This isn't cute per say, maybe he just seems like fun when he's tipsy? lol
https://streamable.com/bmrkz
And I can't find the clips I've seen bc they were on his Insta-stories/I didn't record them, but you can see his cuteness/shyness in interviews and stuff
He's such a cute and shy bun <3 When I first saw him I thought "what is this grill-wearing mess?" and now... I still think that, but in an affectionate way lol. I knew the first vid wouldn't help with the lust but it's an essential intro to Minsik imo.
I love it too, idk why it's so endearing when some who has such confidence on stage etc is shy off it.
I went in thinking that first video would be a cute little video of him laughing or something while drunk, but no, I get full on stripper pole.
ANYWAY. I felt the same way as you- I was not feeling him, honestly, mostly because of the grills. But then I started listening, and then I started looking and yikes. It was a fast hard fall. And then these interviews are just making me love him more.
Your icon! <3 and I really should've given more of a warning lol.
The grills were so off-putting but then one of his newer vids was recommended to me and I liked it. I went back and watched others, and even with the grills I was able to see him as charming and cute af. It's definitely like a train hitting you with E•MO•TION when you realise. It always the guys I write-off straight away that come around to ruin my life later on smh.
If I'm remembering correctly you like Loco too, right? Our tastes are overlapping so much haha.
Also, I have done the exact same thing like very single time I have gotten into someone. I hate them at first glance/listen, leave it be for like a month and then go back. See: Crush, Sik-k, Jay, and also Namjoon (I legit made it known to everyone I know that I would NEVER. EVER> like him. Annnnnnnd now he's so squishy and cute and awww)
Look at the sunshine's hair matching with the doggo... wow, beauty <3
Why is your list mine (except Namjoon, I was a fan from th beginning (but it was hard when he kept f-ing up all that time ago)). I wanna know what this gravitational pull is that eventually takes hold, because while I'm enjoying it now it's incredibly inconvenient to begin with tbh. Why won't these men just let us live in peace?
what I tell myself to make me feel better about my choices is- they come off as douchebags, which tunrs me off intially. then I get sucked in by their actual talent. and then I do a little bit more research and turns out they're very cute and relatable and only as dbags in their stages.
at least that's what I like to believe, especially about Crush. I mean, who could love their dog THAT much and be a bad person?
That's what I tell myself too lol, "they're actually good and sweet guys, they just SEEM like dicks". I think part of the douchiness is what I eventually come to like too, since I view them as sweet outside of it, that douchiness eventually becomes likeable mild cockiness/confidence? idk, but the self-assuredness on stage is super attractive imo (like, they are REALLY feeling it/themselves).
Doyou is a gift and a year is added to my life each time I check Crush's IG stories only to see him love that dog more than anything in this world. Also, that icon! OMG.
I think Dean's the only k-hiphop/r&b guy I liked straight away because, well, obviously lmao.
why are we the same person? I watched one dean video (after I told my bff "jay is too problematic for me rn" lol okay girl okay youll be back in like a week) and was hooked. I think it helped that it was a live performance too, so I knew straight off dude is just straight up talented (also that face)
also re the douchiness- I was married to a dbag, all the men in my life that I've ever really liked have always been dbags... I think that's just my type unfortunately. it's a never ending circle. but if I get it all out with krnb/hiphop people now, in my twisted thinking maybe one day I will find a nice dude, who will just be very sweet and all my dbag vibes can be put into krnb/hiphop and never manifest irl. but that confidence though, like you said is just... so attractive. ugh.
We really are the same person lol, I'm sure that whole "everyone has a twin" thing is def real now. nnnn @ the Jay thing, I was the same way but here I am, with my Jay icons *weak*. I think the first Dean vid I saw was Pour Up when it was released and basically no intelligible words were spoken, everything about him is just... ah, just wow (words are escaping me once more).
