Dispatch breaks down Kim Hyun Joong and 'A' reunification process

[twinkystar16.livejournal.com]

Article: "Christmas trip to Jeju Island, pregnancy"... love and war in 9 months with Kim Hyun Joong and A

Source: Dispatch via Nate

2014 August 2nd: A files a lawsuit.

2014 September 15th: Kim Hyun Joong releases an apology.

2014 September 20th: Kim Hyun Joong called in for investigation. He constantly visited A's house to apologize and ask for a lighter prosecution. Part of their 'misunderstanding' was resolved.

2014 October: Kim Hyun Joong genuinely apologizes to A, continuing to reach her for contact. A seems to have gained back her feelings for him during this process.

2014 November: Kim Hyun Joong throws a surprise event for A's birthday. One insider said, "Kim Hyun Joong sent flowers and a cake to A's home and had a surprise party in Seoul. A friend's couple also joined them."

2014 December: Kim Hyun Joong and A get back together.

2014 December 24th: The two take a Christmas trip to Jeju Island for 3 days. They also spent New Year's together at Kim Hyun Joong's house and officially returned to being lovers.

2014 December 29th: Police cross-interrogate Kim Hyun Joong and A.

2014 December: A confirms she's pregnant. Currently, she's 11 weeks along and is expected to give birth in September.

2015 January 19th: Police close Kim Hyun Joong's assault case. All he must pay is a penalty fee.

2015 February: Kim Hyun Joong is currently promoting in Japan and recently returned to Korea after his fan meet.

2015 Future?: Kim Hyun Joong will be enlisting in the army this year. Both families are currently meeting to discuss matters on the baby's birth and future.

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1. [+277, -3] This is a makjang drama that would make any scriptwriter cry in shame

2. [+257, -57] Wow, he's a true bastard ㅋㅋ Not only did he beat her, but had sex with her and planted his seed in her... ㅋㅋㅋ The woman's a slut too

3. [+173, -12] My mother always told me to break it off with any man who dares lay a hand on me no matter how much he apologizes and asks for forgiveness. I'm worried for her as a fellow woman but... since she's set on marrying him, I hope she lives well and doesn't make the same mistake again.

4. [+22, -1] She should be careful he doesn't hit her again now that she's pregnant

5. [+17, -0] She deserves him if she's staying with him even after being beat

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Source: Naver

1. [+6,123, -66] Both of them are amazing people ㅋㅋㅋㅋ they're such messes

2. [+5,092, -62] Both are crazy...

3. [+4,879, -53] Dispatch makes everything easier to understand

4. [+3,484, -39] When does this makjang drama end?

5. [+871, -15] Jeju Island, pregnancy, success

6. [+674, -10] Both give me goosebumps...

7. [+655, -6] The most disgusting dating scandal ever... Hyun Joong for trying to get back the woman suing him, the woman for taking him back... I hope they live a happy life with marriage. A man who beats his woman never stops...

8. [+572, -16] Man has sadism, woman has masochism ㅋㅋ

Original Articles Sources: 1 2
Translation Credit: Netizenbuzz

Comments

[asth77.livejournal.com]

Huh. I hope things will be better for her and the baby but honestly...

[diicca.livejournal.com]

She should just take that bastards money and plan visitation days for him. Going back together is not a smart move.

[bauci.livejournal.com]

wth are their sources, I mean

and officially returned to being lovers

??

????

I'm guessing they are saying that they started sleeping together but how on earth does Dispatch know? Do they have a reporter stationed under their bed?

But other than that reading all this is really sad :/

[alleybetwixt.livejournal.com]

Conceived in December. Currently at 11 weeks at the time of the article (today). Due in September.

[psharp10.livejournal.com]

it's not a 12-month pregnancy? from what i calculated i'm guessing it was early december that she got pregnant and then will expecting in early september to give birth? i don't see how that's 12-months, at most 10 months tbh.

[petecarl.livejournal.com]

http://www.babycenter.com/pregnancy-due-date-calculator

According to the calc, if she got pregnant Dec. 10, 2014, (just an example) she would be due Sept. 2, 2015.

[psharp10.livejournal.com]

all of this is just so...
i hope the girl and the baby can remain safe and healthy ;;
smh at the victim blaming in the k-netz comments tho

[hipployta.livejournal.com]

Oh my...

[babyonions.livejournal.com]

I still don't know what to say

I just hope the child and the mother will be healthy and safe

[asteri5k.livejournal.com]

This is just sad.

Comments everywhere. Ifans and kfans alike are disheartening.

[catscomics.livejournal.com]

I was thinking the same. Trying to make up with & have sex to someone who sues you and makes everyone know about it? Does people really think he 'loves' her that much?

