BENIHIME99: I'm so sorry! I think I offended you the most. I get what you means now. And I'm kinda upset that it took a lot of people to share their experience for me to finally do.
I think what I said definitely scars the heart of those who had been in similar situation before. I couldn't see it before. But at least I do now...
I'm sorry if I offended you (esp if you had the experience of being back-stabbed before). I need a filter in my brain from now on, to think about people's feelings before I retaliates. Here * offering cookies*.
People make a lot of mistake and obviously taking those pictures was stupid and naive but she was young, she delt with it once, reported it to the police, she was probably mortified; the fact that her ex-boyfriend try to sold those pic and then spread them online just so allkpop (his current boss) can use them is just plain wrong. The fact that she had to deal with it once more is wrong too and comment like the one you made are the worst. And sadly you're not the only one to say that. At the time I didn't tell you to go back to your cave because I thought you were trolling but because victim shaming is such a cavemen logic/mentality.
I am glad that you understand that it was wrong and that you changed your mind about it, but I was just really mad at the time cause victim blaming is such a slippery slope. But it's ok... I bought shoes I feel better ;)
Anyhow, love seeing Jae get international coverage. It still confounds me that SK does not rise up and push for JYJ or even solo activities to be put on tv. I NEED JAE ON MY MUSIC SHOWSSSSSSSSS! T_T
edit: LMAAAAAOOO Jae was so shocked! I love how the show tried to cover their asses and say it wasn't that hard a shock, but Jae didn't put his hand back on it so that's highly suspect. XDDD The host was like Oh Shi- those crays are gonna be after me!" Lolllll
I was very interested in the collab with Junhyung though. Glad they asked.
I am never playing one of those truth games with the electric shock thing. I don't even care how much people insist it won't be bad, I'm not taking any chances lol
Jaejoong is always that bit more shy when he's on his own aww, but still cute. He always seems to be very friendly towards the people he meets. But then he does seem to have a habit of collecting lots of friends everywhere he goes ;) It's interesting to hear that the collab with Junhyung came about rather casually, without a clear plan as such.
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Date: 2013-12-07 12:00 pm (UTC)I think what I said definitely scars the heart of those who had been in similar situation before. I couldn't see it before. But at least I do now...
I'm sorry if I offended you (esp if you had the experience of being back-stabbed before). I need a filter in my brain from now on, to think about people's feelings before I retaliates. Here * offering cookies*.
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Date: 2013-12-07 05:46 pm (UTC)People make a lot of mistake and obviously taking those pictures was stupid and naive but she was young, she delt with it once, reported it to the police, she was probably mortified; the fact that her ex-boyfriend try to sold those pic and then spread them online just so allkpop (his current boss) can use them is just plain wrong. The fact that she had to deal with it once more is wrong too and comment like the one you made are the worst. And sadly you're not the only one to say that.
At the time I didn't tell you to go back to your cave because I thought you were trolling but because victim shaming is such a cavemen logic/mentality.
I am glad that you understand that it was wrong and that you changed your mind about it, but I was just really mad at the time cause victim blaming is such a slippery slope. But it's ok... I bought shoes I feel better ;)
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Date: 2013-12-07 05:24 pm (UTC)Anyhow, love seeing Jae get international coverage. It still confounds me that SK does not rise up and push for JYJ or even solo activities to be put on tv. I NEED JAE ON MY MUSIC SHOWSSSSSSSSS! T_T
edit: LMAAAAAOOO Jae was so shocked! I love how the show tried to cover their asses and say it wasn't that hard a shock, but Jae didn't put his hand back on it so that's highly suspect. XDDD The host was like Oh Shi- those crays are gonna be after me!" Lolllll
I was very interested in the collab with Junhyung though. Glad they asked.
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Date: 2013-12-07 05:36 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2013-12-07 05:42 pm (UTC)it's a follow up on a previous discussion, it does look weird ><
sorry for the inconvenience
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Date: 2013-12-07 05:55 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-12-07 09:07 pm (UTC)Jaejoong is always that bit more shy when he's on his own aww, but still cute. He always seems to be very friendly towards the people he meets. But then he does seem to have a habit of collecting lots of friends everywhere he goes ;) It's interesting to hear that the collab with Junhyung came about rather casually, without a clear plan as such.
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Date: 2013-12-08 12:12 pm (UTC)this sfm
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Date: 2013-12-08 12:13 pm (UTC)