
The tragic deaths this week of the father and grandparents of Lee Teuk, leader of K-pop boy band Super Junior, are raising calls for South Korea’s government to do more to lighten the burden for dementia patient’s families.
The superstar’s father and grandparents were found dead at their home in southern Seoul. According to media reports, police said a note at the scene suggests Mr. Lee’s 59-year-old father, who for several years had been sole caregiver for his parents—both suffering from dementia—committed suicide after killing them. The case is still under investigation.
The financial, physical and psychological stress of dealing with dementia is hitting more and more people in South Korea, where looking after these patients is widely regarded as a “family matter.”
Taking care of one’s parents is a Confucian value many South Koreans still strongly adhere to. Seeking outside help is deemed undutiful—not that such help is easily available. As the number of senile-dementia patients in this rapidly aging country climbs, the social-welfare system lags far behind.
The number of dementia patients age 65 or over who visited a doctor for treatment in 2011 hit 288,987—more than three times the number five years earlier, which works out to an average annual growth rate of 24%. And the number of dementia sufferers not getting professional help is believed to be much higher.
Government policy responses have included increasing health-insurance benefits to cover lighter dementia, operating a hotline, and training more professional caregivers. There are plans to build more public hospitals for dementia patients; there are currently only seven nationwide.
But a leader of the opposition Democratic Party called on the government to act more aggressively.
“Welfare policy is based on the notion that the government guarantees everyone a minimum level of life,” Kim Han-gill said Wednesday.
Source: WSJ
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Date: 2014-01-09 04:43 am (UTC)"It's okay to ask for help" is a mentality that a lot of people still struggle to accept and put into practice. Couple that with the stigma and ignorance which still surround mental health, we've still got a ways to go with improving the services for such families and individuals.
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Date: 2014-01-09 04:46 am (UTC)hopefully this sad and heartbreaking incident can be a light in opening up dialogue on the issue of elderly care outside of the home and taking mental health issues seriously.
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Date: 2014-01-09 05:11 am (UTC)i know it would be very hard for Koreans to change those deep rooted values, that family should take care of the elderly. but honestly in the case of dementia patients it's better for both the patient and their family to place the person in a home. i used to work in a home for dementia patients for years and while it's hard at first, eventually the patient has a safe environment where experts take care of them, and their family don't have to worry about their safety and can go about their lives normally.
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Date: 2014-01-09 05:30 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-01-09 05:54 am (UTC)I think that everyone who are caretakers should try to use respite to take some of the burden off their shoulders. Here is a link for people who are caretakers of Alzheimer's patients that are looking for some temporary rest from caregiving http://www.alz.org/care/alzheimers-dementia-caregiver-respite.asp . it might help take some stress off for a short amount of time and help remind caretakers that they need a break ever once in a while.
i hope one day we will soon find a cure for this awful disease or at least prevent it from happening.
this is semi-related, i listened to a podcast that talks about a technique a senior center uses to deal with Alzheimer's and Dementia patients who like to wander around in the center. it is really interesting technique imo. http://www.radiolab.org/story/91948-the-bus-stop/ enjoy.
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Date: 2014-01-09 09:16 am (UTC)I hope the media in time can open the eyes of the government.
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Date: 2014-01-09 11:51 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-01-09 12:00 pm (UTC)i never realized the extent of this until i saw for myself how difficult it was for my aunt to take care of my grandmother who was bed ridden at the time. being a carer is incredibly draining and it does take a huge toll on your life. she was hesitant to get help from a nurse who could come in and help with certain jobs but was more open to it as time went on, but my grandfather was not up for it
when i came to the UK and saw that 'carer' actually meant something and that carers were given help by the government, i didnt get it at all but after volunteering for a young carers programme, i've understood why we need to give help to carers and why asian families should be open about the help
its difficult because they still feel like theyre relinquishing a big part of what is their own responsibility, its a very difficult concept to grasp for a lot of people. i can understand where they're coming from yet at the same time, i really do hope more people will realize that its okay to ask for help because you yourself need to be healthy (body and mind) to be able to take care of your family and enjoy these moments with them.
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Date: 2014-01-09 04:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-01-09 10:15 pm (UTC)Before my grandfather was put into care he fell out with my uncle over something petty. My uncle had been looking after him for years. My dad and other uncle still think my grandfather would do better at home with his family and 24/7 care, and are willing to do it, but my two aunts (a doctor and a nurse) insist it's gotta be a facility with resources for dementia patients. It's created a lot of tension in the family, and money isn't even a factor the way it was for Leetuk's dad.
In conclusion, even when resources are available dementia is still an awful disease.
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Date: 2014-01-10 04:10 am (UTC)When people hit closer to elderly life, they are at high risk of depression too. I can't imagine what has gone through Leeteuk's father's head when he had to take care of not just one, but two people with dementia. Being around people with dementia really takes a toll on one's heart because patients will never return to their old self and it's saddening to see what they do.