UPDATE: CONFIRMED! Couple Alert! Seo In Guk & Park Boram are dating

[goshipgurl.livejournal.com]

Seo In Guk and Park Boram have reportedly been dating for 1 year 6 monthshttps://t.co/BqSOOTZPmP pic.twitter.com/3oMVSFvsyT

— mes #TeamPinky (@OH_mes) December 6, 2017

He's a 87er and she's a 94er.

UPDATE: Well that was quick, his label has confirmed the news.

sources: @oh_mes, naver

Comments

[goshipgurl.livejournal.com]

so you finally exposed yourself as the owner of nbuzz?

1. [+1,058, -139] In a relationship instead of going to the army

2. [+740, -119] Go to the army

3. [+679, -110] So he can't go to the army but he has time for other things

4. [+466, -60] So random...

5. [+494, -89] Go to the army

6. [+216, -20] Army Exemption ♡ High School Iljin


http://netizenbuzz.blogspot.de/2017/12/seo-in-guk-and-park-boram-revealed-to.html?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=twitter

[jaequeeragenda.livejournal.com]

that is not a flattering photo of either of them D;

[kukamine.livejournal.com]

I wonder if they fessed up because someone threatened to release pics...

[goshipgurl.livejournal.com]

well its almost january, and dispatch didnt expose anyone this year, so...

[epona.livejournal.com]

that seven year age difference lol. why can't these guys get women their own age.

[kukamine.livejournal.com]

lol sis....
it's obvious they like them young

[epona.livejournal.com]

ya cause they're immature creeps

[undeadkennedy.livejournal.com]

women their age won't put up with their shit tbh

[modestgoddess79.livejournal.com]

True

[msgrottesca.livejournal.com]

pm lmao like it's not particularly creepy (altho I'm 23 and would NEVER date a 30 y/o lmao) in this case but it's like men arbitrarily think "gotta be at least five years younger to be worth it" cuz we NEVER see relationships in this industry where both are around the same age. 90% of the time it's 5-10+ year difference with the male being the older one, always, of course. transparent.

[kippeun.livejournal.com]

Except Baek Jiyoung and her husband. She's like 9 years older.

[aures.livejournal.com]

i love baek ji young, i think she and her husband are a good match and don't seem to care about their age differences at all ♥

[kippeun.livejournal.com]

I love her as well, and they are a really lovely couple. ♡

[modestgoddess79.livejournal.com]

And in a culture with a strict age hierarchy ...
I’m not saying he’s a pervert for dating her but the general trend is side eye worthy

[tjmok125.livejournal.com]

Why assume he went after her, what if it was the other way around.

I date guys in that age range and I'm 23. I have no patience for the petty college drama filled romance most boys my age are into. I also don't even look at someone without some type of employment or graduate school or life plan etc. I need my partner to be on the same level and ideals as myself.

[epona.livejournal.com]

as you get older you start to realize that anyone in their 30s that exclusively goes for people in their early 20s or younger are creeps.

[tjmok125.livejournal.com]

I am old enough to distinguish between creeps and normal guys. My point is not all guys in their late 20s to 30s who date women in their 20s are creeps. Some are yes, because like you said they exclusively date women who are super young.

But my honest opinion is after the age of 23/22 I find it somewhat disrespectful for others to assume that younger women who date older guys are these naive and helpless things who are dazzled by whatever older men have to give. A man is a man whether he is 23 or 33. If you a complete bum(and that doesn't just mean financially, also emotionally, mentally, etc), why would being a ten year older bum make a difference? Women aren't that clueless and helpless. For few yes that may be the situation but for most I doubt it, that's why we should trust sis and let her do her dating without assuming she naively picked up a creep. Its funny because while I get its women looking out for other women its also disrespectful because there is a sense of entitlement to a special knowledge that only older women are aware of. Knowledge isn't quantified in how many years you have been here but instead through the experiences you have gone through. I'm sure park bo ram knows what she is doing.

