today's best news: jaejoong and khj no longer close friends (hopefully?)

[psharp10.livejournal.com]

150312 - Kim Jaejoong, “Kim Hyunjoong & I are not being admitted together”

Friends Kim Jaejoong and Kim Hyu-joong are entering the army on the same day but they are not being ‘admitted’ together.

They are both joining the army on the 31st of March. They’ve revealed how close they are through television, so many are wondering if they are serving National Duty together.

Kim Jaejoong’s agency claimed, “They haven’t been in close contact these days and they’re not going on duty together.”

They have about 3 weeks before D-Day. They are taking care of official and personal matters. Kim Jaejoong has a meeting with his fans at the ‘2015 Kim Jaejoong’s Concert In Seoul – The Beginning of End’. He plans on spending time with family as well.

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source Hancinema

from JYJ3 via FuckYeahTohoshinki

am i just being too hopeful???????? what is the definition of close contact for jaejoong and what is the definition of close contact here good god i'm too stressed about this

Comments

[countingcr0ws.livejournal.com]

YES, YES YES YES YES. you know they have the vid where Jaejoong goes to great Hyunjoong on stage? I was just like what about young sang? :/

[inori88.livejournal.com]

other 2 or 3 celebrities will enlist the same date, right? Anyway as far as I recall they haven't been "close" for, may be, a couple of years.

[mlmello.livejournal.com]

sungmin and choi jin hyuk, right?!

[hurtmybones.livejournal.com]

probably trying to save face after khj's abusive ass was put on blast lbr. I'm never not going to be suspicious of all these famous men who are/were bffs with khj

[leighbee333.livejournal.com]

Yep. TOP is suspect to me now (I've never been super optimistic about his feelings on women, though).

[audiograms.livejournal.com]

Jaejoong run away from this fool. You're too good for him.

[jaerotic.livejournal.com]

werent they rumored to have had a falling out before that made khj move out of their house or sth idr clearly now but there was a blind item abt it...
anyway id rather he distance himself from khj rather than see support for him

[chloe1910.livejournal.com]

Yeah, there were rumors of them falling out. Which results in Jaejoong moving out of KHJ's house. This news was quite well known among Jaejoong's fans especially kfans

But after that I guess they kind of made up cause Jaejoong appeared in the KHJ's programme talking about their friendship? But last I heard, Jaejoong is not that close to KHJ anymore and is to people like JGS and Gunhee(and Gunhee's gang).

[honeebs.livejournal.com]

JJ knows a thing about PR so of course he/his people put out a statement they are not stupid.
So go with your banners, rice cakes, and porridge and send him away like the good fans you are.

[cafetin99.livejournal.com]

THIS.

People are very naive(?) and very biased about JJ/their bias... A month ago suppor/congratulations flowers and now they aren't close friends anymore? What a coincidence that this happened after all those press statements... But of course, flowers don't mean anything and it is not as if JJ had made anything slightly bad in the past tho...

[laeryn.livejournal.com]

I also thought they hadn't been as close in a while, but I don't remember why I thought that. If not, I do hope after this he's leaving that idiot behind. Not gonna pretend Jaejoong has never fucked up, but I still feel he's got a good heart so. Maybe I'm just hopeful but idc.

[laeryn.livejournal.com]

I just reread and damn, "idiot" is too light a word but I have never found the English language to be good enough to explain cases like this man's. I could use Spanish, but.
Also yeah. Ofc Jaejoong's agency is doing PR. He's lives off the public, after all.

[anconeous.livejournal.com]

He's probably trying to steer clear from KHJ's ruined image these days. We all know Jae's always been concerned over his image and people's perception of him.

But if they're really not friends these days, good for Jae! LOL

[adenar.livejournal.com]

exactly what prompted this statement, it kind of feels bizarre for them to just come out suddenly being like WE'RE NOT FRIENDS when the domestic violence issue has been public for months? were people really expecting them to enlist together or...?

[tempestdance.livejournal.com]

their enlistment date is on the same day and people were speculating they were enlisting together when really there's a lot of people going that day

[benihime99.livejournal.com]

Sounds like PR tbh
but I do hope Jae betters himself and grows in the army

[modestgoddess79.livejournal.com]

Jaejoong seems to have a lot of friends in the industry, so I hope that was a polite way of saying they are no longer close or friends

[fruitchatlover.livejournal.com]

My answer to "am i just being too hopeful???????? what is the definition of close contact for jaejoong and what is the definition of close contact here good god i'm too stressed about this"

1. Jaejoong complained about Hyunjoong even not attending his last birthday party during an interview

2. For Jaejoong "CLOSE" means like Yoochun/Junsu level close - I mean he loves those two and that is why he even got their names tattooed on his body o____O Although he loves those two they barely meet or talk too because of busy schedules. I mean Junsu even said that he had never been to JJ's apartment even.

