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Secret’s Jun Hyo Seong surprised everyone by sharing a personal story about her love life.

During recent recording of MBC’s Quiz to Change the World, Jun Hyo Seong confessed, “After I went through a break-up, I didn’t eat or go out for three days.”

Then she shared her tips to get over a break up saying, “The best revenge is to become more beautiful and become successful,” catching everyone’s attention.

Secret’s Hana also revealed that she has once secretly investigated her boyfriend, shocking everyone, and the other Secret members revealed who they think were the worst types of guys.

The show is set to air on September 13.
source: mwave

Date: 2014-09-12 01:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sakura-holic.livejournal.com
Girl, don't that to yourself for one man.

Men are abundant you'll find lot's of them, your life isn't.

Hana tho I can't imagine her doing that lol

Date: 2014-09-12 03:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
Men are abundant you'll find lot's of them

i don't :( they're either not interested in me and/or taken. and all the guys that i've dated so far were super nice at first but then turned into assholes.

meh. at least i still have my cat

Date: 2014-09-12 03:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sakura-holic.livejournal.com
"super nice at first but then turned into assholes."

Of course they are, that's why they come in large numbers.

Stick to your cat tbh
(Don't worry you'll find a non-assholy man sooner or later hopefully)

Date: 2014-09-12 03:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
(Don't worry you'll find a non-assholy man sooner or later hopefully)

tbh my (future) career >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> men

Date: 2014-09-12 04:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sakura-holic.livejournal.com
That's how it should always be for all of us tbh
Edited Date: 2014-09-12 04:33 pm (UTC)

Date: 2014-09-12 05:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
idontneedaman.mp3

Date: 2014-09-12 03:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gray-fairy.livejournal.com
That sounds exactly like me tbh. The ones I'm interested in are all taken since forever and the ones I've dated turned out to be not my type at all (personality wise).

Date: 2014-09-12 01:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phililen3.livejournal.com
I'm cold blooded. When my boyfriend and I broke up for 24 hours, no tears or depression came. I even tried forcing it but nothing. Ended up giving up and falling asleep. And yes, I do love him. Well I think it's love. But I'm cold blooded sooo...

Date: 2014-09-12 01:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sugarcages.livejournal.com
Bbgirl food>>>>>>>>>stupid men.

Date: 2014-09-12 01:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anonymous-loljk.livejournal.com
That's hyosung in the picture? Wow, if I didn't read the nametag I wouldn't recognize her at all.

Date: 2014-09-12 01:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tempestdance.livejournal.com
derp when my boyfriend dumped me because he didn't want to do long distance (well more like he coaxed me to dump him what an ass) i blocked him on fb and cut off all contact with him until he decided he wanted me back or still loved me and all that jazz

and i sat in my room cackling as the years went by because he got uglier and uglier

Date: 2014-09-12 01:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seroquels.livejournal.com
Why did this get an article? This isn't abnormal or weird. I think most ppl have had those really rough break-ups. The first I lose is my appetite, and if I don't have to work, my bed is my best friend for a few days.

And her advice is pretty much well known/common.

Date: 2014-09-12 01:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 4minutesluts.livejournal.com
sorry that an article from the korean entertainment industry doesn't contain pulitzer-worthy journalism

Date: 2014-09-12 01:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seroquels.livejournal.com
I didn't say it needed to? LOL calm down.

Date: 2014-09-12 04:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] toshi830.livejournal.com
welcome to another episode of TMZtheydidn't

Date: 2014-09-12 02:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seroquels.livejournal.com
Oh no OP, it was no shade to you :) I opened the article in a new tab expecting something more and then read it like "Oh, okay, that's normal." IDK, I guess I psyched myself out/up oop

Date: 2014-09-12 01:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] torontok.livejournal.com
Ah, there's nothign wrong with that.I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and even though it was a mutual, friendly thing I still was slightly depressed like "damn, who am I supposed to make out with now?"

Date: 2014-09-12 06:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] merely-a-facade.livejournal.com
are you me? :o

Date: 2014-09-12 01:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wafflesnmilk.livejournal.com
I vaguely remember an article that came out during her solo about how she "never" dated before lol (not that i bought that but that discrepancy or maybe she dated in between who knows)

Date: 2014-09-12 02:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] e-bone (from livejournal.com)
Nothing gets in the way of me and my food ya heard?

Date: 2014-09-12 04:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blueglassbeads.livejournal.com
mte, i'm more likely to splurge and eat a bunch of take out i remember once i spent like $80 in take out in a week after a break up lmao

Date: 2014-09-13 01:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightframes.livejournal.com
For some reason I like to buy new electronics. Last time I bought a new iPod, lol

Date: 2014-09-12 02:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] oppameansit.livejournal.com
i hear ya girl, it's rough

the last time i had a really bad breakup, i had to go out (i was working), but i had to force myself to eat for a month, and the first week i basically didn't eat anything

Date: 2014-09-12 02:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gray-fairy.livejournal.com
I'm honestly not starving myself for anyone, it's not worth it. Whenever I've had a broke up with a partner or even with a friend, I've been pretty sad for a few days and then move on. When someone doesn't love you anymore for whatever reasons there's nothing you can do and you can't force a person to love you anyway. There are plenty of other people you can meet and be happy with so why suffering for someone who doesn't love you?

Date: 2014-09-12 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gathyou.livejournal.com
I guess people react differently. I had the same reaction as Hyosung. I couldn't bother getting out of bed and cooking for myself because I was too depressed to do anything else than stay in bed and cry. I never starved myself for my ex boyfriend or to bring him back or whatever, but this "too sad to feed myself" phase lasted for a while. I think that what she meant, I don't know, it doesn't seem abnormal to me.
Of course you have the best reaction :)

Date: 2014-09-12 08:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gray-fairy.livejournal.com
Then I guess I'm kinda cold-blooded in that sense or something.

