Enes Kaya's wife asks for privacy + another woman shares her story

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Article: New victim of Enes Kaya steps forward, reveals messages, "Sexy body, big boobs.."

Source: Star Today via Nate

"We met on SNS. We went to a club together and he kissed me saying he wanted to make a relationship with me work. We dated from July to October and had a relationship deep enough to consider marriage. He said that we would have a good future if we didn't get caught by the journalists. I considered him my lover so I slept with him."

When asked if she didn't know he was married, "Unless you watch his shows, I don't think you'd know. The reason I didn't suspect him to be married was because we met in front of his home and walked around the area often too."

"He made a lot of requests and talked sexually a lot. He was once on a radio show and put on a song that I had requested. Who would expect a man like that to be married?"


1. [+1,036, -65] Can't believe he's the complete opposite of what he presented himself to be on Abnormal Summit ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ Go kill yourself, why even bother living? How can you be like this when you're married? This woman's hopeless too ㅋㅋ She meets a man on SNS for the first time, clubs with him, kisses him, sleeps with him, and considers marriage less than 100 days after dating? ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ What a joke

2. [+699, -21] An embarrassment to Turkey, to men, to his family.. just quietly go back to your country. You have no future in Korea.

3. [+663, -19] More and more women are probably going to come forward... what if he dated 20~30 of them?

4. [+61, -30] She deserves it for thinking to marry a man she met at a club

5. [+54, -12] She's a complete liar, there's no way she wouldn't have known he was married if she even listened to his radio shows and considered marriage with him. Surely she would've looked his name up on the internet, the information's all there...

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Article: <a href="http://news.nate.com/view/20141211n06366?mid=n1008" target="_blank">New victim of Enes Kaya steps forward, reveals messages, "Sexy body, big boobs.."</a>

Source: Star Today via Nate

"We met on SNS. We went to a club together and he kissed me saying he wanted to make a relationship with me work. We dated from July to October and had a relationship deep enough to consider marriage. He said that we would have a good future if we didn't get caught by the journalists. I considered him my lover so I slept with him."

When asked if she didn't know he was married, "Unless you watch his shows, I don't think you'd know. The reason I didn't suspect him to be married was because we met in front of his home and walked around the area often too."

"He made a lot of requests and talked sexually a lot. He was once on a radio show and put on a song that I had requested. Who would expect a man like that to be married?"

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1. [+1,036, -65] Can't believe he's the complete opposite of what he presented himself to be on Abnormal Summit ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ Go kill yourself, why even bother living? How can you be like this when you're married? This woman's hopeless too ㅋㅋ She meets a man on SNS for the first time, clubs with him, kisses him, sleeps with him, and considers marriage less than 100 days after dating? ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ What a joke

2. [+699, -21] An embarrassment to Turkey, to men, to his family.. just quietly go back to your country. You have no future in Korea.

3. [+663, -19] More and more women are probably going to come forward... what if he dated 20~30 of them?

4. [+61, -30] She deserves it for thinking to marry a man she met at a club

5. [+54, -12] She's a complete liar, there's no way she wouldn't have known he was married if she even listened to his radio shows and considered marriage with him. Surely she would've looked his name up on the internet, the information's all there...
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<lj-spoiler title="Enes Kaya's wife complains of violation of privacy "I'm scared to leave the house"">Article: <a href="http://news.nate.com/view/20141211n06066?mid=n1008" target="_blank">Enes Kaya's wife complains of violation of privacy "I'm scared to leave the house"</a>

Source: TV Report via Nate

1. [+1,260, -144] Why are journalists going to her home, you idiots... So many psychos in Korea, I swear

2. [+1,148, -73] All because of Enes' mistake, his family is suffering... What did his wife and kid do to deserve this. You're a married man, you have a family to be faithful to... how dare you give them such a hard time.

3. [+606, -227] If you actually read her statement, she takes her husband's side and talks as if the victims are lying... she makes her family look like the only victims.