Also I'm not attacking you or anyone in this post, but I do want to get out my thoughts on the reactions I'm seeing to this.

[daynr.livejournal.com]

Not intended as an attack:

You are absolutely right that we should start according 23 years women with agency and intelligence, but your initial post reeks of arrogance. Maybe you have all your life goals and your path to achievement plotted out by 23, but what us olds suggest is so did we - because at 23 a lot of us are confident know-it-alls who learn a bit of flexibility as we continue to study/work. It does not apply to everybody, but most people at 33 think they were ignorant at 23. And by most, I mean pretty much everyone. Date your 30 year olds with a life plan, but maybe get that for a lot of other 23 year olds they do not have their shit sorted and dating someone in their 30s doesn't help them.

Also, when they started dating, she wasn't 23.

[tjmok125.livejournal.com]

If my expressing exactly what I want and how I want it in a partner is perceived as arrogance then you have the authority to read it as such, but do know that when I turn 33 I will continue to have this mindset I can guarantee it.

My experiences have taught me that I do not need to be flexible for men in order to date them,I shouldn't have to match up to them, when in fact it's the opposite, they should be working hard to get to where I am.

Again that" most people "thing are limited to those who you know, those I know wouldn't consider themselves ignorant at 23, our environments didn't allow for that. So that's making assumptions to excuse and push that weak helpless woman being taken advantage of trope. I understand that not everyone has their life together by 23 however that's not the audience I was advocating for. If your life isn't together I honestly think you shouldn't be dating anyone regardless of age until said life is somewhat managable because it's a distraction but that's a different convo. I was advocating for the young WOMEN that know what they are doing and are intelligent and conscious of their choices. What's not gonna happen is everyone assumes this woman isn't aware, or conscious, or thoughtful enough not to weigh the benefits and cons to having such a relationship. The problem I am having is that WOMEN in these situations are being perceived and treated as girls not women.

So even if she wasn't 23 she was 22 a legal adult with the consciousness to make her own choices.

[yixingsforehead.livejournal.com]

really though, 7 years also not fine?

i mean to each their own, but like it's not special at all
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships

if they stay together, she's gonna live longer:p

[epona.livejournal.com]

dudes in their 30s who go after women in their early 20s are all creeps, no exceptions.

[yixingsforehead.livejournal.com]

ok, had to look it up now, so this guy is a creep since like one and a half month, makes sense now lol

[sub-divided.livejournal.com]

I would say something disapproving but that is exactly the age gap I have with my boyfriend, aha.

(He's younger.)

[modestgoddess79.livejournal.com]

An anti took those photos

[pearlychoco.livejournal.com]

i can't believe i'm saying this, but they look like they could pass off as related :|

[sra-interesante.livejournal.com]

that's .... random
but good for them, 1 year and 6 months is a lot

[mlmello.livejournal.com]

I died with some people on twitter saying they first read the news with park boram as park bogum and were WHAT lol bless

[au9042.livejournal.com]

lmaoooo

[minho-lover.livejournal.com]

thats how i saw this headline!! lmao i was gonnna say

[rainstormraider.livejournal.com]

That is what I thought at first glance too.

A bit let down.

[onerainysunday.livejournal.com]

Can someone explain her pre debut pics because DAMN

[yixingsforehead.livejournal.com]

been a while since i read one of these news, congrats

[kippeun.livejournal.com]

I don't think it's a big difference. They are still both young in my opinion and 7 years is nothing.

[nashaa.livejournal.com]

This

[klauses.livejournal.com]

gross

[reader17.livejournal.com]

My Dad was 10 years older then my Mom, sometimes when I think about it, it is strange, but they had the best marriage and loved each other. So 7 years when I think about it that isn't to bad and if they really love each other then their is nothing wrong with it.

[juhli.livejournal.com]

yep. I mean, they started dating when both were in their twenties...

[rainstormraider.livejournal.com]

Ew @ that age difference.

But get it I guess. Y'all are legal and all.

[juhli.livejournal.com]

Happy for the new couple in the scene. please sing a duet.