Date: 2014-09-12 08:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gathyou.livejournal.com
Everyone expresses sadness in different ways. I would say you're wiser since you focus on moving on and not suffering for someone who doesn't care!

Date: 2014-09-13 01:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightframes.livejournal.com
I don't think she was purposely starving herself. It sounds like she just wasn't hungry, which can happen if you're sad or stressed.

Date: 2014-09-12 03:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
i hate break-ups. i alway get depressed and dont do anything for MONTHS. last time i went through a break-up i went to my doctor to get professional help because i only stayed at home, didn't eat anything, couldn't sleep and only cried for like half a year.
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Date: 2014-09-13 01:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightframes.livejournal.com
Yeah, that's how I read it, too. Negative emotions can affect your appetite, even if you want to eat. When I get really stressed out I don't get as hungry as I normally do.

Date: 2014-09-14 06:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gigabytexx.livejournal.com
This. Exactly. Girls aren't children who refused to eat to get their mom's attention, when someone stressed out & they dont eat, it doesn't mean they're starving themselves :/ They don't even feel hungry!

Date: 2014-09-12 03:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kitty9163.livejournal.com
i went through a breakup after a 4 year relationship just last year and it was hell...i'm still kinda depressed and i find myself getting emotional listening to sad songs months and months later...

Date: 2014-09-12 04:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] toshi830.livejournal.com
for some reason the whole thing just reminds me of this

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Date: 2014-09-12 05:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] goshipgurl.livejournal.com
where is this from? you who came from the stars?
damn, maybe i should really watch this drama.

Date: 2014-09-12 06:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] toshi830.livejournal.com
yeah it is

it's on my list after I finish watching fated to love you which is going slowly since I'm watching with a friend

Date: 2014-09-12 07:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] miwa201.livejournal.com
his lectures were so random lol

Date: 2014-09-13 05:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] leighbee333.livejournal.com
Hmm, far be it from me to question Do Min Joon-nim's wisdom, but I'm not sure this is true. TBH I was dubious about a lot of his lectures, lol.
Edited Date: 2014-09-13 05:42 am (UTC)

Date: 2014-09-14 06:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gigabytexx.livejournal.com
I'm a man then :/ lol

Date: 2014-09-12 04:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gathyou.livejournal.com
Nothing wrong... I did exactly the same last time, I took the first train back to my parents (crying all the way lol what a show in the tube) and locked myself in my room. My father was so cute and bought so many things to eat (among which strawberries and chocolate aw) but I only ate them after two days and wasn't eating much for a whole month, roughly. Break-up sucks.
I want to give her a hug <3

Date: 2014-09-13 01:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightframes.livejournal.com
omg I haaaaate crying in public. Everyone always gets so confused, like they've never seen a crying person before!

Date: 2014-09-13 10:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gathyou.livejournal.com
Me too but sometimes I just can't help, I cry so easily lol
My ex-boyfriend was escorting me to the train station (heavy suitcase and ugly crying doesn't go on well together) and everything was so awkward lol. People looked at me with a sad face like "aw, poor thing" I just wanted to disappear even more lol

Date: 2014-09-16 04:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightframes.livejournal.com
I cry really easily, too. A couple of years ago I was out at dinner with my family at Olive Garden and I was so stressed out about school that I started crying, so I went to the bathroom to calm down. Everyone in there probably thought I'd just had a fight with my boyfriend. They were probably thinking "look at this girl getting dumped at Olive Garden," lol

Date: 2014-09-16 11:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gathyou.livejournal.com
Yeah, probably. I find crying helpful in really stressful situations. Sometimes things are so big and impossible to deal with, crying is a way to express it, "let it go", and then start acting. I hope school is not so stressful to you anymore !
I even cry when I'm really happy, which confuses people so much, I understand, I cry for everything ! I did a small "teaching" to my last boyfriend about different reactions I may have and how he should himself react lol what a mess

Date: 2014-09-16 11:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightframes.livejournal.com
Yeah it was right before graduation so I was freaking out, lol. I'm graduated and working now.

I usually feel better after crying, too. Holding in my emotions just makes me feel worse.

Date: 2014-09-12 04:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] krobwell.livejournal.com
o m g it took me way to long to figure out who that was in the picture before reading the title

Date: 2014-09-12 06:57 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] sub-divided.livejournal.com
I eat more when I'm depressed, actually >__> but the rest fits.

Though I've never had a sudden bad breakup, my last serious relationships were either on/off for a few months before the final moment (which was still somehow the worst moment), or amicable with one of us moving away. That loss of someone else's physical presence is still brutal though.
Edited Date: 2014-09-12 06:57 pm (UTC)

Date: 2014-09-12 08:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chibi-rei.livejournal.com
I spent most all of the next day crying, drinking whiskey & cokes (and idk maybe eating chips or something), and playing Lego Batman 2.

The best revenge is to become more beautiful and become successful
Haha that's how I feel. I mean, I wanted to lose weight anyway, but revenge is one of the reasons. >:D
Edited Date: 2014-09-12 08:54 pm (UTC)

Date: 2014-09-15 12:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shineebambi.livejournal.com
My last major break up was me basically eating every piece of chocolate in the house and watching bad day dramas. Although now I try and go by the school of " dick is cheap and abundant" that and I shy away from serious relationships now

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