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Both Kim Hyun Joong and his ex-girlfriend, known only as Choi, reported for court-ordered DNA tests today. The tests were ordered by the Seoul Family Court and conducted at Seoul National University Hospital in Jongno. Choi brought her three-month old son to be tested.

According to the Korean media outlet Sports Donga, the actor-singer and his ex would have been fined about $8,400 if they had not attended. There was some speculation that Kim might not be able to attend as he is currently serving his mandatory military duty in Paju. He took a short leave of absence.
Kim previously offered to take the paternity test through a private company but Choi rejected his offer, saying she could not trust the private company to be accurate.
Kim's lawyer Lee Jae Man released a statement on the tests.
"We hoped that the DNA test could be taken confidentially, however Miss Choi has announced the location and date. This is unfortunate."
Lee reaffirmed that his client will take full responsibility for the child if the paternity test proves that the child is his.
"The paternity of the child must be established before my client takes responsibility as the father. This is what he wanted. If the results say he is the father, he will of course take responsibility. If he is not the father, she will have to take responsibility."
Choi's lawyer, Sun Jung Moon said that he expects the tests to reveal that Kim Hyun Joong is the father.
"We are one hundred percent sure the tests will prove that Kim Hyun Joong is the father."
The test results will be available in about a week. The test results will end the speculation over paternity but not the ongoing lawsuits that the actor and his ex are engaged in.
In 2014 Choi charged Kim Hyun Joong with four charges of assault, eventually dropping three of them. Kim denied the three charges of assault but was fined for the remaining charge. Choi and Kim reached a financial settlement which required that she never speak of the charges again.
The couple reunited and vacationed together. They broke up and in January 2015 she announced she was pregnant. The child was born in September.
Choi is currently suing Kim for psychological damages that she suffered as the result of a miscarriage allegedly caused by the 2014 assault incident. He is counter-suing her for discussing the assault case.


Source
KDrama Stars translation / Sports Donga original

Date: 2015-12-15 05:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fiercediva.livejournal.com
I'm glad they took the test in the same facility under supervision, so there can be no question of tampering or substituting someone else's dna to get out of the obligation. I'm still amazed that a positive paternity lest does not automatically mean court-ordered child support until age of majority in SK.

As for the gold-digger claims, single mothers who aren't wealthy have a hard time finding jobs. How would Choi be able to support the child if KHJ doesn't pay up? It's child support, not (p)alimony. He didn't seem too worried about knocking her up when he was having unsafe sex all this time and joking about switching to anal vs. putting on a damn condom - let alone hitting her. etc.

Date: 2015-12-15 12:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chimpansee.livejournal.com
Being a single mother in South-Korea seems.. well, not very nice. I can't @ people who are quick to label her a ''golddigger''.

Date: 2015-12-15 04:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] obscureauthor.livejournal.com
In most asian countries it holds true. In india the alimony afforded to wives are pittance, like i know of a case where the husband earning 75k inr had to pay 2k for the maintenance of his two kids for his divorced (unemployed wife) but legqlly illegitimate children can claim property under hindu law.

Date: 2015-12-15 06:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tree-star123.livejournal.com
idk why ppl are calling her a gold digger, isn't she well off too??
anyone khj's side & family has been a complete mess. good that she made it public who knows what other shit they were trying to pull.

Date: 2015-12-15 07:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seroquels.livejournal.com
The gold digger claim is just bs. From what I recall she's from an affluent family herself, she doesn't need his money.

Date: 2015-12-15 06:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kjesta.livejournal.com
I can't at KHJ and his folks whining about Choi making date and place of the tests public. We all know otherwise they'd just keep bullshitting around the issue, at least this way there's some sort of accountability.

Date: 2015-12-15 11:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] omgcats.livejournal.com
of course she made it public or you'd still be fucking around??? it's not like there isn't already a huge stigma against single mothers or anything, i'm sure she just adores the stress and ambivalence that has taken over her life since this bullshit started.

Date: 2015-12-15 12:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chimpansee.livejournal.com
"We hoped that the DNA test could be taken confidentially, however Miss Choi has announced the location and date. This is unfortunate."

