
Article: "They were born on the same day at the same time..." but one is two years old, one is zero years old?
Source: Money Today via Naver
Article is a summary of the confusing way age is counted in Korea and the way it divides who is higher or lower status when it comes to relationships.
The first concept is 'early year', where if you're born in an earlier month of the year, like February 1989, you'd be considered to be in the same age group as 1988ers and technically older than anyone born in the later months of the same year as you. This especially affects what year students are placed in and who becomes your senior/junior. Someone the same age as you could still be your senior or junior depending on 'early year'.
The second concept is counting the year you were in the womb and automatically being one when you're born. A child born on December 31st in Korea would become two years in old on January 1st because they were one when they were born and the new year counts as an entire year even though his birthday hasn't passed yet.
The system is being criticized lately because younger and younger people are using it as a way to establish power over their peers, even counting down to the differences in months. .
2. [+3,979, -195] The product of a Confucianism culture where people believe being older equals power
3. [+3,284, -114] I'm one of those 'early years' but once you actually work in society, none of that matters
4. [+2,769, -145] I really don't get why we have 'early years'
5. [+510, -32] I don't know why we can't just determine age by the year we were born in
6. [+365, -32] 'Early years' are in a tough spot because you don't know whether to speak formally or informally to your peers...
7. [+331, -10] This age concept makes it so hard to make friends... Foreigners just treat everyone on one level as equal friends but Koreans have to treat hyungs differently, friends differently, just too much to consider.
8. [+337, -15] The concept is so messed up. Someone born in December 2014 has to be the hyung to someone born in March 2015 when they're only 3 months apart but someone born in March 2015 and someone born in December 2015 are considered 'friends/same age' when they're 9 months apart.
9. [+216, -11] The 'early years' really messes me up... Since my juniors are technically the same age as me but they're still my juniors... it's just a messy situation.
10. [+198, -15] Yeah, I never know whether to call someone born in the same year as me but considered an 'early year' hyung or not...
Source: Netizenbuzz
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Date: 2014-01-12 12:32 am (UTC)im like, yo youre 3 months short tho! :X
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Date: 2014-01-12 12:36 am (UTC)Then Onew helped me understand the age thing. He's born December 89. Internationally, he's only 24, but his Korean age all throughout this year is 26 because he's turning 25 in December. :)
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Date: 2014-01-12 12:38 am (UTC)I was born in September, so I was always one of the oldest in my year at school. I would consider people born in the same year as me my friends because same year and the people born the year after friends because we were in classes together. But my parents always considered the people born in the same year as older than me because we were in separate years at school, even though in one case we were born less than 20 days apart from each other. She was still older than me because she was in the year above.
However, since I got into K-Pop, my brain's done this thing where even though we're friends, I consider myself older than everyone born after me. I would be everyone's noona. I joked that one of my 1990-er friends at uni should call me Noona even though we're only 7 months apart in age.
We're lucky that we don't have to use honorifics and formal speech, though. It's much easier for us to talk to others around about the same age.
On a separate issue, I find it particularly weird that someone born on Dec 31 and someone on Jan 1 would be different ages in Korea, and also February 28 and March 1 would be different ages. But that comes back to August 31 and September 1 being different ages, the way it is here. I was in school with an August 31 baby who found it hard and in the end she retook on of her secondary school years and became the eldest in the year below.
That leads me into another issue; if you're in a different year from the one you should be in, how do you refer to your peers and to those born in the same year as you? For example, EXO's Suho was in the year above at school, and I had a student in China in the year above.
In Suho's case, SHINee's Minho used to call him "Hyung" in his thanks-tos, even though they're both born in 1991. It seemed weird to me, even though Minho may just have been being affectionate, like how Ryeowook calls himself Hyung to Kyuhyun. It's just an interesting thing to think about.
Well I wrote an essay. Oops, sorry about that.
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Date: 2014-01-12 12:39 am (UTC)i mean i get it, but at the same time not really, and i still get confused by it.
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Date: 2014-01-12 05:54 am (UTC)Personally, I would have major issues with being called noona by a dude I think is hot and we're only 9 months apart...lol. Or being considered 2 years older than I actually am.
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Date: 2014-01-12 01:06 am (UTC)Just here to ask, "I wonder how suho gets away with being friends with 90ers and demand not being friends with 91ers."
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Date: 2014-01-12 01:48 am (UTC)i've heard he was a year earlier in school, so he was classmates with 90 line, but idk
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Date: 2014-01-12 01:08 am (UTC)Maybe a little ot: I always wonder if the viewer ratings (i.e 15+, 19+) are going by western or korean age... does anyone know???
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Date: 2014-01-12 01:11 am (UTC)(or maybe I'm too dumb to get it lol)
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Date: 2014-01-12 01:41 am (UTC)so onew is aging by 3 years in the span of a year...good, okay...korea..this is..NOPE. i'm out.
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Date: 2014-01-12 01:51 am (UTC)See: Taemin and Kai being besties.
That's why I refer to the idols born in pre-March 91 "School-year oppa" or "School-year eonni". xD
Counting the +1 year at birth and +1 year after New Year is still a little boggling to me, but... You can always just ask what year a person was born in and tada! You're set. All legal ages are also defined by your birth day and Western age. "It might be the year that Taemin was '20', but he only became a legal adult on his birthday."
What I personally find funny is when you have the "maknae" of a group that is a few months younger than his group mates. In NU'EST everyone except for Aron was born in the same 95 school year, but since Ren was born last in the July-to-November birthdays.. he's the maknae.
EDIT: They don't count Chinese New Year, only the regular calendar New Year. Other than being a holiday, the only thing I think they might use it for is factoring for Chinese Zodiac.
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Date: 2014-01-12 02:47 am (UTC)my korean friends once explained it to me that school year is what made the difference.
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Date: 2014-01-12 02:08 am (UTC)the first time this system (along with hagwons) was explained to me was by a korean exchange student in high school. she first introduced herself as 18...which made me question since she was a sophomore, but then she went on to explain that she was 16 western age and that 18 was her korean age due to explanations given in this post.
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Date: 2014-01-12 02:20 am (UTC)All I got from this mess is to ask what year folks are born cause Zelo could stroll up to you like I'm 19 and next thing you know you in jail.
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Date: 2014-01-12 02:57 am (UTC)I think
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Date: 2014-01-12 11:06 am (UTC)It's like how people answer, "How old are you?" with "I'll be 22 this year." AKA "I'm 21 but I'm already looking to the future." It's the age you will be once you get there.