally seems blunt, but he is really caring on the inside. Whenever I’m with him, my heart still flutters, and I always want to show him my best side.

When asked about her pregnancy, Yulhee explained that she told Minhwan first. She shared, “What was really touching was that my husband said that we had to have the child no matter what.” When asked who she would like her son to grow up to be like, she said, “Not me, but I hope his looks, personality, and talents are just like my husband’s.

Yulhee also talked about living in the same building as her in-laws, who she is thankful for treating her like their own daughter. She also talked about her cooking skills, sharing, “I can’t cook at all. Even my son doesn’t like the baby food I make for him.” She also answered questions about who is in charge of the household’s finances, which she also discussed on “Happy Together.” Yulhee explained that she is in charge with her husband being given 500,000 won to spend each month, which is a suggestion he made himself.



On their relationship, Yulhee said that she and Minhwan still speak formally to each other to keep the feeling of respect. When asked about who apologizes first after an argument, she said, “Whenever we argue, 100 percent of the time my husband apologizes first. He is so lovable whenever he does. When he sweetly comes over to apologize, my anger disappears like snow melting.

When talking about the potential for a second child, Yulhee said, “Even right now is good. Since our first child is a son, I want a daughter for our second child.” She also talked about how her skin suffered after giving birth, adding that her body felt too sore to move at the time. She said, “I feel like a real ahjumma (middle-aged woman) now.

About her thoughts on returning to idol activities, she shared, “I don’t want to do it again. Of course the moments I had on stage were precious and joyful, but there were many other aspects that were difficult to endure, so I have no regrets on deciding to leave the group.” When asked if she has any desire to officially return to the entertainment industry, she revealed that she currently does not have any plans as she is satisfied and thankful with just appearing on “Mr. House Husband.”



On her dreams of the future in 10 years, Yulhee said, “As a mother and wife, I want to build a family that is full of energy and harmony. And personally, even if it’s not work in the entertainment industry, I want to take on the challenge of trying anything that I want to do.

Source: Naver via Soompi

Date: 2019-06-05 12:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daynr.livejournal.com
I cannot imagine talking formally to a person I live with, much less someone I live with, am married to, and have a child with.

I mean, if there is a time to be informal, it's in bed and in childbirth. How do you whisper naughty nothings formally?

Date: 2019-06-05 03:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] premonitioner.livejournal.com
I very recently found out that it's not uncommon in Japan to not sleep in the same bed as your spouse so maybe Korea is similar. Seems like this is a do the deed, no foreplay or sweet nothings whispered at all kinda marriage.

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Date: 2019-06-08 03:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xoxkenzxox.livejournal.com
How do you whisper naughty nothings formally?

Is it bad that this was my first thought after reading this? Like....no. Talk dirty to me man. Say I'm a bad bitch.

Date: 2019-06-05 01:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] myrrhcat.livejournal.com
"a cold and uninterested reaction"
"On our first date, he came out in sweats"
"my husband said that we had to have the child no matter what"

this is a nightmare

Date: 2019-06-05 02:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] theweebdream.livejournal.com
GOD I was thinking the same thing literately about everything you pointed out like girl...those are red flags
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Date: 2019-06-05 02:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lydzi.livejournal.com
Me too omg. Like... she's definitely still blinded by love. It's going a hard crash when she wakes up.

Date: 2019-06-05 03:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] frequency.livejournal.com
right? i'd be running in the opposite direction.

Date: 2019-06-05 03:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lizanka23.livejournal.com
i wouldn't be surprised if he treats her like crap :/ where are her best girl friends talking some sense into her??

Date: 2019-06-05 04:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dropthecrates.livejournal.com
my dumbass thought she meant he was sweating w/ nerves but literal sweats? LORD

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Date: 2019-06-05 02:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dull-and-wicked.livejournal.com
so many yikes things in this interview to start cherry picking them all

Date: 2019-06-05 02:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pastelpinklace.livejournal.com
I dont understand how women can live like that, oh well as long as she's happy.

Date: 2019-06-05 03:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] frequency.livejournal.com
my husband had a cold and uninterested reaction, but that actually came off as more charming to me

girl what???