Boo-fucking-hoo. That poor woman. This thing has been going on since forever, how awful it must be to be constantly reminded of darker times. It's so sad that this is often the way a legal battle plays out for victims.

Date: 2015-12-15 12:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] demonshide7.livejournal.com

Not that I don't feel sorry for her being a single mom, but she should also take responsibility for her part in this whole debacle! She opened her legs for him, welcomed him into her heat, allowed herself to get pregnant...
Because if she was FORCED to do it, then she should be fucking crying rape not begging for him to see the child and her. So, much as I do not like Kim Hyun Joong, she has as much to answer for as he does.
Also, was this really the ONLY solution?!?! The guy hates you and you fucking get pregnant, carry the child full term and beg him for support. Really?!?! Wouldn't that make him dislike you more?!?!
If I were her, the child wouldn't have to be subjected to this. There would be no child. She is delusional if she thinks KJH will marry her if the child comes out fully his.
You can manipulate DNA if you had sex with his cousin... Or better yet, brother. So..

Date: 2015-12-15 01:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belintuchiha.livejournal.com
Uh.. but she doesn't want to get married to the guy????
She just wants him to take responsibility as the father, and by no means does that mean she wants to date him again XD

Date: 2015-12-15 04:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] obscureauthor.livejournal.com
Wow are you retarded??
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Date: 2015-12-15 06:29 pm (UTC)

Date: 2015-12-15 03:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xxhna.livejournal.com
just no.

Date: 2015-12-15 03:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kjesta.livejournal.com
She opened her legs for him, welcomed him into her heat, allowed herself to get pregnant...

"welcomed him into her heat"? wtf kind of purple prose fanfiction.net dregs is this??? we're talking about real people here.

you're disgusting.

Date: 2015-12-15 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] obscureauthor.livejournal.com
Hey dont drag ff.net into this, there is some legitimately good fics in there. Asianfanfics.com on the other hand...

Date: 2015-12-15 05:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belintuchiha.livejournal.com
hey asianfanfics actually has some nice fics too XD they're just harder to find.

Date: 2015-12-15 05:27 pm (UTC)

Date: 2015-12-15 03:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wintersjuly.livejournal.com
i didn't think there'd be any supporters of khj in this comm, but wow. i'm kind of speechless over the amount of victim blaming going on. she wants him to be responsible for his own child, which is a completely reasonable demand to make for anyone. there is no mention of marriage or anything anywhere, i have no idea where you even got that from? (it's also pretty unkind and bizarre to jump to the least likely conclusion that she had the baby to trap him in a marriage. we're not in a kdrama here)

Date: 2015-12-15 03:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] omgcats.livejournal.com
wowowow. there is not a single thing correct about this comment.

Date: 2015-12-15 04:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sodapab.livejournal.com
She's the one who's taking responsibility here by raising the kid alone, he's willing to help and take responsibility only if the child is proven to be his. You make it sound like it's entirely her fault that she got pregnant, but you know it takes two to tango...
Maybe keeping the child was the only solution for her personally, it's her body and life and none of us should judge her decision.

Date: 2015-12-15 07:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] torontok.livejournal.com
Not to mention abortion is (legally) banned in Korea even if doctors do perform it on the sly

Date: 2015-12-15 10:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sodapab.livejournal.com
thanks for telling me, I had no idea it's illegal there :/

Date: 2015-12-15 04:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] waves-of-light.livejournal.com
What in the fuck is this?

Date: 2015-12-15 04:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jessicamariek.livejournal.com
I'm torn between wanting to educate your sorry ass, and going "don't feed the troll", so I'll just say there is nothing in this comment that is right or good or logical, and leave it at that.

Date: 2015-12-15 04:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asth77.livejournal.com
Lol this comment is really gross.

Date: 2015-12-15 04:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nana-the-dwarf.livejournal.com
Wow.

Ok, first of all, this comment is all sorts of disgusting and dumb.

Second, for your own sake and the sake of those close to you (and why the hell not, those you don't even know), I suggest you, at the very least, look up the definition of victim blaming.

