Netizen shares lessons she has learned from dating celebs three time in total

[goshipgurl.livejournal.com]

What I learn from dating celebrities for three times:

Patience, lie, time to be alone.
Frankly speaking, you can't endure dating celebrities if you don't have a really strong mental.

Netizens:

- You've gone through a lot, OP.. I hope you can find someone who you can truly be comfortable with!

- Oh Gosh.. OP-ya, I've never dated any celebrities before but I can imagine how hard it is for you.. You've gone through a lot, I hope you'll find a better person as soon as possible!

- I'm a model, and I'm having a really hard time because I work with a lot of female models.. Especially when I have to do some physical contact with them, my girlfriend often gets jealous because of it..

- Dating a celebrity is actually much easier than I thought..

- OP, stay strong!

- I really hate those idols who act all sweet in front of cameras, saying that their fans are their girlfriends, etc but actually have a real girlfriend behind the cameras..

- Then how do you usually go on a date with your boyfriend? Celebrities are outstanding, even when they're wearing caps, masks, or glasses..

- I've never dated any celebrities but I was in a 'Some' relationship with a male idol who already made his debut right now..ㅋㅋㅋ We went to the same school, we were even in the same class..

- For me.. A celebrity once cheated on his girlfriend with me..ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

- You've gone through a lot, OP-ya..ㅠㅠ I can't even imagine how hard it is for you..ㅠㅠ I'm guessing you just broke up with him yesterday..? Oh Gosh.. I wish you all the best..

- It must be not easy to date celebrities..ㅠㅠ But honestly, I'm really jealous of you.. I want to know how it feels like to date a celebrity too..ㅠㅠ

- Hul!! Someone I know just introduced me to a celebrity, I originally want to make things turn right at first but now I'm scared..ㅠㅠ What should I do..?

- My friend is dating a celebrity and thanks to her I got an autograph of my biasㅋㅋㅋ But she never told me how they started dating.. Maybe I should ask her once they break up..

- I'm not a celebrity, but an athlete.. I agree with 'patience' and 'time to be alone'..

- A friend I know used to date an idol and whenever they went on a date together, her boyfriend would get texts from his sasaeng asking 'You're with a woman right now, right?'. And in the end, they broke up because the sasaengs gave her a hard time..ㅠㅠ

sources: pannnative, instiz

have you ever dated a celeb, omona?

Comments

[adenar.livejournal.com]

I've never even met any celebs outside of an official 'celeb' capacity,lmao. The closest I have is a friend who is an actor who just got a big VA job but he's not a ~celebrity~, this is by far his biggest job. Idk how people find that many celebs (but I imagine it's easier in a smaller country like SK, especially if you live in Seoul).

[uguukawaii.livejournal.com]

the closest i came was i hooked with a guy from an idol group too much of a flop to even get posts here but he is literally always in china so nothing really happened with it lmfao hes not a celebrity i think they only had one or two songs both terrible
shin dongyup was drunk and groped me trying to make me sit on his lap when i waited on him until his friend made him stop but thats not dating....
my friend had a one night stand with jay park and she said he was shorter than her once he took his shoes off but the sex was good? thats all i got lmfao

[miwa201.livejournal.com]

ew at shin dongyup. the jay park story doesn't surprise me, i remember reading that khh/k r&b guys hook up a lot. at least he wasn't bad

[meggicchi.livejournal.com]

Patience, lie, time to be alone.
Frankly speaking, you can't endure dating celebrities if you don't have a really strong mental.

so not very different from dating non-celebrities? lmao I mean, what do they expect, dating normally is hard enough as it is.

[miyozari.livejournal.com]

mte

lmao that's not groundbreaking

[normanikordei.livejournal.com]

lol it's funny how the netizens are all like stay strong op etc when they're a percentage of the problem when it comes to celebs being harassed about their relationships. ya mostly it's sasaengs but netz can be pretty brutal with their comments as well.

this article makes it feel like it's easy to meet and form a relationship with an idol lol but I guess it's possible.

[ariellm13.livejournal.com]

Honestly, it's about 90% fans that harass k-celebs about their relationships. The other 10% are trolls that love to make people suffer. The average netizen probably just thinks wow if it's a big name couple and "...okay" if it's a no name couple.

