Alien Oppa and Suzy for Bean Pole

[benihime99.livejournal.com]

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[woohyun.livejournal.com]

it would've been perfect if it was Jun Jihyun instead of Suzy ;n;

i just wanna see CSY and DMJ Together lmao

Suzy looks gorg tho

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

That's one pretty CF. I would totally watch another drama with this perfect otp too. One of the reasons that kept bothering me in YWCFTS was that KSH's baby face and his little frame in comparison to the gorgeous tall diva JJH sometimes threw me off. I think he makes a better match with Suzy *runs to the hills*. Also, sometimes I get tired of Suzy's long hair, but it's cfs like this that shows how gorgeous and shiny her hair is, it's certainly one of her best features.

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

I've checked out their heights and KSH is taller than JJH tho ._.

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

I know, he is around 180cm.Maybe his little face and slim body makes him look smaller compared to her, imo. Or maybe I'm too used to JJH acting with older macho macho kind of guys. She looks perfect with Ha Jung Woo or Lee Jung Jae to me.

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

I've checked out those guys and they're indeed more "macho" (they're way older than KSH so maybe that could be a reason). They're not bad but I still prefer KSH tbh. I usually prefer the pretty boy type (without being excessively feminine) except a few exceptions.

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

I agree, even though I myself can't really choose. I have no qualms about men like Han Jung Soo or the Song Joon Ki type. (▰˘◡˘▰)

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

lol my friends always tease me saying I like they typical model-ish girly guys when they're not really girly. I mean, for example KSH is not girly, just a pretty guy. I've always prefered those guys with soft-features and boyish look but I guess that's considered kinda girly/feminine by western standards because in western countries people prefer the rugged "macho" type and I don't usually like that tbh. I mean, if not pretty and boyish, handsome is fine too but super macho? nope. not my type at all and unfortunately, that's the most usual type here :/

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

haha, I kid, but I'm the same. If you see my most handsome korean men's list, you can see most of them are pretty boys. I'm not into androginous types (but I respect my friends who love it), 'cause I really like the boyish looks, just like you. Men like Kim Soo Hyun, Song Joon Ki, the eternally too young to be true Kai, JB, Mark, Yoo Seung-Ho, or the brazilian model Francisco Lachowski, are just my cup of tea, haha. I'm also into natural bodies, instead of the sculpted strong likes of Song Seung Hun. The macho type only works on my movie screen for me, so I probably would never hit on any of them, lol.

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

lol too young to be true indeed. At least you're way closer to his age but I'm freaking 9 years older ._. I'd still do him tho. Omg, I googled that brazilian guy and he's fucking gorgeous, holy shit o_o. I'm realizing that I'm usually into guys way younger than me because they're usually the ones with that boyish pretty look. I mean, the only idol older than me I'd fuck it's that Shinhwa guy (Lee Minwoo) because he's like the hottest 34 y/o I've seen lol. Maybe Rain too idk. But yeah, I usually prefer the boyish youthful type. Same about the bodies. I love well toned athletic bodies but not excessively muscular so most of idols are fine because they're toned but not the super macho type either.
In my current class there's lots of pretty guys (and girls too btw) but they're like 18-19 and it's just...nope XD. I know they're legal but them being teens throws me off and their behavior is so...cute and childish too idk lol. I miss having that age so bad tbh. This could sound weird but I prefer being surrounded by these young people than by people my age who are usually in the "getting married and having their first kid" stage

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

Older people talk is indeed boring. I'm barely 23 and my married colleagues and parents are already asking me when I'm going to get married and i'm like 'LOL, no, wait more 10 years for me to be mentally prepared to have kids and stuff'. Lee Minwoo is the hottest 34y/o in pants right now, I'd totally do him. It's funny how the older we are the more we miss those times, but the contrary also happens. The younger we are the more we want to grow up faster so we can be independent and earn our money. I remember my 16 y/o self saying to my brother that I couldn't wait to be 18 so I could go anywhere, have my own money, so my mom would stop nagging at me. Sadly, nothing changed much, hahaha. You talk like you're too old to date a 20ish guy, but you're SO YOUNG. You're at the best part of adulthood, so you should date the boy with the prettiest face you find. Maybe I say it easily 'cause my three best friends date guys who are at least 6 years younger than them, really. I'm actually the only younger one who dates a guy a little older. So It's pretty common the older girl/younger guy relationship here, haha.

