I still don't get why k-fans felt the need to explain their reasons to i-fans, it's not like i-fans are going to understand their line of reasoning anyway

Believe that there are "complicated parts in the K-pop industry that international fans will find hard to understand", "It's not that we are falsely thinking that we have a chance to date them or something, or they are possessions of ours"



their reasoning just comes down to "I'm emotionally attached to my faves and how dare they date someone behind the fans back it's against idol/fandom culture for them to act this way, they're ruining their image~"