This made me very sad
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omonatheydidTHE joy of being reunited for the first time in decades turned to grief for North and South Korean families as a rare cross-border visit ended, with participants unlikely to see their relatives again.
In perhaps the most traumatic moment of the emotionally-charged event, 80 elderly South Koreans and their 174 Northern relatives were separated on Saturday, many at first refusing to let go of their loved ones’ hands.
The families, the first of two batches who are being allowed to meet with each other 60 years after they were torn apart by the chaos of the 1950-1953 Korean War, were given an hour to say goodbye in a hotel dining room at a North Korean mountain resort.
At the start of Saturday’s meeting, many were already in tears, while others forced smiles to hide pent-up emotions.
Some took pictures, exchanged old photos and jotted down addresses of their relatives — even though direct exchanges of letters or telephone calls are prohibited across the border.
As the time for parting ways drew near, the atmosphere became more heated, punctuated by bursts of crying.
After boarding their coaches, the departing South Koreans waved through closed windows at the loved ones they were leaving behind in the North, displaying written messages and forming their hands into the shapes of hearts.
“I’ve been trying hard not to cry. Thank you for allowing me to see you alive and well. Stay healthy,” South Korean Lee Myeong-Ho, 82, told his 77-year-old brother Lee Chol-Ho from the North, clutching his hands tightly.
Park Yang-Gon, 53, knelt down on the hotel floor and bowed before his elder brother Yang-Soo, a South Korean fisherman kidnapped and taken to the North while fishing off the north-western coast in 1972.
“We’ll be able to meet again if you remain healthy,” Yang-Gon said.
“We will meet again when reunification comes. Have faith in it,” his brother Yang-Soo replied.
The families had spent a total of 11 hours on six occasions together since Thursday, including mass meetings over meals and a private reunion without media TV cameras.
Two other South Koreans had to cut their reunions short due to health issues, returning home on Friday via ambulances.
Tens of millions of people were displaced by the sweep of the Korean War, which saw the frontline yo-yo from the south of the peninsula to the northern border with China and back again.
The chaos and devastation separated brothers and sisters, parents and children, husbands and wives.
Because the conflict concluded with an armistice rather than a peace treaty, the two Koreas technically remain at war.
This week’s reunions, the first of their kind in three years, are widely being seen as a possible first step towards thawing cross-border ties.
Held at Mount Kumgang resort in North Korea near the heavily fortified inter-Korean border, they were only secured after intense negotiations.
But for many people, time simply ran out. Last year alone, 3800 elderly South Koreans who had applied for reunions passed away.
sauce: http://www.news.com.au/world/relatives-say-a-painful-goodbye-after-rare-meeting-between-families-split-by-korean-war/story-fndir2ev-1226834973431
In perhaps the most traumatic moment of the emotionally-charged event, 80 elderly South Koreans and their 174 Northern relatives were separated on Saturday, many at first refusing to let go of their loved ones’ hands.
The families, the first of two batches who are being allowed to meet with each other 60 years after they were torn apart by the chaos of the 1950-1953 Korean War, were given an hour to say goodbye in a hotel dining room at a North Korean mountain resort.
At the start of Saturday’s meeting, many were already in tears, while others forced smiles to hide pent-up emotions.
Some took pictures, exchanged old photos and jotted down addresses of their relatives — even though direct exchanges of letters or telephone calls are prohibited across the border.
As the time for parting ways drew near, the atmosphere became more heated, punctuated by bursts of crying.
After boarding their coaches, the departing South Koreans waved through closed windows at the loved ones they were leaving behind in the North, displaying written messages and forming their hands into the shapes of hearts.
“I’ve been trying hard not to cry. Thank you for allowing me to see you alive and well. Stay healthy,” South Korean Lee Myeong-Ho, 82, told his 77-year-old brother Lee Chol-Ho from the North, clutching his hands tightly.
Park Yang-Gon, 53, knelt down on the hotel floor and bowed before his elder brother Yang-Soo, a South Korean fisherman kidnapped and taken to the North while fishing off the north-western coast in 1972.
“We’ll be able to meet again if you remain healthy,” Yang-Gon said.
“We will meet again when reunification comes. Have faith in it,” his brother Yang-Soo replied.
The families had spent a total of 11 hours on six occasions together since Thursday, including mass meetings over meals and a private reunion without media TV cameras.
Two other South Koreans had to cut their reunions short due to health issues, returning home on Friday via ambulances.
Tens of millions of people were displaced by the sweep of the Korean War, which saw the frontline yo-yo from the south of the peninsula to the northern border with China and back again.
The chaos and devastation separated brothers and sisters, parents and children, husbands and wives.
Because the conflict concluded with an armistice rather than a peace treaty, the two Koreas technically remain at war.
This week’s reunions, the first of their kind in three years, are widely being seen as a possible first step towards thawing cross-border ties.
Held at Mount Kumgang resort in North Korea near the heavily fortified inter-Korean border, they were only secured after intense negotiations.
But for many people, time simply ran out. Last year alone, 3800 elderly South Koreans who had applied for reunions passed away.
sauce: http://www.news.com.au/world/relatives-say-a-painful-goodbye-after-rare-meeting-between-families-split-by-korean-war/story-fndir2ev-1226834973431
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Date: 2014-02-24 05:47 am (UTC)so sad. I've been watching a few north korean documentaries lately and it truly is heartbreaking
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Date: 2014-02-26 07:19 am (UTC)Inside North Korea is on yt, and it's really good. lisa ling and her crew went in with a doctor doing humanitarian work to get more in depth view of the country. it kind of stunning to see how the people have to act, its very sad. this is the first documentary i've seen that has straight up filmed people without being shown nk propaganda, bc they came in pretending to only film the doctor.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxLBywKrTf4
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Date: 2014-02-24 07:47 pm (UTC)That was difficult to read. I can't imagine being separated from my brother for that long and not knowing if I'll see him again.
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Date: 2014-02-25 10:44 am (UTC)T_____T
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