Date: 2019-06-05 03:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lizanka23.livejournal.com
i blame k-dramas for romanticizing behavior like this and making it seem that it means he ~likes~ you
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Date: 2019-06-05 03:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] modestgoddess79.livejournal.com
I like to think she knows better but is making the best of the circumstances.

Date: 2019-06-05 03:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] premonitioner.livejournal.com
that's a big fuckin yikes of an interview

Date: 2019-06-05 03:37 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] sglitzys.livejournal.com
The relationship sounds like a nightmare.

Date: 2019-06-05 03:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] babyjenkski.livejournal.com
The interview did not come out nicely. I mean...I get that she's trying to make her husband look/sound cool but that's not what happened. I really hope that MInhwan is treating her well. I see lovely short videos of FTI members being sweet uncles to their child so it seems like daddy and FTI loves cutie baby.

Date: 2019-06-05 03:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lizanka23.livejournal.com
she still sounds so naive in this interview yikes.
also she says he's blunt (aka he talks like an asshole) but he actually ~loves~ me. i blame dramas for making it seem that asshole guys are appealing or attractive and you should just bear their behavior until they start acting nicer.

it sounds like she's putting him on a pedestal too by saying she wants the kid to be like him and nothing like her at all. wth?? girl love yourself

i understand why she wouldn't want to return to the idol life though. it sounds like she wants to try another career but is also happy with being a housewife, which is good in this situation. i just hope he starts being nicer to her and their relationship can last since korea looks down on single parents
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Date: 2019-06-06 03:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nekobot.livejournal.com
Their fans don't like it when you bring it up but she was only 19 when she got pregnant. Apparently she's from a wealthy background so she has a solid support system regardless which is a relief but it's hard not to think that she never got a chance to learn to see all the red flags in this interview because she has hardly any life experience.

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Date: 2019-06-05 04:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dropthecrates.livejournal.com
this was an Interesting read.

Date: 2019-06-05 07:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sra-interesante.livejournal.com
in one hand i read all those things she speaks about being a homestay mum (that for me sounds so boring) and this crappy guy that sounds like an asshole but she seem to enjoy everything about it

in the other hand i follow fti members on sns and they all speak sweetly about her and jaeyul
https://instagram.com/p/BxhjooQl6Rv (https://instagram.com/p/BxhjooQl6Rv)


i cant judge them because she and everybody else seem genuinely happy

Date: 2019-06-05 09:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] babyjenkski.livejournal.com
Same, I follow them on IG. They seem like they all care for the kid. And as a result of a game from the kid's first birthday. So I really hope they have a happy family life.

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Date: 2019-06-05 07:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] timetobegin.livejournal.com
I've recently been reading up on the work of Cho Namjoo and yeah... married life in Korea seems very unappealing. Hope Yulhee's happy though, and I can see why she wouldn't want to go back to being an idol either!

Date: 2019-06-05 10:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
Echoing everybody else, the way she talks about him.. Yikes yikes yiiiikes
You can tell that he had no interest at all in her and only wanted to hook up but she got pregnant and now they're stuck together. I want to give her the benefit of the doubt and that she knows how shitty his behavior is, but can't leave him because Korean society treats single mothers even worse.

Date: 2019-06-05 05:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 921227.livejournal.com
// only wanted to hook up but she got pregnant//

Yea, that seems likely esp considering SK men -do not- use condoms

Date: 2019-06-05 11:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dior-chic.livejournal.com
Oh my god I know nothing about her husband but wow he sounds like a loser

And tbh she has gotten tons of attention for her cute baby and being with this guy so I’m not surprised she wouldn’t go back to being an idol, you know she’s eating up this attention. when she was in Laboum people didn’t know she existed. It might be crass for me to say (...but I’m gonna say it lol) but getting pregnant actually boosted her a lot, from nothing to at least something now getting interviews 😬

Date: 2019-06-05 07:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
You're not wrong, the pregnancy def put her on the map

Date: 2019-06-05 12:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 921227.livejournal.com
It might just be lost in translation but this doesn't sound like a married woman. She sounds like a teenagers idea of a nice marriage/being a mother. It's a lil weird

Date: 2019-06-07 06:10 am (UTC)

Date: 2019-06-05 07:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 10135.livejournal.com
Yeah, okay. I want to see what he says about her in an interview, now.

Date: 2019-06-05 08:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] a-suitcase.livejournal.com
This interview made me so uncomfortable :(.

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