3. It seems Hyunjoong was replaced by Geun Suk a while ago lol - since they are neighbours and all

4. Hyunjoong is mostly overseas or in Japan but JJ is mostly in Korea so I doubt they meet. I mean the only last time reporters caught the group together was when Rain, Se7en, etc. were going to enlist and throwing a enlistment party or whatever. I think one time after that when JJ, Hyunjoong, someone from Shinhwa and some other person met somewhere.

5. JJ barely goes out now - he mostly stays at home because he has been permanently scarred by saessangs. Also, any time he goes out even to a convenience store their is a flock of people/fans etc. who want his signature and this causes problems for the store workers and his own manager. He talked about this during an interview too and how apologetic he was and thought his existence was only a problem for other people and therefore he got super depressed.

6. Even the period when they lived together after the lawsuit (because he couldn't afford a place) they said they only physically saw each other two times because that is how busy both of them were.

8. Obviously since the company had to release their stance too JJ obviously had no knowledge of 'sending flowers to Hyunjoong'. That was probably done by his promotional drama company in Japan who works with Hyunjoong too.

I think Hyunjoong is WAY closer to TOP than Jaejoong anyways.
I mean Jaejoong has a support group in Yoochun and Junsu when/if he wants them. And also he is a social butterfly.

Whereas TOP doesn't seem that close to his own group and TOP and Hyunjoong are both emo people who hang out together to drink and talk about their emo problems. And both of them seem very antisocial.

Anyways even if Jaejoong and Hyunjoong are still friends I don't know what the problem is?
Unless you guys are saying that abusive loser douchbags with emotional problems don't deserve any friends?
Everyone deserves those kinds of people in their life who can forgive them and help them to become better people, otherwise the amount of loser douchebags would just increase in society.

Basically, who Jaejoong is friends with is his own problem and personal issue. They barely talk and barely meet so it is not like their personalities can rub off on each other. Also, I doubt they talk about all the personal relationship problems they have with each other even if they do meet like once a year.

The only problem I had is IF Jaejoong supported Hyunjoong by sending him flowers than I would want to bang my head against the wall. But, thank god he didn't!!!!!!!!! And I hope he never supports ANY of these kinds of people publically ever thank you very much.

I don't know why you guys treat Jaejoong like some devil-reborn. Yes, he did really stupid things in the past in a super toxic situation (work and saessang fan wise) and he shouldn't be praised or defended for it. BUT he is not a bad person. I doubt he goes around hitting people for a living or supporting other people who abuse people. I mean he has SO many testimonies for his character from the people he has worked with, who sometimes even talk about him years after he has any contact with them and they all say good things about him. I doubt he is some super manipulative person who has multiple personality disorder. He is the kind of person who can become friends with random people on the street, and listens to their problems.

[shintotchi.livejournal.com]

A+

[o-o-mai-o-o.livejournal.com]

Not like Jaejoong is any better than KHJ...? He's hit girls too...

[fruitchatlover.livejournal.com]

It should not be "hits" but "hit" people/girls in the past in regards to Jaejoong.

That was a super toxic situation he was in at the time (extreme lack of sleep, rigorous scheduled activities, high depression, probably huge amounts of jet lag since they basically lived on the plane at that time more than any specific place, starving himself so he could maintain the industry/company approved 'body' etc. His mental and physical health was a MESS back then. And on top of that he had crazy lunatic stalker fans who broke into his home, molested him, hacked his phone/email/etc. and followed him around during scheduled and any few minutes/hours of unscheduled time he had). In no way am I defending him at all! I think any person male or FEMALE who abuses another person has a VERY problematic personality. But, they still have a chance for redemption.

The only reason I forgave him is because he was in a toxic situation. So it is the scenario like a dog (since he literally was like a slave dog for his company back then) who gets a disease and goes mad, and people still think that dog is cute/pretty so they keep trying to approach that dog (maybe even knowing it is a mad dog that needs to be put down or let go) and that dog ends up biting the people around him so is condemned by society for eternity.
Yep, sorry to the fans but I am calling Jaejoong a mad dog back then literally.

Anyways this 'mad dog' did escape the toxic environment and he did get treatment so how I see him is he is cured. I think it was completely wrong for him to do that - but I can understand and forgive him. Especially since he has a track record of doing more good works than bad, and having a good personality especially when one looks at the kind of shit he has had to deal with his entire life.

I am actually HAPPY the media paid the saessang to release these audio clips because this guarantees that he will not do something like this again in the future. After being condemned for an act publicly I doubt he would return to negative behavior traits.

The fans he lost...........were probably already on the verge of leaving him to join another fandom so it wasn't any great loss. Heck, besides the annoying haters who like reminding his fans that he did something "unforgivable" he actually gained from this experience since it was strongly negatively reinforced in his mind that this kind of behavior is BAD!