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

lol they're asking you when are you going to get married at freaking 23? o_O I mean, very few people get married at that age nowadays unless they're are very traditional or something (for example I have a 19 y/o cousin who says that she's going to marry her same aged bf when they both finish their degree at 22ish but they're both very catholic and stuff). Idk, getting married is typical for people in their late 20s like me but not for people your age (at least here in my country idk). Like...people in their early 20s are mostly focused in their studies/careers and having fun, travelling around, etc lol.

The younger we are the more we want to grow up faster so we can be independent and earn our money
Yeah, that's true but tbh once you're over 25 being an ~adult~ is not that cool anymore. If I could, I'd stay in like 22-24 forever because at that age most of people have at least a degree so you can work and earn your own money but at the same time you're still young enough to be a bit immature and do funny/crazy shit without so many responsabilities and people don't side-eye you. It's not like I feel super old but when you're so damn close to 30, society expect that you have a total adult life (stablished career, marriage, kids, etc...) and I find that boring and unappealing at this moment tbh. It doesn't help that most of people my age are at that stage of life and I feel like I'm stuck in my teenage/early 20s years. For example most of my old high school classmates are married and/or with kids and when you meet them it's a really awkward situation. They'd call me immature and side-eye me so hard lol.

I don't mind dating a guy 5-6 years younger than me tbh but I can't help finding anyone under 22/23 too damn young. Maybe you see like it like that because you're still in your early 20s but I'm gonna turn 29 and it's like...idk, but it feels really weird lol. Like they're on another stage of life. Even tho I was just watching a BTS video now and thinking they were all impossibly hot lol. Too bad they're such a bunch of fetuses (one of them is even a minor orz)
Plus, it's curious but most of the very young people here already have established relationships and it's odd because at their age I only wanted to fool around and have fun, but for example in my class most of these 18-19 y/o kids are already in established and solid relationships ._.

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

Brazil is a really catholic country, specially where I live, in the northeast. So people marry here when they reach 25~27. In my case, since I've been dating the same guy for 7 years, everybody but me is counting the days that I will get married. Like I have a deadline. lol Some people even say that if we reach the 10 years mark, we have to get married or we gonna break up. And I'm like why the hell are you more concerned than me? And since I'm a woman ~obviously~ I have a ticking clock that no men will ever want me if I dated another guy for so long and I'm like loool f*ck it, I don't care, haha. So, I kind of understand your concerns because of my currently situation. The young people that already have stablished relationships like you described was exact my case. Parents, aunts and uncles are already worried if my boy is only playing with me. Like you said, I'm working my butt off right now so I can travel the world and get to know new things, but, here, in Brazil, most of the people only do this when they're already married so they all go on a family trip, since people from my country has no tradition in travelling, it's almost a dream come true when they do so. I myself never went to another country, so I intend to begin next year, going to Portugal, Spain, Netherlands and so on. What I like about my friends and some people of our generation is that we are way more different than our parents when it comes to raise a family. We really don't care about the age thing that much and we are starting to enjoy life without the obligation to do everything right in our personal lives. And maybe that's why I do think you are reaaally young, but I also understand your worries. One of my best friends is 30 y/o and when we go partying she hooks up with guys younger than me. lol And sometimes they are more liberal and level headed than older guys with their closed minds, macho bullshit and beards. We think alike in a lot of things in a certain way, so I totally understand why we go fawning over boys like the BTS members. ლ(́◉◞౪◟◉‵ლ) Sorry not sorry, haha.

