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Reporting from Seoul - For nearly two decades, obstetrician Shim Sang-duk aborted as many babies as he delivered -- on average, one a day, month after month.

"Over time, I became emotionless," the physician said. "I came to see the results of my work as just a chunk of blood. During the operation, I felt the same as though I was treating scars or curing diseases."

Shim, 42, eventually came to despise himself, despite the money he earned from the procedures. So, two months ago, he founded an activist group of physicians who refuse to perform abortions and advocate prosecution for doctors who continue to do so.

The group's stand has brought a tidal wave of criticism from the Korean Assn. of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, which represents more than 4,000 physicians in this country where abortions, although technically illegal, are so prevalent it has been tagged as "the Abortion Republic."

Unlike in America, where doctors have been threatened and even killed for performing abortions, Shim says he's received death threats for deciding to stop performing them.


The controversy illustrates the stark differences between South Korea's attitude toward abortion and that of many Western nations. While often couched elsewhere as a battle between religious activists and those defending a woman's right to choose, the issue here carries no such emotional freight.

"Western societies see abortion as one of benchmark battles between conservatives and liberals -- while here there has not been even any academic discussion," said Lee Na-young, a sociology professor at Seoul's Chung-Ang University.

In South Korea, religious groups and women's rights advocates have remained largely silent on the issue, analysts say.

"During church sermons, we barely talk about abortion, which is considered an individual matter," said Hwang Pil-gyu, a minister on the life and ethics committee of the National Council of Churches in Korea. "Many churches have put this issue on the back burner."

Shim has critics even outside the medical field. Some say he's grandstanding. Others criticize his emphasis on the financial incentive of performing abortions.

"The whole discussion seems to be about his giving up profits from the abortions he doesn't do," Lee said. "This isn't the issue."

But Shim's campaign has triggered a rare public debate on abortion. Lawmakers now call for tougher enforcement of existing laws, and are asking parents to reassess the cultural value of childbirth.

Beginning in the 1970s, officials advocated fewer births as a way to fuel economic productivity. The policy was perhaps too successful: Birthrates in South Korea plummeted. A decade ago, officials reversed their stand, calling for residents to have more babies.

Yet the declining fertility trend has proved difficult to reverse. The country's birthrate is now among the lowest worldwide, with just 1.19 live births per woman.

Meanwhile, abortion rates have kept their pace, many say. Every year, 450,000 babies are born here; Health Ministry officials estimate that 350,000 abortions are performed each year. One politician says the number of abortions is actually four times higher -- nearly 1.5 million.

Now there are calls to strengthen a 1973 mother-child protection law, long criticized for containing loopholes and for being rarely enforced. Some lawmakers want to prosecute more physicians for performing abortions and close down underground clinics where the procedures cost as little as $70.

For the first six months of 2009, only three of 29 abortion-related cases were prosecuted, said Chang Yoon-seok, a member of the ruling Grand National Party, who supports tougher sanctions.

"Even though illegal abortions are widespread . . . it is true that everyone keeps quiet and does not say anything about it," the politician said in a statement.

Dressed in his white lab coat, the bespectacled Shim embodies a new public consciousness against abortion.

In the lobby of his Ion clinic, a sign explains his new philosophy. "Abortions, which abandon the valuable life of a fetus, are the very misery for the nation and society as well as pregnant women, families and ob-gyn doctors," it reads.

For years, Shim rarely, if ever, even used the word "abortion." Rather, he said, he sought to "erase" or "prevent" the fetus.

"I bought into the government's argument that it was OK to do this," he said. "It was good for the country. It boosted the economy."

Still, Shim was often baffled by his patients' behavior: After receiving their abortions, he said, most women cried.

"Many patients cry when they give birth," he said, "but these were a different kind of tears."

Although Shim's clinic made one-quarter of its profits from performing abortions, he tried harder to dissuade patients from choosing the option.

He started a website where he was contacted by other physicians. Although he claims support from 700 doctors, he acknowledges that only 30 have stopped performing the procedure.

Many others have withdrawn their support under pressure from peers. But for Shim, the benefits were immediate. "I feel like a young doctor again," he said.

The decision was difficult financially. His clinic has lost so many patients that Shim says he may soon be forced to close.

But Shim won't reconsider. The physician recalled his final abortion.

He had already sworn off the procedure when a longtime patient called him, distraught. He met with the mother of two for hours and begged her to go home and reconsider.