I'm happy that by the sounds of it you aren't married to one anymore, that's what I worry about too, that it's a sign of what guys I'm drawn to in general but I'm also hoping these dudes will help alleviate that draw irl. With Namjoon at least I truly (potentially delusional) believe that he is a good, kind-hearted person who just screws up sometimes; I hope that's more indicative of my real-life experience than anything else. I hope you find a actual nice dude one day too <3
The attraction to the confidence is so real. It reminds me of when certain guys whine about how women don't go for the 'nice guys' but instead the 'bad boys' etc. but like... it's confidence, not how much of an asshole they are that attracts people.
you are correct- I am no longer married to him. I genuinely do think he is an okay person, who just makes crappy decisions, but he is generally seen to most others as a dbag. i saw a lot of different sides to him, but id rathe rnot have to go through again lol. problematic faves are always my personal favorites, and i tend to justify a lot, but not in real life at this point. you too shall overcome! just dont make big life decisions when you are 22 and you'll be okay. learn from my mistakes! you can do this! =]
i saw dean at the beginning of this year, and i have never been more impressed in my life by a performer. he at ethe cd and then remixed it in perfect pitch. it was dreamy. anyway, ill shut up now. this was a nice chat to spend my very early morning hours of the weekend when i should be out partying or something. but nope! on omona.
Yeah, I can understand that. From the outside looking in, it's always easier said than done to write someone off completely, especially when you do see the good too. K-Pop has left me in a perpetual state of just angst wondering when my faves will mess up, thankfully it gets easier to just disconnect when absolutely needed. I just turned 23 recently and am definitely not making any big life decisions (I am a mess) so I think I'll be safe, thank you! <3
I'm so jealous you saw Dean, any times he's been in London I haven't and now that I'm permanently back to my hometown (of way up North) I doubt it'll get any easier lol. Glad you enjoyed seeing him, so many people say how amazing he sounds and either just like the CD or even better. It was a nice chat! (I always end up having these somehow somewhere, my rambling is something else).
and now you have a 1d icon? get outta my head! have you ever seen them? because omg before i started seeing kpop acts, there was nothing like a 1d show. i miss them. =[
We are one! I never saw them live sadly, there was a time where I was generally unbothered by live shows unless someone else wanted to go (this is why I ended up seeing a British band called Mcfly and a couple others). I wish I got to experience Zayn's heavenly voice live (doubt that it's gonna happen anytime soon again).
They were so fun and I miss that time because obvs I was younger and just generally more carefree.
When Zayn left I got so many messages from people like "are you okay?" lmao.
the first one direction show I went to was the last tour with Zayn. During You and I, I may have cried (and by may i mean definitely). Harry also waved in my general direction and while I'm sure it wasnt to me, I pretended it was and my life was complete. Next summer was the tour after Zayn and it was good, but he was definitely missed. I will say, he wasnt missed as far as stage presence. He was a bit of a dud, but now that I know he has all that anxiety and what have you, it made sense. But his vocals were so missed. But my boi liam was there so it was all good. Im glad you made it through the break up okay lol
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Date: 2017-09-18 04:32 am (UTC)THANK YOU.
I was trying to figure this out throughout the video!
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Date: 2017-09-16 09:20 pm (UTC)And I'm in the complicated stage of lust whilst being blindsided when he acts like a shy cutie irl, it makes my appreciation deeper though tbh.
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Date: 2017-09-17 03:10 am (UTC)https://streamable.com/bmrkz
And I can't find the clips I've seen bc they were on his Insta-stories/I didn't record them, but you can see his cuteness/shyness in interviews and stuff
Sorry I can't be of much help :( lmao
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Date: 2017-09-17 03:22 am (UTC)but the other ones were cute. he seems very shy in actual interviews. I love when that happens.
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Date: 2017-09-17 03:32 am (UTC)I love it too, idk why it's so endearing when some who has such confidence on stage etc is shy off it.
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Date: 2017-09-17 04:14 am (UTC)ANYWAY. I felt the same way as you- I was not feeling him, honestly, mostly because of the grills. But then I started listening, and then I started looking and yikes. It was a fast hard fall. And then these interviews are just making me love him more.
