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On this weeks Strong Heart, Jo Hye Ryun talked about her father and his influence in her life. He never worked and to her, he was an embarrassment.

Throughout her life, she was ashamed of the man who never worked and was always apologetic. She was bothered by him always saying "I'm sorry, I'm sorry."

Once, while she was in school, her father came by as she was about to leave campus. He called out her name in his ragged jacket and pants he always wore. In his pockets were his dentures because they were uncomfortable to wear. Her friends that she was walking with told her someones calling out her name and she noticed it was her father. However, she felt too embarrassed to do anything about it. After he called her again, she went up to him and he gave her 300 Won (about 25 cents) to her so she can eat spicy rice cakes (dduk boki). She didn't like him appearing while she was with friends.

As she tried to become a comedian, she failed a few times and her dad asked if she didn't make it because she didn't have any backings. "Should I save up some money to go and try to bribe the producers?" Jo Hye Ryun corrected her father saying that "it's not like that." He replied with "Hye Ryun ah, I'm sorry."

As she became popular, she said that she looked down on her father when he suggested he become an extra for a Korean drama. She didn't want him to go up to her coworkers and embarrass her, so she brushed it off and he replied with "I'm sorry."

A few years ago, he became ill and lost much weight. Due to her busy schedule, she rarely got the chance to visit him in the hospital. One day, she got a call from her mom saying that her dad was in critical condition so Hye Ryun rushed to the hospital. He was waiting for her and when she told him that she came, he smiled. Jo Hye Ryun then said that she loved him and apologized for not understanding his intentions. He then told her "I'm sorry" and passed away.

She then realized how her father lived his life feeling sorry. Even though he was only given kimchi and rice to eat most of the time due to her mom being busy, he never complained.

The story brought rest of the guests on Strong Heart to break out into tears as it made them think about their parents as well.

After the show aired, netizens wrote comforting words for Jo Hye Ryun on her mini homepage.

"Hye Ryun unni, fighting!"
"I love my father!"
"We'll always cheer for you!"
"You have inspired me."

The story also managed to move my feelings as well. Thinking of all the things my parents have sacrificed for me, it reminded me to be grateful of them. Fighting Jo Hye Ryun!



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Date: 2009-12-02 11:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ari-meh.livejournal.com
TT_____TT

Date: 2009-12-02 11:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] distortedinpink.livejournal.com
tmth omg ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ

Date: 2009-12-02 11:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cityincolors.livejournal.com
ㅠ____ㅠ

Date: 2009-12-02 11:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] miduhyo.livejournal.com
okay, i'll be honest, this really made me cry. :(

Date: 2009-12-02 11:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] loose-shoe.livejournal.com
yea, reading it already made be cry ='(

Date: 2009-12-02 11:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cityincolors.livejournal.com
This hurts my heart so badly =\
Not that my father passed away but I've spent pretty much a big majority of my life with just my mother, so basically I always feel really... touched/bothered/emotional when there are stories like this involving father-child relationship. It's even hard to see a father play with his child IRL. =\

But yeah I hope that she'll always remember him and work hard to make him proud ^~^

Date: 2009-12-02 11:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] distortedinpink.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear that bb ♥

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Date: 2009-12-02 11:31 pm (UTC)

Date: 2009-12-02 11:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gdlovesbee.livejournal.com
"I love my father!"
lol made me laughed.

but this is really touching :( i almost cried. as much as i love my dad, i hate him too. but as much as i hate him, i will always love him too.

Date: 2009-12-02 11:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] radical-ed57.livejournal.com
T-T I'm seriously not too far away from crying. This really broke my heart...

Date: 2009-12-02 11:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ricey11.livejournal.com
How sad completely sad, especially the pictures up there of them crying.
I've always loved her style of comedy, this is heartbreaking to hear.

Date: 2009-12-02 11:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] reeses6826.livejournal.com
I should really call my dad. Its terrible that I only talk to him when I need something. He takes care of me and my sisters and gives us everything we need without complaint. I should thank him more often.

Jo Hye Run Fighting!!!

Date: 2009-12-03 03:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jyurian21.livejournal.com
Same here, this year specially I sort of just talk to him to tell him to send me money or pay the rent, ugh. I'm such a horrible son. :(

Date: 2009-12-02 11:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] light-lee.livejournal.com
omg this is the last thing I needed to read considering my current non-relationship with my mother ;_______;

Date: 2009-12-02 11:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] candi-freak.livejournal.com
I feel like crying!
brb, hugging my dad. ):

Date: 2009-12-02 11:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chiamharkem.livejournal.com
..oi so sad =(

Date: 2009-12-02 11:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] whetstone.livejournal.com
this makes me want to cry.

Date: 2009-12-02 11:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yooch.livejournal.com
I miss my dad a million more times now, he needs to get back from his business trip asap ):

Date: 2009-12-02 11:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rockthecliche.livejournal.com
omg tearing up reading this. ;__;

Date: 2009-12-02 11:45 pm (UTC)

Date: 2009-12-02 11:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jaded-skys.livejournal.com
brb, crying because my parents are half way across the world right now. only two more weeks until I'm home, two more weeks...

;___________________;

Date: 2009-12-02 11:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erbalurbal.livejournal.com
wow I bet it felt good for her to get that off of her shoulders. She obviously has been hurting for a long time over this. T_T

Date: 2009-12-02 11:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chibi-rei.livejournal.com
TT__TT

I miss my dad...

OMONAS! If you are able to please be nice to your poppas. You never know what you have 'til he's gone.

Date: 2009-12-02 11:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ftisland-aida.livejournal.com
OMO.this is soooo touching.

I'm a 12 year old kid and the tears in my eyes are threatening to fall out soon.

Date: 2009-12-03 12:01 am (UTC)

Date: 2009-12-03 12:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shade-of-kim.livejournal.com
this is like an aroow struck to my heart....dammit

Date: 2009-12-03 12:08 am (UTC)

Date: 2009-12-03 12:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] heroismine.livejournal.com
AWWWW T___T is there a cut i wanna watch that part :(

Date: 2009-12-03 12:16 am (UTC)
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