Moon Hee Jun Says ′No′ to Celebrities Revealing Dates to Public

[imienazwisko.livejournal.com]

Moon Hee Jun is strongly against celebrities revealing their date on broadcast.

When Kim Ye Rim guested on QTV’s Pretty Boy Communication on December 3, she shared her thoughts on revealing her dates on broadcast.

“I want to do something that any ordinary girl in her twenties does, such as date,” said Kim Ye Rim. When MCs asked her if she wants to keep her future boyfriend a secret or be open about it, she answered, “Yoon Jong Shin (her label ceo) gave me permission to reveal my future boyfriend.”

Then Moon Hee Jun stepped in to share his opinion on the topic.

“That could very well influence your career as a singer. I have a scandal that has been attached to my name for the past 18 years, even though that wasn′t my intention. It was mentioned again during Gag Concert last week. So I never advise my hoobaes to reveal their dates,” said Moon Hee Jun.

When asked about her ideal type, Kim Ye Rim answered, “It doesn’t matter whether he is a celebrity or not. I just want to date someone older, since younger means they’re not legally an adult. I can date someone up to ten years older than me.”


source: mwave

Comments

[gardevoiir.livejournal.com]

the industry really needs to work on this demonization about idols being in relationships
the fact that they are continually restricting them from doing something that is simply human and not letting them live at least somewhat normal lives is so absurd to me
why are they punishing people for being people? it's really asinine to think that ~*your oppa*~ or ~*your unnie*~ will be pure and chaste, etc for forever
they do not belong to the fans; they are their own person
and to hold them to that unrealistic standard of being perfect but single and "waiting for you" or some really warped shit like that is wrong on so many levels

edit: and if the idol wants their relationship out there, so be it
if they wanna keep it under wraps, that's fine too
just let them do what they want; if they're not harming anyone and breaking any laws, why is it such a big deal
jfc let them live

[porcupinegloves.livejournal.com]

ia with everything
if they want to keep their relationship private that's ok, but it seems like one of the main reasons that they have for keeping it private is how a ~dating scandal~ can haunt them for a long time, smh

[gardevoiir.livejournal.com]

which
really shouldn't be happening
how dare an idol find out that the person they were dating wasn't someone they wanted to stay with forever and ever and ever
and date different people over the course of their life to find out who they're compatible with
how scandalous!
how distasteful!

[asnindie.livejournal.com]

Idol groups are aimed at teens and well they act ridiculous.

[gardevoiir.livejournal.com]

they're also disillusioned
they need to learn how to draw the line in their heads about their reality and their fantasies
I can understand that yeah, they're gonna imagine themselves with so and so {everyone does it}, but there comes a point where their imaginary hopes attempt to assimilate into reality and say these nasty things and become harmful
I really can't excuse their behaviour just because they're teenagers
I was a teenager literally two years ago and I was still able to draw the line between fantasy and reality
it's not impossible

[iheartdarkblue.livejournal.com]

I wouldn't say they're disillusioned. Quite the opposite. Unless you actually meant to say illusioned/delusional, in which case I'm being pedantic.

[gardevoiir.livejournal.com]

op, yeah I meant delusional
thanks for that haha
leaves post as is anyway

[racquelle2005.livejournal.com]

Am I the only one that things idols are a bit too concerned about dating? Like if your group is struggling to make it out of nugu status you need to be busting your ass till you're at a comfortable level of fame and then you can focus on dating. Believe me you are gonna need that money in a few years.

[theharleyquinn.livejournal.com]

But who says you can't enjoy having a personal life while also working hard? The problem with the industry is that they make these two things mutually exclusive, when interpersonal relationships are a big part of growing up. If I was an idol, I'd especially want to spend time with someone that wasn't my group member sometimes, otherwise I'd go crazy.

I was reading the Joe Jonas piece earlier this week and it got me thinking about how entertainment companies attach such a stigma to dating for young celebrities. I can't imagine it's good for the psyche.

And let's be honest, for the idol, this industry doesn't pay much anyway. I think people buy in way more for the publicity than the pay.

[steelsigns.livejournal.com]

Wasn't she together with that guy she was in a duo with? Did they break up since he had to move back to America?

[shintotchi.livejournal.com]

The title to this post makes Heejun seem more harsh than he was. He just gave his advice with the idols' well-being in mind.

[imienazwisko.livejournal.com]

i just copied mwave title :)

[shintotchi.livejournal.com]

Ah ok. Unfortunate they used that wording. :/

[yakuniku-8.livejournal.com]

i think Moon suffered from his own story but the idol world changed since his scandal.

[miwa201.livejournal.com]

i really wish idols would reveal their relationships more, it would lessen the possession some fans feel. i always liked how hara and junhyung admitted their relationship right away (despite the fact that the pics were so staged). i want to see more of this!

also idg why actors and actresses also feel the need to hide their relationships.

[ayumikoshiro.livejournal.com]

IDK I see where he is coming from. They make such a big deal about scandals and they follow the person for ever sometimes. Poor Hara brought to tears on the radio and people still loop KJK and YEH together.

On the other hand Shin MinAh and TOP you hear nothing about and Jonghyun EX is forgotten by SHAWOLS.

[skonka.livejournal.com]

Wait, Jonghyun isn't gay?
All of Shinee aren't gay?