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Date: 2017-09-17 04:27 am (UTC)The grills were so off-putting but then one of his newer vids was recommended to me and I liked it. I went back and watched others, and even with the grills I was able to see him as charming and cute af. It's definitely like a train hitting you with E•MO•TION when you realise. It always the guys I write-off straight away that come around to ruin my life later on smh.
If I'm remembering correctly you like Loco too, right? Our tastes are overlapping so much haha.
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Date: 2017-09-17 04:32 am (UTC)Also, I have done the exact same thing like very single time I have gotten into someone. I hate them at first glance/listen, leave it be for like a month and then go back. See: Crush, Sik-k, Jay, and also Namjoon (I legit made it known to everyone I know that I would NEVER. EVER> like him. Annnnnnnd now he's so squishy and cute and awww)
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Date: 2017-09-17 04:44 am (UTC)Why is your list mine (except Namjoon, I was a fan from th beginning (but it was hard when he kept f-ing up all that time ago)). I wanna know what this gravitational pull is that eventually takes hold, because while I'm enjoying it now it's incredibly inconvenient to begin with tbh. Why won't these men just let us live in peace?
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Date: 2017-09-17 04:49 am (UTC)at least that's what I like to believe, especially about Crush. I mean, who could love their dog THAT much and be a bad person?
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Date: 2017-09-17 05:02 am (UTC)Doyou is a gift and a year is added to my life each time I check Crush's IG stories only to see him love that dog more than anything in this world. Also, that icon! OMG.
I think Dean's the only k-hiphop/r&b guy I liked straight away because, well, obviously lmao.
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Date: 2017-09-17 05:06 am (UTC)also re the douchiness- I was married to a dbag, all the men in my life that I've ever really liked have always been dbags... I think that's just my type unfortunately. it's a never ending circle. but if I get it all out with krnb/hiphop people now, in my twisted thinking maybe one day I will find a nice dude, who will just be very sweet and all my dbag vibes can be put into krnb/hiphop and never manifest irl. but that confidence though, like you said is just... so attractive. ugh.
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Date: 2017-09-17 05:33 am (UTC)I'm happy that by the sounds of it you aren't married to one anymore, that's what I worry about too, that it's a sign of what guys I'm drawn to in general but I'm also hoping these dudes will help alleviate that draw irl. With Namjoon at least I truly (potentially delusional) believe that he is a good, kind-hearted person who just screws up sometimes; I hope that's more indicative of my real-life experience than anything else. I hope you find a actual nice dude one day too <3
The attraction to the confidence is so real. It reminds me of when certain guys whine about how women don't go for the 'nice guys' but instead the 'bad boys' etc. but like... it's confidence, not how much of an asshole they are that attracts people.
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Date: 2017-09-17 05:48 am (UTC)i saw dean at the beginning of this year, and i have never been more impressed in my life by a performer. he at ethe cd and then remixed it in perfect pitch. it was dreamy. anyway, ill shut up now. this was a nice chat to spend my very early morning hours of the weekend when i should be out partying or something. but nope! on omona.
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Date: 2017-09-17 05:57 am (UTC)I'm so jealous you saw Dean, any times he's been in London I haven't and now that I'm permanently back to my hometown (of way up North) I doubt it'll get any easier lol. Glad you enjoyed seeing him, so many people say how amazing he sounds and either just like the CD or even better. It was a nice chat! (I always end up having these somehow somewhere, my rambling is something else).
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Date: 2017-09-17 03:04 pm (UTC)They were so fun and I miss that time because obvs I was younger and just generally more carefree.
When Zayn left I got so many messages from people like "are you okay?" lmao.
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Date: 2017-09-17 03:33 pm (UTC)Next summer was the tour after Zayn and it was good, but he was definitely missed.
I will say, he wasnt missed as far as stage presence. He was a bit of a dud, but now that I know he has all that anxiety and what have you, it made sense. But his vocals were so missed. But my boi liam was there so it was all good. Im glad you made it through the break up okay lol
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