4. [+157, -62] "How can you only listen to one side of the story and make a decision.." Yeah, she's no better than her husband.
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<lj-spoiler title="I'm mad at my husband but I'm willing to work things out with him">Article: <a href="http://news.nate.com/view/20141211n06899?mid=n1008" target="_blank">Enes Kaya's wife... "I'm mad at my husband but I'm willing to work things out with him"</a>

Source: Starin via Nate

1. [+359, -21] If you look at the men who cheat, they're usually good fathers/husbands... they purposely create a good reputation so that they don't get caught..

2. [+362, -45] Whatever the case, she deserves to have her privacy respected

3. [+355, -41] I feel bad for her... tsk tsk

4. [+36, -3] How can she continue living with a man who not only hid her but their kid to sleep with other women? Seems Enes used his way with words to convince her to stay ㅋ
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Source: <a href="http://netizenbuzz.blogspot.se/2014/12/enes-kayas-wife-asks-for-privacy.html" target="_blank">netizenbuzz</a>

Comments

[torontok.livejournal.com]

Leave the poor woman alone, it's bad enough that she has a cheating asswipe for a husband, let her live in peace and raise her kid normally.
Anyone post the interview he did? Where he gave that "I wondered if I just killed myself if everyone would at least feel sorry for me." qoute.

[miyozari.livejournal.com]

Ugh, that quote was so weird and just nope.

[tempestdance.livejournal.com]

he's victimizing himself for sympathy and no one deserves death wished on himself but i was like, uh why would you say something like that?

[miyozari.livejournal.com]

MTE. He doesn't deserve the death wishes but what he said was so weak and childish. This is bs psychological manipulation on the level of my 14-year old cousin.

[modernelegance.livejournal.com]

Classic narcissist move IMO. Let's deflect from the fact that I did a wrong thing and focus on how I am being ganged up on by *everyone*.

[goshipgurl.livejournal.com]

We dated from July to October and had a relationship deep enough to consider marriage

you were dating him for 3 months and already thought of marriage? guuuuurl

[yuzuruhanyu.livejournal.com]

i can't fathom marrying someone i only knew for less than 6 months, especially only 4 months? it's not even half a year, it's a semester.

[rennehollic.livejournal.com]

well...my parents got married after knowing each other a month....25years ago and still going strong

and I was born three years later....
but I agree, it's too little to know someone

[rightclick5ave.livejournal.com]

that's gotta be a pretty rare love story.. so sweet :D and that's you in your icon right? cuuuute ♥

[rennehollic.livejournal.com]

hehehe its meeee

[fashionxxavenue.livejournal.com]

my coteacher got engaged after only 3 months... apparently its pretty common for things to move that fast here?? Well at least i get to attend my first korean wedding this month haha

[nekokonneko.livejournal.com]

that is literally what i was about to post. like wtf

[swhyeon1991.livejournal.com]

Wasn't his wife proposed literally the first time they met though? It's worse lol.

[love-allure.livejournal.com]

get to a certain age and some people start wanting to move on quickly to get started on a family. the very definition of "settling" in my imo. :| but i get it at the same time.

[aeries-amethyst.livejournal.com]

My parents got engaged and then married within a year of dating and this year makes their 29th year of marriage. So I mean hey, if you think you're ready to get married that soon then go for it *shrugs*. Me on the other hand, I'd need at least a good 2 or 3 years before I think of marriage lol XD

[frequency.livejournal.com]

We dated from July to October and had a relationship deep enough to consider marriage.

usually i shrug things like this off (parents knew each other for 5 months) but ummm

He said that we would have a good future if we didn't get caught by the journalists.

y i k e s

[hearttaek.livejournal.com]

Gaaaaawd this whole thing


Has anyone seen the latest episode though? Talk about topnotch editing skills!

[kiki3291.livejournal.com]

When asked if she didn't know he was married, "Unless you watch his shows, I don't think you'd know.

even if you watch the show it'd be hard to know. I knew of Alberto because he mentioned his wife a lot but I had no idea Enes was married until someone on the show asked him about his marriage life. And thereafter it was mentioned in passing. It was always weird to me that he never mentioned it when the topic of marriage came up and I guess maybe this was because he was always cheating and didn't want these women to know.