Third, you should attempt to get your facts straight as much as you can before spouting nonesense; nowhere has it been said that she wants to marry him or date him. The poor, poor guy can hate her all he wants, but if he is the father, then he must be responsible for him/her. Keeping the baby was her decision alone, so you can shut up about that too.

You're no better than the k-netizens up there calling her a gold digger. Grow the fuck up.
Edited Date: 2015-12-15 06:11 pm (UTC)

Date: 2015-12-15 04:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
this comment is wrong in so many ways
i hope your inbox explodes with messages
Edited Date: 2015-12-15 04:56 pm (UTC)

Date: 2015-12-15 05:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] withcream.livejournal.com
Cringing so hard. Your logic is seriously disturbing and like everyone else said, your victim blaming is absolutely vile.

Date: 2015-12-15 05:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] haixiao.livejournal.com
i want you to pay for the bleach i need to pour into my eyes after reading this stupid shit

Date: 2015-12-15 06:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tree-star123.livejournal.com
what kind of backward logic??? victim blaming is nagl. khj is the manipulator and i think she found out much later that she was pregnant.

Date: 2015-12-16 06:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tsuyoi-hikari.livejournal.com
KHJ is sure a manipulator and keeps blaming her for getting pregnant all the times. If I'm not mistaken, she already did an abortion probably twice before this pregnancy. I think the chronology goes like this: he hit her --> she sue him for abusing her --> getting back together with him & got pregnant --> rumor of marriage --> sue him again.

Date: 2015-12-17 01:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tree-star123.livejournal.com
ia she probably went back to him b/c she believed that he was really sorry and reflected. but he was so gross about everything when she got pregnant - showing it was all voluntary and she wanted it or something being dramatic. ultimately basically using the time they went back together against her. such a mess, his image is ruined forever for me & i don't even understand ppl who support him.

Date: 2015-12-17 01:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tsuyoi-hikari.livejournal.com
What he did is a big crime and the way he handled it shows how horrible he is as a human being. I really cant at his fans. Why support someone like that when there are tons of other good looking, kind and talented celebrities out there than KHJ. I just dont get it.

Date: 2015-12-15 07:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kimbafierce.livejournal.com
Also, was this really the ONLY solution?!?! The guy hates you and you fucking get pregnant, carry the child full term and beg him for support. Really?!

Date: 2015-12-15 07:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mya13.livejournal.com
i hope you're a troll cause this whole comment cannot be real....

Date: 2015-12-15 07:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] modestgoddess79.livejournal.com
You can't manipulate DNA like that, they can tell the difference between a parent or another distant relative.
Science is not as gullible as Kim Hyun Joong fans.
Edited Date: 2015-12-15 07:21 pm (UTC)

Date: 2015-12-15 07:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] af-fx-tion.livejournal.com
wow lol it's as if somebody isn't allowed to make the choice to not get an abortion if they find themselves pregnant. you're terrible

Date: 2015-12-15 07:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] relisabeth.livejournal.com
Well, abortion is illegal in SK, so it's not the same level of choice as it would be in other places. She would have had to fly to another country or commit a crime to abort.

Agreed the original commenter is genuinely TERRIBLE.

Date: 2015-12-15 07:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] af-fx-tion.livejournal.com
thank you for informing me about this, I didn't know about that

Date: 2015-12-15 08:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] relisabeth.livejournal.com
No prob! <3

I can't imagine what I'd do in her situation. I'm so thankful that I do have a choice.

Date: 2015-12-15 09:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unicornios.livejournal.com
Get the fuck out of here and go back to that Kim Hyun Joong forum you came from...

Date: 2015-12-15 07:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] caramelorchoco.livejournal.com
this is such a messy situation :(

its good that this paternity test actually went through though
Edited Date: 2015-12-15 07:16 pm (UTC)

Date: 2015-12-16 03:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] heyahala.livejournal.com
such a long roller coster *sighs*

Date: 2015-12-17 04:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chanqsun.livejournal.com
AND HE GON BE DA DADDY WATCH

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