But yeah, it's probably not that hard to meet and form a relationship with idols. I mean they are people. They go out for coffee and they go grocery shopping. They live live lives. It's just seems hard to fans because when fans go up to idols, most idols turn on idol mode. I'm sure if you met any famous person in an ordinary capacity and treated your interaction with them like an ordinary occurrence then you would get regular results.

[ariellm13.livejournal.com]

I've heard that you gotta be careful when it comes to dating celebs and athletes. Someone told me that once you start, you end up on the radar of other people in those fields and you become kind of... a pre-approved choice? A lot of celebs and athletes want to date regular people and rather than risk meeting a crazy or a user, they prefer to just sift through the exs of their colleagues. Because they have already been introduced to other people in the field, they aren't star struck and they aren't out for a pay day.

[krissasaur]

This reminds me of a story... I think Leeteuk? Told once about how he was dating a girl but she basically used him to get to other celebrities.

[arhythmicpulse.livejournal.com]

The last comment. Gosh, I never can get over how creepy sasaeng fans are.

[krissasaur]

The closest I have gotten to K-pop idols is, one, I have a Korean friend who used to be in the same high school as Kyuhyun and they played games together and had a gaming club. SADLY he lost contact with Kyuhyun when he joined SM.

Two, I also have a Korean-Australian friend, and he is huge into clubbing, and he met T.O.P in a club in maybe... 2009? Not sure of the date, and he partied with him one night. When he got home he got on Skype and spammed me with pictures (which I won't share, sorry.) and told me he should start liking K-pop with me because he liked T.O.P. haha

Also, not K-pop, but I also have a Japanese friend who worked mostly on lighting for obscure J-rock bands music videos, but he got pretty close with Miura Haruma while filling in for someone and helping on the set of one of his movies. I can't remember which movie now. Sadly he called him a jerk and I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE ANYMORE. (He was also like.. 16 then? So I like to believe he matured into not a jerk. HE SEEMS SO SWEET I REFUSE.)

This is making me miss the days of Skype and SkypeMe mode. I met so many interesting people back then.

[0oo-daphne-oo0.livejournal.com]

As a Kyuhyun fan I would like to know if your friend mentioned anything about Kyuhyun's personality. :D Like, if he was nice and things like that! Thanks in advance, ahah!

Also, it's good to hear your (other) friend enjoyed his time with T.O.P.! Did he became a stan after?! XD

[dynamite-state.livejournal.com]

I'm dating Ten now, thanks for asking! lol

Dating can be complicated enough with regular people, dating a celeb sounds almost frustrating in comparison.
Most celebs are not out so the stress of keeping things extra secret would probably be overwhelming.

[misspoirot.livejournal.com]

Sis, Ten and I have been dating since 2014; don't flatter yourself. We are planning to get engaged
once he debuts with a fixed unit other than NCT U. Probably that's why SM hasn't re-debut him :/

IA with the 'dating a celeb can be harder' part, but I wonder if both sides truly love each other and would like to make their relationship work would it be possible? I mean the only couple I can think of is Cha Taehyun and his wife, but I don't really know any idol who's dating a commoner seriously

[a-cheshire-grin.livejournal.com]

Two very good friends of mine work in the Japanese Entertainment industry and thanks to them I've met quite a lot of celebrities (mostly idols) already, but I never really followed Japanese idols/celebrities a lot, except for a selected few, so I never got really excited about it, except for two times when I met two of my favourite Japanese actresses and that one time one of my friends got me onto "vs. Arashi". That was fun. ^.^

[tsuyoi-hikari.livejournal.com]

How long does it take for filming of VS Arashi? The show is 1 hour but I wondered how long does it take to film that one hour show.

[lulufairybubble.livejournal.com]

I wouldnt say he was a celeb lol but he was kinda well known and hung out with some c-list celebs. Back in the scene days I dated a rocker guy. He was really nice and made good music. I use to like to watch his shows from the audience with my friends but later on we couldnt do that. Some of his female fans would find out who I was and started to really mistreat me and my friends. We would get shoved by them,they would try to pour drinks on us and our hair would get pulled. It was a mess. We stopped dating before he went on his second tour with a well known act. Nothing dramatic. I was sarting up for another semester of college and we just didnt have the time.