Like once when he was younger he drank a little too much over the limit (even though fans know Jaejoong's alcohol tolerance level is really high - he does not get drunk easily) and was pulled over by a cop and taken to the police station. Then the company almost fired him - but he begged - and they decided to suspend his activities for a certain amount of time. As a result of that punishment he learned his lesson and has never consumed alcohol and driven again. So yeah one could even say he has a track record for doing stupid things but learning from them and never doing them again.

Now if he were to abuse someone again than I would side-eye all those fans who decide to remain with him. THEN there is no excuse for him and he should openly be bashed, and I'd probably be disgusted with him too.

[pinkiikis.livejournal.com]

boy Kim Jaejoong is hot!

[shintotchi.livejournal.com]

I've suspected they weren't friends for years. A few years back, there was a blind item on omona about two idol friends who had been roommates, but that they grew apart and got separate apartments. People had guessed it was those two, seeing as they no longer live together, but I guess omonians forgot about that.

[ggumd.livejournal.com]

Wasn't that jaejoong and jan geun suk?

[yuzuruhanyu.livejournal.com]

idu anyone who could still fuck w/ jaejoong after he sent flowers of support to khj like last month

like the sasaengs pushed him to do it!!! excuse dried up in that moment, fuck him

[jrt131n.livejournal.com]

Apparently the flowers were sent by the Japanese promoters, not the artist themselves...

[princetabi.livejournal.com]

it probably is for publicity but i still hope its true

[clover-bri.livejournal.com]

Unpopular opinion here but...as I mentionedmen before:

I dont know why people are "happy" with Jaejoong leaving his "friend" aside when he is having serious issues...I mean I wouldn't like to see the people I care for or people I consider close and friends, leaving me when I f#cuked up just because their "image" would be affected.... well not saying JJ did that, after all I know NOTHING about those two's relationship in "real life"

PS.- my conception of friendship might be A LOT different from yours

[leighbee333.livejournal.com]

I can't believe what you care about in all of this is Jaejoong not being "loyal" to a woman beater.

Brutalizing a human being (who you sleep around on and then are hypocritically possessive over), is worse than just "fucking up." It's not some oopsy-daisy! mistake. It's the type of scum-of-the-earth behavior that reveals who you are, and his pathetic conduct during this pregnancy scandal has reinforced that he's not genuinely remorseful over anything.

I don't demand that the people around me be perfect, but I do have the baseline requirement that they not be violent, manipulative psychopaths, because I want to surround myself with decent human beings. If you want to help psychopaths stop being psychopaths so bad, go into counseling.

[iznanassi.livejournal.com]

Didn't he hit a girl too, or at least people in JYJ did? And he was among the people who sent flowers to KHJ for his concert or something wasn't he?

Trust in no oppa tbh.

[ultimaaa.livejournal.com]

All those flowers were sent by the Japanese promotion agency, not the groups/artists themselves.

[angela-derp-otp.livejournal.com]

lmao Jaejoong looks exactly the same as he did the las couple of years???


edit: wtf your first sentence tho?

[angela-derp-otp.livejournal.com]

People comparing the JYJ sasaeng situation to the KHJ situation bother me to no end.

editing my comment because what's the point idk why I get myself through this.

[blueglassbeads.livejournal.com]

i feel this, and yeah don't do it omona's in a mood this week

[agoongprincess.livejournal.com]

lmao ppl comparing JYJ's sasaengs to KHJ's abusive violent emotionally manipulative ways. OK you clearly need to learn more about both events in question and differentiate between them.

prayer circle Jaejoong no longer fucks w/ this mess and seeing how paranoid JJ is about public opinion i think that's the case

[chloe1910.livejournal.com]

*join your prayer circle*

[kjc48.livejournal.com]

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=%EA%B1%B0%EC%A7%93%EB%A7%90+mv
We'll never know the truth, but all the "they broke up YEARS ago" theorist should calm down. You're oppa has done stuff, KHJ has done worst.

[suxaholic.livejournal.com]

So are you automatically deemed a possible dickhead because you are or have been friends with an abuser? Well then I guess I am guilty . I also should have noticed that the possibility of him being a woman beater because of his chauvinist tendencies. Deep bow

On Omona as of late it seems logic is an obstacle rather than a vehicle in making an argument.

[hurtmybones.livejournal.com]

lmao if you know a person is a misogynistic pig and still remain friends with them do you honestly expect ppl not to judge you? or are y'all jaejoong/yoochun/top stans who refuse to accept the fact that these people at the very least chose to be friends with someone who is clearly a misogynist (and has been one before his abuse was made public)? no one's saying they (or the fans) should have known khj's an abuser just bc he's also a misogynist, but y'all are so mad over this for some reason that you seem to have thrown reading comprehension out the window ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[aurellee.livejournal.com]

Military enlistment in SK is more on where you register, majority of them will enlist or go on duty in their hometown. Korean or kfans knows this, so who is wondering about their duty together? Keyeast?