[imienazwisko.livejournal.com]

fuck, so its true that people arrive on jeju as two but leave as three

also i pray for the kid's well being and esp mental health. my mom didn't ditched my dad's psycho ass because of pregnancy so yeah. it's hard to judge but makes you feel bitter anyway. i found out about it bc i overheard their quarrel, it was a bit of shock to me... nothing pleasant, to cut long story short. this khj story is triggering all sorts of feelings inside me, smh

[sebsob.livejournal.com]

How many times did I beg my mum to leave my dad only to have 'I stayed with him for the kids' thrown back in my face time and time again?

I don't judge these women - or men who stay with abusive women - but I don't understand them.

[imienazwisko.livejournal.com]

same...
i had that "let's stay together for the kids' sake" bs, you're not doing anyone any favour. i don't get it at all... i get that some chose to stay bc it's hard on your own but seriously staying in an abusive relationship will ruin you. i look at my parents who are in their 33rd year as a married couple and just smh

[sebsob.livejournal.com]

Sex is a huge drive - that need to be touched, held etc - maybe I don't understand because I don't have those kind of needs but I've been informed that it's a reason some people stay. Still, I didn't see much 'touching' unless it was rooted in anger. Bottom line is that you put your needs above your child's by choosing to bring them in up a hostile, negative environment that would affect them adversely. No one has it easy but that doesn't mean I condone that kind of weakness. When I see women upon that brink of such a decision, I can not help but wish a better life for those children than I had. And that means that woman being strong because society won't ever be on her side. Don't even get me started on all that 50 shades of grey rubbish. It makes me sick.

[suxaholic.livejournal.com]

I feel really bad for the child, no choice in this situation

[torontok.livejournal.com]

I can only hope that if they're going through with this that the scumbag gets counselling and that no more harm comes to the baby or the mother.

[winegums.livejournal.com]

^ co-signed.

And that he doesn't try to use his baby to fix his abuser image (but lbr he will try)

[cairistiona.livejournal.com]

Of course he will use the baby. "I've got a child now! I've changed! I'm a great person now!"

[winegums.livejournal.com]

^ co-signed.

And that he doesn't try to use his baby to fix his abuser image (but lbr he will try)

[fabulousdoll.livejournal.com]

I'm going to copy/paste my comment on the other post because I still can't deal with this:

I will try to find a little bit of positivism in all this mess, and to say that now that everyone knows, the people that is close to her will be more alert to the signals of abuse and help her, and not condemn her for being with him.

Even though, I know that unless you're with the couple all the time, is really hard to "see" the abuse. More now that he will try to be more psychological about it than physical.

I'm so scared for this girl.

[hurtmybones.livejournal.com]

I hope her and the baby have people who can support them bc damn :( I can't believe kim hyun joong's gonna use this to worm his ass back in ughhhh

[caramelorchoco.livejournal.com]

this is just such terrible news. ive been placed in obstetrics lately and the number of pregnant women in abusive relationships is just...

its just terrible, he's such an awful person
why the fuck does he still have fans

[petecarl.livejournal.com]

This is trending on Facebook, although there's no mention of abuse, just that he's reconciling with his pregnant ex-gf.

[nana-the-dwarf.livejournal.com]

The last thing the girls nees is to be called a slut left and right...wtf, did people just magically forget he assaulted her?

[lysblack.livejournal.com]

i just can't with the victim shaming and blaming.

and all i can do is to repeat my previous comment, that i hope and pray that the mother and child will be safe and healthy.

[bluemaid86.livejournal.com]

As expected KHJ pursued A again and A likely still had lingering affection for him despite his behavior so he was able to convince her to get back together with him. Probably fed her the usual stuff ppl like this do "I'm a changed person!""I'll never do that again!", "I love you, can't be without you"....sigh all I can hope is that he comes out the army a better person (as many do) & not worse (like some) cuz if he hits her again (I can't bring myself to say when even tho statics say otherwise) she won't be able to get the public's sympathy again & being a single mom/divorcee in Korea is hard :\

[leopolitan.livejournal.com]

:(((

i hate that this is a public spectacle now and everyones watching but no ones intervening

and people are passing all sorts of horrible judgement on the victim

FUCK

[tokyocinema.livejournal.com]

...yeah nope, still angry.
homegirl needs to get out of there before he shows his ass again

[angela-derp-otp.livejournal.com]

This is awful.

[modestgoddess79.livejournal.com]

Best case scenario it will be a paper marriage, she and the baby can stay with her parents and he can have supervised visitation with the baby. I've never been so enthusiastic about mandatory military service, the sooner he leaves the better.