The following morning, she still wanted the abortion. So Shim relented. After the procedure, he said, she cried.


source: Chicago Tribune
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Date: 2009-12-04 08:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ellyatthedisco.livejournal.com
Why korea!? ;~;

it's so hard for single mothers in asian countries. DNW sadness >

Date: 2009-12-04 08:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] beauty0fparting.livejournal.com
abortion has always been something i never had a definite view about. there are so much aspects to consider. like if i'll be against it and say it's murder, would we have to indict mothers who do it like we would if she kills a full-grown person. oh, it's giving me a headache just thinking about it.

but damn at the possible 1.5 million abortions every year. Ever heard of birth control???

Date: 2009-12-04 08:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shincaru.livejournal.com
Ever heard of birth control???

lol are you kidding

East Asia has some of the fucking worst sex education in industrialised nations that aren't theocracies. The USA is fucking enlightened compared to Korea/Japan, even with the Bush-legacy abstinence programs.

Students end up learning about sex from like fanfics online slashing boyband members or comics. Not joking.

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Date: 2009-12-04 08:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] carmendove.livejournal.com
"Every year, 450,000 babies are born here; Health Ministry officials estimate that 350,000 abortions are performed each year. One politician says the number of abortions is actually four times higher -- nearly 1.5 million."

WTF. Just WTF.
I'm Pro-Choice but those figures are just staggering!
I really hope this is a case of screwing with numbers to make a point.
Because if it's 100% true ... idek

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Date: 2009-12-04 08:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xshinebrighterx.livejournal.com
tl,dr but to me, abortion will never ever be acceptable unless it threatens the mother's life.

are you just here to start wank

Date: 2009-12-04 08:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shincaru.livejournal.com
lol what is the point of even saying that if you're not going to even read the article?

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Date: 2009-12-04 08:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shincaru.livejournal.com
Just wanted to say, anyone here trying to espouse their ~opinions~ on abortion basically need to check their Western/relgious ethnocentrism at the door before they open their gobs.

In emphasising the point in the article, abortion in Korea is not about a religiously-based moral issue.

It's a really interesting situation where the anti-abortion stance is bourne out of the sheer, mind-numbing amounts done and a few doctors refusing to do so after the fact, not because they believe in some dude in the sky.

Date: 2009-12-04 08:40 am (UTC)

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Date: 2009-12-04 08:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yuki-yang.livejournal.com
The numbers...it's sad.
I'm pro-choice but...just look at that number really sadden me. Is childbirth such a terrible thing?

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Date: 2009-12-04 09:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] notochrasy.livejournal.com
I understand the social, legal and well... "economic" implications of childbirth, anti-abortion groups and pro-abortion. But all I can do was tear up when I read this.
"I came to see the results of my work as just a chunk of blood."

Date: 2009-12-04 09:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aiedailglow.livejournal.com
ikr you became such a numb person :'(

Date: 2009-12-04 09:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aiedailglow.livejournal.com
and there are people who want babies of their own so much... :(

Date: 2009-12-04 09:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] proleptical.livejournal.com
and millions and millions (numbers go up daily) of unwanted children that will never have a home or will suffer from terrible neglect. :(

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Date: 2009-12-04 09:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shincaru.livejournal.com
um

lol

FYI Korea does not have free universal healthcare. So private clinics can have doctors who freely can decide not to provide a service anymore.

This is not a religious issue. Pls to re-read the very well-written article that makes it clear that religion has naught to do with South Korean anti-abortion sentiments.

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Date: 2009-12-04 09:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tablo.livejournal.com
here comes the influx of people with loud opinions who don't read the article.
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Date: 2009-12-04 09:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kieta-seraphim.livejournal.com
It really is sad that this stems from lack of sex ed and pressure to have sex, really 1.5 million is a freaking scary number.
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Date: 2009-12-04 09:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anaaga.livejournal.com
basically have no comment about it. people have different views about it, so they will see it in their own perspective. and, usually, people always think they're the one that's right, so meh :/

i don't like the idea how those korean churches don't teach that abortion is wrong though. in Christianity, abortion is wrong. and it's been taught like that since a long time ago. it's in the category of murder in the Bible. not teaching about it just because it's an "individual matter," makes those churches look like hypocrites :/

Date: 2009-12-04 09:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shincaru.livejournal.com
makes those churches look like hypocrites :/

Korean Christianity!!

Some of the news about Korean churches and their actions can make you vomit up your breakfast. Basically par with certain American fundamentalist sects in terms of sheer audacity and Missing the Point.