[sra-interesante.livejournal.com]

but i wanted juicy details and names 👀

of course you can date celebrities, you just need to get into their circle and i guess once they realise you arent startrucked or a super crazy fan they would probably be interested ... i guess they prefer to date someone who sees them like normal people not like celebrities

i wish i could date idols lol
few celebrities i have met irl are local celebrities and all of them are indeed normal people

[paige-nevaeh.livejournal.com]

I dated a guy who THOUGHT he was a celeb...doesn't really count I guess.

[daceymormont.livejournal.com]

Lmao

[4minutesluts.livejournal.com]

one time i kissed a photo of nana i printed out

[dynamite-state.livejournal.com]

lol

[ah0000.livejournal.com]

so fascinating that this makes it seem like you can just meet celebs any time off the street lol. i grew up in LA and worked in the movie industry but never met celebs thru friends or anything, and now i live in NY and don't even know any aspiring actors. i feel like my life lacks cliche

i don't know any celebs personally but do have a surprising number of friends who are connected to kpop celebs. one went to my high school but was a year younger than me so i only found out he existed after he debuted. i am from han ye seul's hometown tho. i wonder why i never ran into her when she went back after that drama mess, or maybe i would have but just didn't recognize her since i wasn't into kdramas at that time

[msgrottesca.livejournal.com]

It takes like 3 hours to drive from one end to SK to the other so I feel like the limited space probably makes it easier than in some other parts of the world, especially when pm everything is centered in Seoul.

[baekpedaling.livejournal.com]

I'm already dating Wonho, try again later

[hellicoptajuuce.livejournal.com]

ye but was the sex bomb tho op, u gotta spill that hot korean tea sis!

[msgrottesca.livejournal.com]

Idk why anyone would ever want to do it tbh.

[msgrottesca.livejournal.com]

Idk why anyone would ever want to do it tbh.

[digitalqueen.livejournal.com]

i remember how inspirits threw stones at myungsoo's gf, scratched her car and how quickly he dropped her and pretended he didnt know her after the scandal broke out (he never contacted her again, i think?), and im like nope, how could anyone endure that fandom culture

[violoncelliste.livejournal.com]

holy fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck i'm glad i was on a kpop break back then and didn't see that shitshow myself

[cherrypop.livejournal.com]

There's already a lack of trust once a person begins a relationship with the celeb. The celeb is on edge. The other person is on edge. It's hard to build up trust. For those that make it work, kudos. But if they're a really, really big celeb I would imagine it's hard. I hate to say it, because it makes them sound like they're not people (which they are!), but celebs are far more prone to cheating and ghosting than others and I would even say their celeb lifestyle makes them justify it. I don't party a lot and celebs do so I don't think I would ever get involved with one just cause lifestyle choices. But honestly I'm probably the ideal girlfriend for a celeb because I have so much patience, not clingy, and really enjoy my alone time (my current bf is the same).

[krissasaur]

Your last sentence, same. Like I said somewhere above I am super content with never leave the house, so I would have that down pat if I ever dated one haha.

[audiograms.livejournal.com]

Jin and I are still going strong, thanks for asking he is kindly been my beard to hide my marriage to Park Bom.

[modestgoddess79.livejournal.com]

two timer

[jaelissi.livejournal.com]

I dated a celebrity once. Got sorta pressured into it when I was younger. Last thing I heard, he went crazy a few years ago

[goshipgurl.livejournal.com]

"went crazy" = drugs & alcohol?

[violoncelliste.livejournal.com]

i have never met a famous person that i would be interested in. not sure if i would be into dating one, seems like too much work (also all of them would be so out of my league??). let them date each other lol

[hitthoselightz.livejournal.com]

a guy from my uni dated secret's back up dancer and also tried to have a thing with one of the members
thats all i got lol

[clayray3290.livejournal.com]

Ooh which one??

[xxhna.livejournal.com]

Relationships can be difficult already without all that celebrity stuff but in addition to it? Smh. I would probably be hella insecure.