[hearttaek.livejournal.com]

I've always thought he was just a really private person. But then he talked about her in other interviews. It wasn't consistent
Looking back, the happy together guest appearance really raised a lot of red flags

[skidadler.livejournal.com]

Call me crazy... but there are search engines in Korea, right? I mean... unless she was living under a rock. I Google almost everyone I've come in contact with one way or another.

[luvikakulubnika.livejournal.com]

I just feel bad for his wife, child and those women:/
But hey , at least there is one good thing coming out of this, finally there won't be no more enes ( with his backwards views and his ,my opinion is the right one'-attitude... oh and the ass kissing... it always bothered me how he was one of the most popular members... ) to endure on the show anymore.

[love-allure.livejournal.com]

i read the wife's post and while i feel for her, i find it funny that her husband (and her to an extension) keeps saying it's all a misunderstanding or made the girls misunderstand his conduct. nah dude i think everyone knows exactly what you did. what that sbs show did was fucking nasty though.

[leighbee333.livejournal.com]

Exactly.

I feel sorry for her, but she's participating in his lies so that everything can go back to "normal" and she can regain some semblance of her picture-perfect family. She def won't leave him (at least not immediately; sometimes it takes a few months or even a year for the anger/betrayal/lack of trust a cheated spouse feels to really catch up to them, even if they initially say they're going to stay and "try to make it work"), and while I understand why, since being a singe mother is such a scary prospect, she doesn't have to go out of her way to support her husband's spin that the women are lying and/or shit-stirring sluts - we know that at least a couple of them are telling the truth.

[merylsteep.livejournal.com]

It's sad that she feels like she has no choice but to endure a marriage with a seemingly remorseless cheating husband.

[kaninasan.livejournal.com]

I came into this post to rage over netizens blaming the woman Enes cheated with, instead of Enes himself..... only to find Omona doing the same thing....

What the fuck?

[ultraflyy23.livejournal.com]

only one comment did that though? most comments are mulling over the fact that she thought of marriage after only 3 months...

[kaninasan.livejournal.com]

that's the comments i'm talking about.

[ultraflyy23.livejournal.com]

...but they're not blaming her? regardless of whether or not she knew, thinking of marriage after 3 months is a tad ludicrous, no?

[kaninasan.livejournal.com]

i'm not gonna pass any judgment on her feelings. it might be ridiculous to you, but not someone else. it can also be a question of cultural differences.

but focusing on that detail instead of how much of an asshole Enes is is completely ridiculous and reeks of misogyny.

[ultraflyy23.livejournal.com]

i mean...alright

[aroseformary.livejournal.com]

yep mte

i don't care it its 3 months from now or three years that shit is still considered emotional manipulation and it's abusive as fuck and he is to blame 'but she wanted to get married after 3 months.' is that even direct quote? she's comparing how deeply she felt for him to marriage. and even then, so the fuck what? when you become trapped in a relationship like that it's really fucking hard to not believe that shit won't turn out the way you want it to because trust, what someone so emotionally manipulative feeds you has a whole heck of a lot to do with it.

edit: also, really sorry if it sounds like i'm directing this towards u, oc. i'm not. but damn, some of these comments, tho.

[dharawal.livejournal.com]

Not gonna judge her on considering marriage after such a short time because that would make me a very big hypocrite, I hadn't even 'met' (face to face) my boyfriend and I moved 3000 kms and three states to move in with him, first time I saw him face to face was when I got off the bus and he was there to pick me up.

We got engaged 5 weeks later and got married 7 months after that, so no judgement here, he is obviously a very smooth and convincing man, serial cheaters usually are.

[aroseformary.livejournal.com]

if knetz has taught me anything it's to never read the comments because they always tend to reek of misogyny. first they shit on the first woman because she 'thought about marriage' after dating someone who mind you, is an abusive asshole but let's completely forget that and not even mention it. then they feel bad for his wife, but only until the point where she actively chooses to get back with her husband and at this point 'she deserves it'. still doesn't change him being an abusive asshole.

wtf.