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

Well, 25-27 is more typical (more 27 than 25) but 23 is too young to get married, at least in this 21th century. And wow, people still say that "no man is going to like you after being with another guy" bullshit?! That's so 50s omg. Here many guys are dating women who have been in long-term relationships before or even single moms so I don't hear that kind of comments so often unless they come from elderly people or something.
Yeah, people here are also starting to don't bother that much about the age and many people don't really settle down and start a family until their mid/late 30s and even 40s but the majority still settle down around late 20s so the society still side-eye people like me or your friend who still party at late 20s/early 30s. I have another cousin (male) who's 35 and everyone in my family treats him like he's mentally sick because he still party, travels a lot and doesn't have any interest on marriage and kids. Like I said, the mentality is changing and many people dgaf about those things anymore but the majority still side-eye people who aren't married, with kids and living an ~adult~ life at +30.
Lol the older guys with the macho looks (beards ew) and attitude are the worse tbh. Younger guys are much cuter and charming but like I said, guys around bts's age are excessively young for me. I think more than than the age gap, it's the age of the younger person in the relationship. Like for example 25/35 is okay but 18/28 feels kinda creepy because one of them is still a teen, idk if I'm making sense. Like..they still feel so naive and juvenile idk lol.

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

You make total sense. People under 20 are cute fetuses for me too haha. I'm a teacher and even though you say that I'm really young I always think that "this 18 y/o kid could be my student", so it's a total nay for me, hahah. I can't even read shoujo mangas with the student/teacher relationship 'cause I feel creeped out. haha. I'm happy that in your country most people don't care about stupid issues like women having long term relationships or single moms having a new start. Here we still have people, specially men, who cares if the girl is a virgin or how many men she dated to be considered wife material. Disgusting, I know. That's why I don't even pay attention to those kind of sexist behaviour and try to change some mentalities here and there.

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

Yeah, one of my neighbors is a 38 y/o woman with a 6 y/o daughter and she's dating a guy who's like 5-6 years younger than her and the funny thing is that she goes on double dates with her current bf, her ex and his current gf. It's really weird but they get along really well so w/e.

Btw, I've been talking today with two girls my age who are studying in my college (changing careers like me) and I definitely prefer talking to younger people tbh. They were so damn cynical and bitter about everything omg ._. That's why I usually hang out with people at least a couple years younger than me except for a few old HS friends. My personality fits more with them than with people my age or older. I can't stand people who are excessively cynical tbh.

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

That's one cool story, haha! If people had a more open mind about relationships, the world would be a better place, certainly. Aaaah, you do well! Don't let your colleagues get to you, people are getting bitter and bitter lately. What really matters is if you feel confortable talking to people who understand you no matter what age. If I get to know someone like you in RL I'm sure we would be friends and we would talk about hot guys in kpop, haha. Do well, chingu! ╮(─▽─)╭

[lysblack.livejournal.com]

lol but weirdly enough, right now suzy is around jihyun's height if not a bit taller.

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

Ikr, if she keeps like this, someday she will go barefoot to match her members height line. Still, she and KSH are too precious, I can't.

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

She's still growing? :O

[aridnili.livejournal.com]

She is still 19, so something still can happen. xD If JJH is listed as 172 cm and Suzy is the same height as her or even taller (from what I could see on her YWCFTS cameo they are even, even though Suzy is listed as 168cm tall) maybe she is still growing. She must have grown at least 6cm since her debut.

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

Yeah but you know, people say that most of girls stop growing at 16ish but that's definitely not true because I grew until 18ish and I have friends that grew even until 20ish so I think it depends on each person's genetics but I think in general the physical development is not fully completed until 20-21ish indeed.

[juhli.livejournal.com]

I'm hoping they will film an mv or do another drama/mini-series together someday ♡

[gray-fairy.livejournal.com]

They're such a gorgeous couple.

[lysblack.livejournal.com]

i saw this earlier and was slayed, i love them so much it hurts, and while i am so happy they gave me a mv they still owe me a mini drama.

they both look so gorgeous and love suzy's song.

lol the bts, no wonder they are such good friends, they are both weirdos.

ps: suzy, if you are no longer fucking sung joon, i wouldn't mind if you went back to crushing on soo hyun and this time have him to like you back since you are legal.

[unbroken-glass.livejournal.com]

i love this ship so much guhhhhh they look uber qt together!

[daisyazul.livejournal.com]

flawless

[antrea.livejournal.com]

I can't breathe, that was one gorgeous CF

also flappy Soo Hyun in the making video!

[uledy.livejournal.com]

No, they're so perfect. WHY???!???!!