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Date: 2009-12-04 09:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ficcy.livejournal.com
I think, from the article, you can pretty much see that if women had other options, they wouldn't have an abortion (or else they wouldn't be bawling their eyes out afterward). I say keep it pro-choice. Some families just can't support more than a few kids. But change the stigma against unwed mothers, Korea. A good portion of these women only get abortion because other people (boyfriend, family, boyfriend's family, etc.) pressure them to. Allow these women the right to raise their children with their dignity intact.

Date: 2009-12-04 09:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] super-genin.livejournal.com
This. Very much.

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Date: 2009-12-04 10:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ekkers.livejournal.com
So ironic. This Korean doctor was threatened because he stopped doing abortions; that one American doctor was murdered because he continued to do abortions.

Date: 2009-12-04 12:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cookie-nut.livejournal.com
IKR? How about that poor abortion doctor that was murdered in church? :(

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Date: 2009-12-04 12:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cookie-nut.livejournal.com
This is such a sad and unfortunate situation. :(

Date: 2009-12-04 03:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hospitalise.livejournal.com
is this omona or [Bad username or site: @ livejournal.com] :lll

Date: 2009-12-04 08:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shincaru.livejournal.com
It's a valid thing to post and discuss, as long as everyone stops associating Korean hot button issues with American ones and sticks to discussing it in the Korean perspective.

Date: 2009-12-04 04:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nene718.livejournal.com
Here's my basic stance: Mind your own uterus.

Date: 2009-12-04 05:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pinkiyoojin.livejournal.com
well, this article is just heartbreaking

Date: 2009-12-04 05:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kamikaze-bunny.livejournal.com
I think abortion should exist and should be legal because there are some instances where there's really no other option. What if a woman gets raped? Or what if a woman has an ectopic pregnancy that threatens her life? Etc. etc. The problem is that too people (men and women, I think) see it as a band-aid that can be used anytime instead of actually taking measures to prevent the pregnancy in the first place. And I'm not saying that people are just being irresponsible but there really isn't a strong base of understanding of contraception/other options :\

Date: 2009-12-04 07:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] czarny.livejournal.com
Eurgh ectopic pregnancy, I wouldn't even wish that on my worst enemy. :(

Better sex ed is what you're saying then? I do wonder what sex ed in South Korea is like.

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Date: 2009-12-04 07:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] czarny.livejournal.com
"It boosted the economy"

o.o

Anyway I have my wank-proof belt on today so I cba to write about stuff.

Image (http://photobucket.com/images/chastity%20belt)

Date: 2009-12-04 07:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sabaku-no-leti.livejournal.com
I say the same thing I said here (http://community.livejournal.com/omonatheydidnt/2164002.html?thread=200613410#t200613410).

Date: 2009-12-04 08:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] minyquai.livejournal.com
I'd honestly love to voice my opinion but PRO LIFE people make me so angry I can't even.

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Date: 2009-12-04 08:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] minyquai.livejournal.com
Wrote this before I read the article btw.

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Date: 2009-12-04 09:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] raye91star.livejournal.com
[b]The following morning, she still wanted the abortion. So Shim relented. After the procedure, he said, she cried.[/b]

bahhahahahahahahahahahaha

Date: 2009-12-04 09:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nori-sumire.livejournal.com
Pro-life activist have a male-focused approach to life. Not taking into consideration what brings a woman to take such a decision equals not taking women into consideration at all.
High number of abortions in korea is only the consequence of a sexist and rigid social system.
We don't need more tension on women.
100% PRO-CHOICE, I do think that abortion will always be a painful choice to make.
Wich is what pro-life activists seem not to get at all.

Date: 2009-12-04 10:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rawthorne.livejournal.com
Pressuring women to have abortions to save face is as poor a choice as pressuring them not to. Dr Shim would be best advised to provide the clients he sees BEFORE they become pregnant with safe sex information so these unhappy episodes can be avoided in the future.

I have to say, I'm so sorry abortions are so hard on him, as a man in a patriarchal society. His plight is truly worth taking into account. I expect that if his daughters became pregnant before marriage, he would give them shelter, love and understanding.. hell, even a job, so they wouldn't be confronted with the harsh reality of being an unwed mother in Korea.

Date: 2009-12-05 02:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gunsandsmoke.livejournal.com
i want to make love to your comment! but i will use the proper protection before doing so.

and ia i feel a lot of compassion for this dr. shim, he has a difficult job and must perform a dificult procedure that he feels conflicted about. it's something that requires a lot of discussion and meeting the patients case by case, i think...and a hell of a lot more sex education

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